Happy Birthday Creme 
Em Herbs and peppers (hot and sweet) would be my suggestions. Or courgettes, if you pick early, they will crop and crop. Tomatoes take up too much room imho. Re banks, you wouldn't need to close the HSBC account to open up a new one. We have our main current account with M&S and a swapped pretty much everything over, but I do use the old Lloyds one too for a couple of DD's and savings, as our mortgage is with them.
Wolf Meal planning when you are rushed off your feet is really really hard, I know this for sure!
Sorry collie, I can't make the comparison re fuel living here for you.
Ipos Shame the sports club wasn't suitable. Of the reasons why, I personally would think that parents no being allowed to stay is the least concerning. I used to drop and leave my DC with a very cheerful 'you will be totally fine', but sneak back 10 minutes before the end and spy somewhere, to check and ease my concerns. I really think they gauge their reactions to situations by your own, so I never showed any anxiousness, so they never thought to have any, if that makes sense!! A little independence is A Good Thing, even if they are a touch worried by a new situation. But totally agree that it doesn't seem this particular club would suit your DS.
I'm off to get some bread now as we have a competition tomorrow and we are making bacon butties when we get there. I need some cash, but this is budgeted for.