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Myths re lockdown was wrong

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Betsyhilton · 21/10/2023 20:10

Just seen someone on another thread basically trying to claim that lockdown didnt reduce deaths. The contested John Hopkins survey seems to be encouraging people who basically behaved selfishly, ignored medical advice and did what they liked to now claim retrospectively that they just knew lockdown was wrong.

AIBU to think these are just basically selfish irresponsible people who ignored official advice at the time because it caused them inconvenience and are now jumping on any theory to try to justify their self centred behavior?

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MichelleScarn · 21/10/2023 23:52

@Didshejustsaythatoutloud do you work and do your patients and all their contacts live in a fully aseptic environment? How do they manage and did they manage with all the other viruses pre covid?

tpxqi · 21/10/2023 23:53

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 21/10/2023 23:48

I've worked with more Chinese researchers than you've had hot dinners. Theirs is a very face-saving, claiming every thing is fine and targets will be met when they are actually miles behind schedule, culture. When Covid started, they tried to pretend that nothing was wrong at first FFS!

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I AM a Chinese scientist. Don’t tell me what my culture is or isn’t. Ignorance at its finest.

Electro79 · 21/10/2023 23:55

Lockdown was a financial and social disaster, as for covid, it did exactly what previous pandemics have done in terms of waves of infection, diminishing in severity over a period of 3 years and now finally starting to show the beginnings of a seasonal bias, this mirrors practically every respiratory pandemic for which any records survive. The early waves bring a lot of death, thats just a sad fact of life. The first lockdown may well of prevented or deferred some deaths, but actions thereafter seem to have done very little other than causing significant collateral harms.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 21/10/2023 23:55

tpxqi · 21/10/2023 23:53

I AM a Chinese scientist. Don’t tell me what my culture is or isn’t. Ignorance at its finest.

Have you worked with Westerners much? Culture is a comparative thing.

My point being that what we see as "face-saving" might not seem that way to you, just as you might think that some of the things we consider normal are odd to you.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 21/10/2023 23:55

MichelleScarn · 21/10/2023 23:52

@Didshejustsaythatoutloud do you work and do your patients and all their contacts live in a fully aseptic environment? How do they manage and did they manage with all the other viruses pre covid?

Eeermm, people get ill aside from their primary illness and have to attend A&E!! .

HelinaHandcart · 21/10/2023 23:58

tpxqi · 21/10/2023 23:50

no need for the mental gymnastics. You can’t re write history.

A simple analogy isn’t mental gymnastics. I’m sorry if simple concepts are beyond you, but I’m sure you’re a really great scientist.

Rudderneck · 22/10/2023 00:01

Dymaxion · 21/10/2023 22:34

Lockdown showed that mental health is not biological.

Bit controversial that one !

It's not really.

Study after study has shown the most important thing to protect against mental health problems is a very strong, close knit community life. And also that when people do suffer mental illness the outcomes are miles better in those scenarios.

This has been known for many years.

Mortimermay · 22/10/2023 00:06

tpxqi · 21/10/2023 23:40

To be honest bedwetters is a very kind analogy. Shrieking, hysterical chest beaters is more apt.

To be honest, the only one shrieking and hysterically beating their chest on this thread appears to be you.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 22/10/2023 00:09

Rudderneck · 22/10/2023 00:01

It's not really.

Study after study has shown the most important thing to protect against mental health problems is a very strong, close knit community life. And also that when people do suffer mental illness the outcomes are miles better in those scenarios.

This has been known for many years.

The outcomes for physical health conditions are miles better when the patient has a supportive community.

But just as a supportive community can't stop you from breaking a leg or being born with spina bifida, it can't stop you from developing depression or being born autistic.

My autism assessor literally told me that I was born autistic. Claiming that it's environmental in origin is basically blaming my parents for somehow bringing me up the "wrong way" when its glaringly obvious that I inherited my autism from my dad.

Also, supportive communities don't have to be geographical. The Women's Network where I worked during lockdown invited a speaker to talk about autistic women and girls and, because it was lockdown, it was all on Zoom. I wouldn't have been able to tear myself away from the workshop for long enough to go to a physical seminar, but WFH I was able to dial in and attend. It was that that prompted me to consider that I might be autistic and ask for a diagnostic assessment.

HelinaHandcart · 22/10/2023 00:13

My goodness, people are arguing that China OVERstated the number of Covid deaths?

Just loopy.

stayflufft · 22/10/2023 00:16

bakewellbride · 21/10/2023 20:29

I didn't bother with any of the restrictions/ masks or anything. It seemed stupid and pointless to me then and I still think the same. No regrets and I don't care what anyone else thinks of me! I put my toddler son and his well-being and social development before anything else and if that makes me 'selfish' well then so be it.

People were so busy 'staying safe' and now permanent damage has been caused by this. Children with speech delays due to all the masks and childhood health in general worse due to RSV / more illness about and poorer immune systems. Also many too scared to seek medical help in the first lockdown so now lots of heart problems under the radar that should've been treated. It's predicted this will have big repercussions in 2030. Young children struggling at school. I knew some who kept their toddler away from absolutely EVERYBODY- zero exceptions- for an entire year and it has fucked their child and his brain development up so much. I used to see him trying to climb out of living room window In desperation.

I could honestly go on. Lots of people got caught up in the madness.

You are selfish and irresponsible. You’re also misinformed - not everyone who kept their toddler at home for a year has damaged their development. My child is thriving - and he saw no-one but myself and DH for a year due to shielding.

Pussygaloregalapagos · 22/10/2023 00:18

They probably should have let covid run its course. The world does benefit from such plagues, natural disasters and even wars to help with population control and reduce strain on resources. Sad though it is for the individuals concerned.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 22/10/2023 00:20

HelinaHandcart · 22/10/2023 00:13

My goodness, people are arguing that China OVERstated the number of Covid deaths?

Just loopy.

Same poster on another thread thinks that all famines are man-made. Obviously unaware that drought and cold snaps are completely beyond human control. Has never been an allotment gardener, much less a farmer. We are not dealing with an informed individual here.

Electro79 · 22/10/2023 00:20

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 22/10/2023 00:09

The outcomes for physical health conditions are miles better when the patient has a supportive community.

But just as a supportive community can't stop you from breaking a leg or being born with spina bifida, it can't stop you from developing depression or being born autistic.

My autism assessor literally told me that I was born autistic. Claiming that it's environmental in origin is basically blaming my parents for somehow bringing me up the "wrong way" when its glaringly obvious that I inherited my autism from my dad.

Also, supportive communities don't have to be geographical. The Women's Network where I worked during lockdown invited a speaker to talk about autistic women and girls and, because it was lockdown, it was all on Zoom. I wouldn't have been able to tear myself away from the workshop for long enough to go to a physical seminar, but WFH I was able to dial in and attend. It was that that prompted me to consider that I might be autistic and ask for a diagnostic assessment.

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Whilst you are correct in saying that you can't develop autism, it is something you are born with, the same cannot be said of depression and anxiety, some people are more pre-disposed to develop those conditions, but everyone has the potential to develop them given the right conditions.

Lockdown dialled up anxiety to 11 for many people. I have suffered from anxiety most of my life and am used to it, the lockdown and covid strangely had no effect on my baseline, but many who I know who previously suffered no anxiety have overtaken me and are still on medication/receiving treatment today.

ClairDeLaLune · 22/10/2023 00:26

Without lockdown the NHS would have been completely overwhelmed, hard-working NHS staff would have been mentally and physically destroyed and many more of the general public would have died. Anyone denying this is a thick twat frankly.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 22/10/2023 00:27

Electro79 · 22/10/2023 00:20

Whilst you are correct in saying that you can't develop autism, it is something you are born with, the same cannot be said of depression and anxiety, some people are more pre-disposed to develop those conditions, but everyone has the potential to develop them given the right conditions.

Lockdown dialled up anxiety to 11 for many people. I have suffered from anxiety most of my life and am used to it, the lockdown and covid strangely had no effect on my baseline, but many who I know who previously suffered no anxiety have overtaken me and are still on medication/receiving treatment today.

I'd argue that for some people, depression and anxiety are inevitable. For example, autistics living unsupported in a neurotypical world. I certainly can't remember a time before suicidal ideation, as in, wondering how much it would hurt if I [redacted method to avoid mod deletion] and was I brave enough to face the pain if it meant never going to (primary) school again? So I'd argue that I was born autistic and probably also born depressed.

Rudderneck · 22/10/2023 00:28

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 22/10/2023 00:09

The outcomes for physical health conditions are miles better when the patient has a supportive community.

But just as a supportive community can't stop you from breaking a leg or being born with spina bifida, it can't stop you from developing depression or being born autistic.

My autism assessor literally told me that I was born autistic. Claiming that it's environmental in origin is basically blaming my parents for somehow bringing me up the "wrong way" when its glaringly obvious that I inherited my autism from my dad.

Also, supportive communities don't have to be geographical. The Women's Network where I worked during lockdown invited a speaker to talk about autistic women and girls and, because it was lockdown, it was all on Zoom. I wouldn't have been able to tear myself away from the workshop for long enough to go to a physical seminar, but WFH I was able to dial in and attend. It was that that prompted me to consider that I might be autistic and ask for a diagnostic assessment.

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Yes, actually, the research does show that a close knit community can prevent many mh problems, particularly things like depression.

Autism isn't a mental health disorder so it's pretty irrelevant here.

Fionaville · 22/10/2023 00:30

slore · 21/10/2023 23:37

@Fionaville if there was a new virus with an extremely high fatality rate, I would still take my chances over suffering the misery and destruction of useless lockdowns.

I am passed caring, and it's not my responsibility to stop anyone else catching a virus.

Bedwetters can hibernate in their own homes.

Would they be 'bedwetters' still if the mortality rate was high and it was mainly effecting children? Would you still sneer and refuse to lockdown, if lots of children were dying? I'm just curious to know the limits of people who say "Never again" Does it mean never again for a similar virus or never again no matter the severity and who it was killing?

Lookingatthesunset · 22/10/2023 00:36

Pretendthatwearedead · 21/10/2023 20:29

I think all the people shouting 'just stay at home' were selfish bastards.

Wise up. They were the sensible ones.

Lookingatthesunset · 22/10/2023 00:39

Grapewrath · 21/10/2023 20:42

I actually can’t believe that people still believe the ‘stay home save
lives’ message.. especially after party gate. I worked through both lockdowns but the second I didn’t comply and I’m glad I didn’t.

You were both selfish and foolish.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 22/10/2023 00:40

Rudderneck · 22/10/2023 00:28

Yes, actually, the research does show that a close knit community can prevent many mh problems, particularly things like depression.

Autism isn't a mental health disorder so it's pretty irrelevant here.

On the flipside, a dysfunctional community, such as an abusive family or a cult, will make anxiety and depression worse.

Research also indicates that for autistic people, masking to interact with this "supportive community" causes anxiety and stress and that we get feelings of worthlessness when we get social interactions with neurotypicals "wrong".

I'm going to stick with very structured hobbies and otherwise isolation. It works for me.

Electro79 · 22/10/2023 00:41

ClairDeLaLune · 22/10/2023 00:26

Without lockdown the NHS would have been completely overwhelmed, hard-working NHS staff would have been mentally and physically destroyed and many more of the general public would have died. Anyone denying this is a thick twat frankly.

Possibly in the first lockdown, although there is pretty compelling data to show the infection rate was already peaking by the time it was introduced in march 2020. Infectious respiratory diseases create peak and trough "wave" patterns of infection irrespective of what we try to do to contain them due to the poorly understood concept of so called "herd immunity" better described as population immunity, which kicks in to temporarily inhibit spread of a given disease causing a fall, this then wanes or is countered by variation and increases again.

tpxqi · 22/10/2023 00:44

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 22/10/2023 00:20

Same poster on another thread thinks that all famines are man-made. Obviously unaware that drought and cold snaps are completely beyond human control. Has never been an allotment gardener, much less a farmer. We are not dealing with an informed individual here.

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You know they have lost the argument when they become so invested that they start researching your threads. Obsessed much? It’s not healthy and certainly doesn’t do much to back up your intellect. Try harder.

therealcookiemonster · 22/10/2023 00:45

people can say or think what they like but unless they were working in the front line dealing with huge number of patients in respiratory distress - they are just unfounded opinions.

yes for sure harm was done. the lockdowns could have been more well planned and targeted. they also could have started earlier and entry into the country better regulated. and the bottom line is we have one of the lowest number of beds per 100 000 people in all of Europe so our ability to deal with the crisis was very poor.

there is good hard data out there, but the media spins it as they like.

ACGTHelix · 22/10/2023 00:47

therealcookiemonster · 22/10/2023 00:45

people can say or think what they like but unless they were working in the front line dealing with huge number of patients in respiratory distress - they are just unfounded opinions.

yes for sure harm was done. the lockdowns could have been more well planned and targeted. they also could have started earlier and entry into the country better regulated. and the bottom line is we have one of the lowest number of beds per 100 000 people in all of Europe so our ability to deal with the crisis was very poor.

there is good hard data out there, but the media spins it as they like.

and it does not help when the public's believe what they want to, just because they think it was x, without studying all the available information.