Yes to the "looking on in horror" type sentiment - for some there is some horror, others slight bewilderment and others somewhere between disbelief and envy (not suggesting there is loads of envy - I hate that arrogant concept and Australia's government have said too many times the word "envy" - but there is a little among a few, for instance my cousin, a travel agent, who is not particularly risk averse and does want to get on with things).
The main thing that causes the bewilderment is that fetishising of cases that can happen. We do that here a bit too of course, but if you do live in the UK you at least realise that many of those positives are from asymptomatic lateral flows for work, post holiday PCRs, no idea I had it but had to have a scan on my ankle and the swabbed me before they'd see me type scenarios.
It seems over there you get a PCR if you have symptoms, or perhaps if you have visited an exposure site or been a close contact but obviously the criteria is different here.
When my daughter got it they immediately assumed she was very ill and I had to put them straight and say no, she's 11, and doesn't have any symptoms at all. "How did she find out then" etc and I had to explain how her bubble at school burst and I tested her out of curiosity. My brother in Western Australia could not understand why the dentist would perform a tooth extraction on her on her 2nd day out of quarantine after "recovering". And he couldn't fathom us going to Europe on holiday the following month, or that we didn't go on to get it, which I admit was lucky!
It's all mindset really - in terms of personal mindset, it is shaped by what's around you, your own particular perception of risk and your news sources so there's no right or wrong really but the one thing we are all going to have to accept eventually is that it is here to stay.