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The Fantastic Frugalleers Meander into May.....

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Girliefriendlikesflowers · 25/05/2016 14:38

Thought it was about time I started a new thread Grin

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Girliefriendlikesflowers · 18/06/2016 22:11

Hi all, had a lovely day.

Looked after my niece this afternoon who is 2.6yo and so cute it hurts! There was a summer fair thing on in town so went to that.

Spends.
£2 parking
£4 rides
£5 fish n chips for dinner

think that was it, not too bad and we made the most of the free activities.

Cag well done Star

Am feeling a bit bad reading your fathers day spends as I haven't got my dad anything this year Blush well I did get him a nice card and out some nice words in from me and dd but didn't get him a gift, am just too skint hopefully he will understand.

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Tryingtosaveup · 18/06/2016 22:15

Hope you're enjoying Ascot Em, say hello to the queen. Wonder if she sits up in bed on this thread?
Which one of you is she?

Tryingtosaveup · 18/06/2016 22:35

Apologies Em for being late with the thread....I should say congrats at winning
Yay, Girlie, brilliant
Congrats Cag., your new you is working out well

Ememem84 · 18/06/2016 22:40

I did actually see the queen. Not just on the tv. She looked so lovely. And happy. Smile🏇👑

blueteapot · 18/06/2016 22:41

Hi everyone! Back from our holiday in Spain, sad to be back but time to get back on the straight and narrow :)

Congratulations girlie and well done cag!

I am watching the catch up of versailles - anyone else into period drama?

WreckTangled · 19/06/2016 06:56

Don't worry girlie I don't usually get my dad anything. This year I got him a £7.99 doorstop I though it was a pheasant but apparently it's a turkey. It made me laugh though and he loved it. Dh got a card from the dc and a new addition to the Father's Day book which hardly cost anything.

Today is dd's party we've only paid the deposit so owe another £180 luckily Dh has put money aside for that.

Welcome back blue and audit Smile

babsmam · 19/06/2016 07:17

Phew audit.
Glad you and blue had a good holiday.
Going to IKEA today. After church.

Ememem84 · 19/06/2016 07:26

girlie get packing!!!! So exciting, good luck!

cag great news re the book!

lilac cute cat babies -

I've just woken up. It's sunny here in London today. Shane it wasn't sunny yesterday...but at least it didn't rain.

It was lovely seeing everyone all dressed up yesterday. My friend who came with us (and organised everything) was desperate to have a proper British afternoon (she's french). So. We had afternoon tea at Ascot (£35pp including champagne which, considering the amount of food we had between the 6 of us was super good value, and delicious), drank pimms, saw the queen, joined in with signing at the bandstand after the races and then stopped at the cheese on toast van for cheese of toast and tea for the train. Very civilised. Not even going to think about the total cost of our day out (tickets flights hotel etc) but it was absolutely worth it. Such a lovely day.
Except I was stood up in wedges all day. My poor feet and hurting so much!!!

Today I think I'm going to drag Dh to primark (I need some new ballet pumps) and then we might go to the Tate modern after lunch. Flight is at 7.

lilacclery · 19/06/2016 07:53

Girlie I'm not seeing my father for two weeks his gift will wait until then.

Dh's car door cost €120 i had given him €60 of it so €60 more to go & it will cost €50 to spray it white.

Em your day at Ascot sounds fab enjoy the time in London today it's usually work you're there for so this will make a nice change.

Welcome back blue & audit
Enjoy dd party wreck

Today will be a nsd we're having a day at home

Ursulatodd · 19/06/2016 08:39

Morning all! Me, dh and dd are on a mini-break 'babymoon'! It's been fairly pricey but as we've had to cancel our family holiday this summer, feel it's justified!

Because life is being fairly spendy atm, inspired by a blog I subscribe to, thought I'd think of the small frugal things I've done this week to make myself feel like I'm at least heading in the right direction!

  1. we were charged a child's ticket for an open top bus tour yesterday. DD is 4 and charged don't apply until age 5 so we rang the main office and schlepped back to the beginning for a refund.
  2. asked for table water with lunch rather than bought drinks.
  3. have been adding potential gifts to Amazon wish list for DD for Christmas. Not just for us but for my mum too as everyone went ott last year.
  4. have worked out how much childcare is going to cost us in the first year (close to 9k Shock) and am starting to save for it now - will be aiming to get a 'year in hand'
  5. dh's Father's Day present is a day out for him and DD in s couple of weeks - sneakily securing a free day to myself!!
Taytocrisps · 19/06/2016 12:37

Just did a quick catch up on the weekend posts.

lilac that was the mother of all catch ups Smile

Girlie so excited for you about your moving date! Don't worry about not buying for your Dad for Father's Day this year. I'm sure he'll understand that moving into your new home is an expensive time and I'm equally sure he'll be happy and relieved to see you settled in your own home.

babs congrats to your DD. Hope you enjoyed the day and it wasn't too stressful catering for a big group.

Cag that taxi driver sounds lovely. A little bit of kindness goes a long way.

Em Ascot sounds amazing. Enjoy the rest of your London trip.

north sounds like a nice break with your family. Very jealous of your baby cuddles. I don't have any babies around me for cuddles Sad. My nieces and nephews are well past that stage.

audit sounds like a busy time between the Netherlands and then the wedding in Spain

Trying your comment about the queen posting on the frulaeers' threads made me laugh Grin. I doubt it somehow!

Wreck hope DD enjoys her birthday party

It's been an expensive weekend as we needed a babysitter for Friday night (rare night out) and I also had to buy Fathers' Day presents for my Dad and DH. I got Dad a book ('My Family and Other Animals' by Gerald Durrell) and a small box of chocolates. I got DH a Star Wars card collecting folder and some cards. Also a hip flask with 'The Best Dad in the World' printed on it. The presents themselves weren't overly expensive (approx. €20 each) but the cards and gift bags added considerably to the cost. For convenience I just popped into the stationery shop near my workplace (Easons). Next time I need to allow a bit more time to buy these items in the Euro shop at a fraction of the cost.

I was watching a programme on Irish TV called 'My Money and Me'. It's a series but I think I just caught the last episode. It featured a lady in her early 60s who is self employed and, as a consequence, her income fluctuates. She has no debts but also has no pension or savings. When they asked how she plans to fund her retirement, she said that she likes her work and will probably work for the rest of her life Shock. They advised her to start saving for her retirement and advised her to cut back in the following areas:- (1) her car. She drives a luxury car with higher tax, insurance, maintenance costs etc., (2) her spending on others (she buys a lot of presents for her family in the US and also for her grandson) and (3) her postage costs (she regularly posts parcels to her family in the US). They advised her to post parcels less often and choose lighter presents as it reduces the delivery costs. The state pension in Ireland (non-contributory) is €220 a week so the programme makers gave the lady this sum to live on (minus €100 for bills) and she managed fairly well on the remaining €120 but had to make a conscious effort not to buy for others.

Anyway, it got me thinking about my pension plans (or lack of). I have an occupational pension but it won't be very large as I work part-time. I don't think DH has a pension at all. I think most people in Ireland have found the austerity measures very tough going and have been just about managing to pay their mortgage/rent and bills. Planning for the future has been very low down on their list of priorities. Something to think about though.

It was an interesting programme and I think I'll see if any of the others are on RTE Player.

Anyway, enjoy the rest of your weekend everyone. It's spilling rain here. Hope the sun is shining where you are.

PurpleRibbons · 19/06/2016 12:58

Got your pm fluffy, thanks. I think I replied but my phone went all weird so please can you let me know if you received my reply? Didn't want you to think I was ignoring you if it didn't send!

ipsogenix · 19/06/2016 14:13

Hello :-)

I'm afraid I'm hopelessly behind on the thread. Ds and I were at our street party yesterday and ds had a wonderful time. Lots of water pistol fighting and he learned to go on his rollerskates without me holding him up. Today we are both knackered, and as ds says "crabby as a crab with 40 legs." It was a good day though.

I hope it's going okay there. I've just totally lost track. Still very interested in the referendum, but not spending much money as a result, which is good.

lilacclery · 19/06/2016 14:46

Tayto that wasn't a bad oul catchup yourself Grin
Must check out that program it sounds really interesting

CremeEggThief · 19/06/2016 15:06

It does indeed.

Fluffy, I have just emailed the CEO of UK Power Energy to complain about the missing cashback I was supposed to get within 12 weeks of switching on the 18th February, through Topcashback, AND that the complaints team hasn't acknowledged my complaint about it that I emailed them on the 9th June. I'm feeling all fired up now.Angry So sick of the way we are treated as customers! Don't use UK Power, everyone!!

AuditAngel · 19/06/2016 16:06

£1.55 today buying DS and DD1 a chocolate bar each after swimming. £8 for a bag for DD2. Bought one yesterday as a gift for DD1 to take to a party. DD2 loved it, so bought one for her.

babsmam · 19/06/2016 16:34

£650 in Dfs. £38 in the range

Fluffycloudland77 · 19/06/2016 17:13

I hope you get compensated creme

£20 towards a safe for valuables.
78p pig liver. Liver is a proper super food so I will learn to love it.
£4 anti histamine syrup.

Whataboutwhathuh · 19/06/2016 17:44

£12 on McDonald's for dh for breakfast. Wouldn't be my choice but sometimes it's passable. I had the bacon roll and took out all the fat so it wasn't too diet shattering. We went to the zoo which we have passes for and spent time in the soft play there.

PurpleRibbons · 19/06/2016 17:58

Low spend day, bought drinks and cakes at local NT place. Made soup for lunch and used stale end of loaf to make croutons so that was frugal at least!

Fluffycloudland77 · 19/06/2016 18:19

Got it purple.

Girliefriendlikesflowers · 19/06/2016 18:34

Hi all, started packing today Shock mostly dds bedroom which I knew would be a mission (it was) have managed to take some more stuff to the charity shop and bag up 2 bags of books which I will donate to her school.

Its a start at least.

Dd managed to pull a tooth out earlier eating a fruit gum Shock it wasn't even that wobbly!!

Lsd £3.05 on a couple of additional bits needed for dds pack lunch tomorrow (its the London trip.) Have also got some cash out to give dd as spending money, have told her to spend it wisely and not buy rubbish for the sake of it!!

Otherwise have kept it fairly quiet today , aiming to get dd into bed early....

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lilacclery · 19/06/2016 18:36

This is my food day all at home!
Nsd & got out for a run very Smile

Did some virtual spending or budgeting on my next car but that's not until next year

The Fantastic Frugalleers Meander into May.....
WreckTangled · 19/06/2016 18:41

Dd's party went well. I've had too much champagne and might need to go to bed soon. ShockBlush

lilacclery · 19/06/2016 18:46

Brilliant news on the packing girlie I've avoided tidying my room for long enough and going to make an attempt now while dc are watching a barbie dvd.

Collected my sketchers yesterday & think going down a size would be advisable alright, they fit but feel like they would come off easily

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