So many posts since I came back on Saturday!
So ill start from here, but just reading back a small bit ,
Hi Spotty Thorness Bay is about as far away from me as you can get on the island.. Im on the west end, not far from the Needles .. I do know the site though and my friend used to clean there, ill ask her about it , but I think it has a pretty good reputation. Will you have a car? . the buses here are quite expensive and if you are using them it would be best to get a weekly 'rover' ticket , (look up Southern Vectis , the bus company, website) . Also I dont have small children , and DGS is a little too small to bother about going out much when he comes here, . but ill also ask some people at work for recommendations..
Dinosaur Isle in Sandown , comes to mind as a place to go and the beach at Sandown is sandy ,Also there is a good Roman Villa at Brading if they like that sort of thing , and Ryde has one of the biggest sandy beaches around , you can safely walk right out when the tide is down and Ryde has quite a lot of fun things to do with little ones , (also an Ice rink!).
if your kids are older and like being out doors you should find loads of things to do , hope the weather is good for you , the island is a pretty outdoorsy place ..
West Wight ( where I live) has stunning countryside , but beaches are not sandy (except Colwell bay) however , Compton Bay has dinosaur footprints onthe beach , and there are guided walks and fossil hunt walks ( check the Dinosaur isle website)
so back to Frugaleering:
I have paid off the Christmas credit card (was bugetted for so came out of savings)
But this month will be a bit stiff, as have House insurance to pay out for and am still waiting for the cheque i paid for boiler repairs to be cashed ( it died on us a couple of days before Christmas , but luckily I got it fixed in time though it cost us £279 unplanned for ) but am now back to square one with the budget , and we should be ok for this month. But we do need a new fridge freezer, ours is making weird noises , so thats another thing to come out of reserves
But now at lease i do have a (small) reserve fund . This time last year I was in such a different place, in debt. always overdrawn , but what helped ( and its obvious really , but I had never managed it before ) was having a spreadsheet (YNAB in my case) and writing down everything i bought and needed to get for the month on that ,
AND (and this was where I always fell down before - DUH!) ONLY taking what the spreadsheet said I had in the bank as the real amount of money available and NOT what was actually in the bank!..
So stupid , but for all these years before starting YNAB, I had relied just on looking at my bank balance , thinking 'oh its ok I have £300' and spending THAT.. ( and of course then finding that id spent the money twice or three times over ..
You know i'm quite intelligent in other ways , can work out cause and effect with other things but somehow never applied that to my money. and then ended up overdrawn, in hock to credit card everymonth , so silly really .
oh yes, we have to pay for out holiday , flights etc , also but thats budgetted for ..
.. but DH is retiring this year , so it will be out last expensive hol in a villa I think . (we have the campervan plan in the making, from my pension money for the future !)