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Still frugaleering into Autumn.....

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Girliefriendlikesflowers · 14/09/2017 19:37

New thread for us all to chat, support each other and hopefully save some money!!

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Cagliostro · 20/09/2017 08:34

Morning all. Scan pretty good yesterday, baby average size. Confusion between ultrasound dept and antenatal resulted in me getting an appt for today which I'm pretty sure isn't necessary and MW would've been fine. So much for a quiet day at home 😡

That said at least I can get him to check if my sugars are better now, and a couple of other things. I just hope he's not as grumpy as he's appeared when I've seen him around at other clinics 🙄

I've spent £50 on flipping Bionicles. One is paid for by DS' birthday money, the other is discontinued and will be either for Christmas or the 'present from the baby'. Fecking autistic obsession 💸💸💸

SnugglySnerd · 20/09/2017 08:45

Terrible night with the babies last night. Worst in a while. Feel rubbish.
Never mind other people have it much worse. Thinking about those in Mexican earthquake.
Just need to buy some fruit today.

Laska5772 · 20/09/2017 08:54

Frozen cauli is one thing i really like makes great roasted cauli fab in soups and curries and cauli cheese. I dont buy it so much these days as the last two years we have been the Isle of Cauliflower here. All the growers went mad on cauli and the fields were full of it ..so was really cheap for huge ones here.

ememem84 · 20/09/2017 09:09

laksa nope. Eugh cauliflower. Generally not a fan. Dh spiced a while head of one a while ago and roasted it. It looked awful. Tasted ick. I'll tolerate it if it's slathered in buckets of melted cheese. But it's only tolerated.

Must remove my nail polish today. It's all chipped. I forget that normal polish does this. Sigh.

needastrongone · 20/09/2017 09:13

Grin at the Ford T comment.

Shame about the hair Collie. I'm opposite for the first time in a decade I like my hair. Had highlights put in and it's transformed it. Your hair will grow by Christmas I'm sure.

I think Superdrug do a couple of hot cloth cleansers that are great value for money if you wanted to start somewhere and not break the bank if it doesn't work out. Fluffy will know.

Still crap feeling exhausted Snuggly, whatever else is happening in the world.

I'm food shopping today, I'll pop to a few places as I've the time. I'll investigate frozen veg for sure. Pissed off with Aldi as a lot of the fruit I bought Monday is already on the turn.

Porridge with coconut water and pomegranate (needed using) was surprisingly tasty this morning.

Girliefriendlikesflowers · 20/09/2017 09:15

Morning all, have just pulled my head out of the sand and checked my bank account, it doesn't look good Sad annoyingly a cheque I wrote for dds holiday club back in July for £90 has only just come out I was secretly hoping they had binned it by mistake plus another cheque for £90 for dds school trip. That puts me firmly in the red and thats without the Morrisons shop coming out.

I have a week till pay day about £10 cash in my purse, the only spend I can think of is petrol as have about half a tank and am working all wend so thats likely to get used up.

Ugh hate being bloody skint all of the time Sad

Going to see a friend today, will be a NSD, and other than petrol the first of a week of NSDs!!

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needastrongone · 20/09/2017 09:15

Cauliflower is amazing, Em you are deeply deeply wrong Grin

I've got an appointment for my nails tomorrow but it will be free as the last lot flaked off. I'm giving them a chance as it will cost nowt, but will go elsewhere if the same thing happens.

SunnyLikeThursday · 20/09/2017 09:36

Sorry to hear about the money trouble Girlie. That sounds really frustrating. I hope it all goes smoothly for you this week.

I asked the Headmistress yesterday about this idea of the senco referring to audiology and OT and things, and apparently that's true here too. Grrr. They didn't tell me and I've been rushing around shifting for myself all this time. Thank goodness for frugaleers to divulge life's secrets. :-)

Cagliostro · 20/09/2017 09:52

Mmmmm cauliflower. One of the few veg that DS willingly eats too. I have some for trees 'n' cheese (bechamel in freezer), and for a lentil dahl with bacon.

If I roast some (it's a head of fresh not frozen) do I boil/parboil first? Small or big chunks?

ememem84 · 20/09/2017 09:56

Dh just roasted it whole cag something like this.

www.purewow.com/entry_detail/recipe/8821/Forget-florets--roast-the-whole-damn-cauliflower.htm

CollieBobs · 20/09/2017 10:08

That's good to hear sunny my friend is a "head of year 9" and he says it's quite common for children to have delayed referrals for hearing. One kid was battling on and struggling. Turned out he was quite deaf and lip reading. That was at secondary school! Bless him!

Right so the weekly shop was £62.43 Inc £4 on cat food and £3 on night time pull ups. Not bad at all!

Cagliostro · 20/09/2017 10:51

Thanks em le yum!

I had my first slice of bread in a week with breakfast (eggs avocado etc) and omfg it was lush. Hovis do a lower carb seeded loaf.

Hmmmm just had one of those automated messages on the landline like I sometimes get for my nhs appt reminders. Saying it's from HMRC and legal action will be taken if we don't reply etc. Number didn't come up as a scam number on google but then I looked up "[number] + hmrc" and got nothing so it IS a scam right? Also the fact they didn't say my/DH's name at the beginning of the message, and normally they'd write if there was an issue, even if a serious one, right?

Laska5772 · 20/09/2017 11:24

Cag I roast as florets (often sliced up from our mutantly huge island caulis!). Olive oil on baking tray ans good sprinkle of cumin . High iven for about 20 mins then take out and turn all florets . Back in for about 10 mins more ( depends on how cooked at this stage, but i like slightly browned edges on mine . Once done to your liking squeeze lemon over sprinkle with salt and black pepper ( i like a bit of chilli sauce also)and eat straight away . Le yum!!

Laska5772 · 20/09/2017 11:37

waitress yes! Anne French! and Just 17 !! Did you also get Jackie? I did.. ' Dear Cathy and Claire' was big on spots advice (and kissing your bf advice..)Grin

SunnyLikeThursday · 20/09/2017 11:37

That sounds like a scam Cag. I think they'd send a letter if there was a real problem. It's probably a premium rate number that takes the money to some scammer.

I'm meant to be running Beavers tonight. Eeep!

ememem84 · 20/09/2017 11:38

cag this was also good. although it was cauliflower my worst veg 'scuse the language...

www.google.co.uk/amp/thugkitchen.tumblr.com/post/95830537621/not-sure-if-were-allowed-to-do-this-but-fuck-it/amp

Spag Bol is on the hob bubbling away. theres probably enough there for at least 4 dinners for dh and I. So one for tonight, three for the freezer. Yay! Maternity leave: batch cooking mode activated! I've levelled up. Haha!

Feeling very uncomfortable today. Big. Heavy. And a bit stretchy crampy. at my appointment yesterday midwife said baby boy was back to back (previously had been back to front). Over night it feels as though he's spun himself around again. (Feels like he's "burrowing" down if that makes sense...!) mentioned this to midwife yesterday who said it was totally normal but ooof. I was not prepared for all this "weirdness" haha!

Laska5772 · 20/09/2017 11:39

Obviously I only started getting that mag because of the name! Wink

ememem84 · 20/09/2017 11:42

I don't think Jackie magazine was around when I was growing up... I was a fan of shout!, mizz and more! And also smash hits. We weren't allowed to read More! At home because of the "position of the month/week" bit. But friends at school and I used to club money together and buy it and keep them in our lockers.

Laska5772 · 20/09/2017 11:43

It gets weirder em ( only stops at about age 29 ive found.. not Grin)

ememem84 · 20/09/2017 11:48

laksa phew. I'm only 26 lies. All lies. Absolute lies username gives it away

Cagliostro · 20/09/2017 11:50

Thanks for further cauli ideas! I will have to try just florets first as some of the head is earmarked for other yummy things.

I googled "does HMRC send recorded messages" and what came up was scam info albeit with a different phone number. I expect they change it regularly.

Em main advice I heard AFTER DD was born back to back was that staying upright and active and not lying down too much is better to avoid b2b. I'm pretty sure she turned having been stuck on my back for a few days being induced

ememem84 · 20/09/2017 11:59

Ermagahd!!! Dominos pizza opened here today!!! Must resist takeaway pizza and it's only down the road

This is probably the biggest thing to happen here for at least a month (other than take that performing at a charity ball here at the weekend with Henry cavil in attendance...)

mammymammyIRL · 20/09/2017 12:12

seacow I'm very jealous that you have squirrels in your garden, I've only seen them in RL about three times in my lifetime Envy
When you mention birthdays I must organise something for dgs's birthday we're away for his party but dc will go their with his mom(their sister)
lifelong for my cookery magazines I got plastic edges that the magazine slots into and put them into lever arch's. link
I haven't looked at them anymore though since doing that Blush Lidl have a lovely shelf from tomorrow that I'm planning to buy and put over my sliding door in kitchen for my recipe books. This will free up a bookshelf in the dining room which I will move to dc's room for their books and it will stop clutter in dining room also.

note to self - measure width of space to ensure it'll fit

Good family planning there em I couldn't even contemplate conceiving until dd was almost 3 so there's 3.5 years between my two Grin

bacon could you return the nappies or is pack open? Well done to your dd

Bought Paralink last evening €4.49 as I had none in stock and in case ds gets a temperature like dd. Also nail strengthener for me €6.99 I don't like the feel of it on my nails but will see if it works Hmm

Ah ye mentioned Annie, it's on in the National Concert Hall at Christmas and dh says we can go!! Just waiting on family to decide if they're going too so I can book tickets, they're a reasonable €24.75 for family tickets and I love Annie Grin

dh did the grocery shopping in Aldi this week and spent €125 which is a little low, it's Wed and we're out of bread already but have enough kitchen towel and toilet roll until October Grin

tayto I'm from Connacht so can't celebrate with you Sad It was my home county that won the Hurling All Ireland two weeks ago Grin

laska I also have separate accounts for saving on ynab - Wood Pellets, Christmas and Canada. €100 leaves joint account every fri and it goes into one savings account. In Ynab it's split €25 to canada and remainder between woodpellets and Christmas. As we've bought any wood pellets we will require until approx Apr/May next year, that money may be used towards Christmas if we deem it necessary. Also I borrow from there rather than use CC.

Spotted that aldi have a set of two wire laundry baskets that are lined this week, I might get them for separating darks and coloureds in our bathroom. Currently they all go into one basket. €17 for set, not strictly needed but would make life easier and look tidier in the bathroom than current system. Hmm

Love the idea of walking to school helping bonding, dc school is 5 miles away so not a possibility Grin

cag great that you've been to your consultant and have got the go ahead to have a little more carbs than you were having, they give you energy so carbless you would have very very little energy as you saw.

Infant jaundice was something dd had as she was 15 days early, instead of phototherapy, the nurses advised me to keep her cot beside the sunny window at the hospital and this cleared it up, hers was quite mild though.

@100yearsdotcom I'm not sure of your household numbers but are there others that could help with cleaning? If it's something that's stressing you out or causing arguments it's definitely worth investing in, if only every second week or to do particular jobs for you.

It has definitely helped in our house for sure. I actually increased cleaners hours to 2.5 recently and it's a pleasure to see the difference in my own room and the dc's now that they've been added on to her jobs.

yum must check out once upon a time, actually em have you any recommendations I know you enjoy tv series

need thanks - we're planning another in march and this one again next year, I may try conquer the june one too, the hilly local one. A girl who lives in uk who I ran with recently on our beach wants to do it.

em your curry sounds delicious, I've some spinach that needs using up, and chicken fillets defrosting, and a cold which spices always help with, so that may be what I'll make tonight Smilele yum

I'm a frozen veg fan too, although frozen peppers only good in bolognese or stews etc not stirfries really

em that would not be funny at the time if petrol ran out, but your dh probably would find it funny to tell ds in years to come Grin Since I got a fuel card I just fill up car every three weeks unless it's running low in between times.

Interesting reading about skincare as this was previously not an issue for me because I only drink water, my skin just always is smooth and glowing, not boasting, just it has been. However last few weeks it's not been great. It's been dry and the occasional white head that hurts as it's forming. Possibly my period is thinking about returning maybe?

I've got a little bottle of palmers left since I was expecting ds, it came in a baby pack, I find the smell overpowering and it makes me want chocolate Grin

Have to agree with em re cauliflower, but then there are quite a few veg I don't like - anything mashed, turnip, peas(ok in curry/carbonara but only recently) parsnips, cauliflower, potato

and now I'm finally up to date - although I'm only two years older than you em I remember just 17 more than more and mizz being popular. I only started getting more when I was 15 and earning my own money Smile

ememem84 · 20/09/2017 12:28

mammy oh yes just 17! That one too!

SnugglySnerd · 20/09/2017 13:07

Ooh I love cauliflower. Also loved all those mags. Does anyone remember More? All the giggling in VI form over Position of the Fortnight!

Feel like I'm wading through treacle today. DH can't get home from work soon enough!

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