...you do a big shop, you pay for the service of dh's economic little scooter, your ds' birthday present .....
.... and then that's that?
I'm not really moaning - dh was out of work for a couple of years during which time we were £200 under before we'd even bought food - God alone knows how we survived that. These days there is money left over - wine will be drunk, nobody will starve.
But it doesn't half fly out of the acount.