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Did you wait to hug your loved ones until it was govt permitted?

115 replies

Honey12346 · 21/06/2021 18:26

I'm just curious really. The govt permitted hugs on May 17th I think. Did you wait until then to hug family and friends?

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kowari · 21/06/2021 21:36

No, I've hugged those who wanted to hug me and still haven't hugged others who are still worried. Only personal consent matters, I do not consider the government to be any authority on hugging.

ContextIsKey · 21/06/2021 21:44

I think most people chose not to hug because of the risks involved, not to do with whether Boris said it was ok. Everyone I know hugged certain people but not, for example, elderly relatives etc

ThornAmongstRoses · 21/06/2021 21:53

Nope.

I’ve been hugging a lot of people for a long time.

nowayjose2 · 21/06/2021 22:03

@Honey12346

I'm just curious really. The govt permitted hugs on May 17th I think. Did you wait until then to hug family and friends?
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LadyCatStark · 21/06/2021 22:05

Yes but because I’m not a hugger not because of Covid restrictions 😂 still haven’t hugged anyone outside of my immediate family and I’ve only just noticed!

cupsofcoffee · 21/06/2021 22:12

Nope - fuck that shit Grin

BirdsandBeesmakinghay · 21/06/2021 22:14

No.

TheMawisbraw · 21/06/2021 22:14

I find the whole concept of hugging people that are not your kids or partner really really bizarre. Maybe it’s coz I’m Glaswegian but if went round and hugged my parents or sister they would drop dead with shock. My brain can’t fathom that people are out there in the world wanting to hug folk that they didn’t birth or shag

bellamountain · 21/06/2021 22:15

Maybe people that did were the ones who jumped into the road or rivers so they didn't have to walk past someone.

Passthepepper · 21/06/2021 22:16

No, of course not. I’m still aghast that people didn’t hug their nearest and dearest because of ‘‘the rules’
And yes also did a full illegal family Christmas

irregularegular · 21/06/2021 22:19

Mostly. Apart from when my sister was diagnosed with cancer.

PrincessesRUs · 21/06/2021 22:20

No

Slub · 21/06/2021 22:27

No

gurglebelly · 21/06/2021 22:32

No, I got married at the end of April and despite best intentions emotions overtook on the day...

greenlynx · 21/06/2021 22:49

I hug DD and DH but all my relatives are not in UK so I don’t need to make this choice. I haven’t seen them for nearly 2 years and won’t see them at least until next spring. We will definitely hug next time (on arrival) but no more than that. We are a bit like TheMawisbraw’s family. The concept of hugging friends is completely lost on me. I mean occasionally, if they are very upset, but not in everyday life. So my hugging pattern is not affected by the government.

BlondeCornish · 21/06/2021 22:50

No, absolutely not.

wheresmymojo · 21/06/2021 22:52

Yes

TheKeatingFive · 21/06/2021 22:55

Nope. The government doesn’t dictate who I hug.

Biscoffin · 21/06/2021 22:56

Yes. I didn’t see most of my family for months, and we limited contact with most people. We didn’t bubble up with anyone either.

RolloTomassi · 21/06/2021 23:03

No, I never stopped.

Makegoodchoices · 21/06/2021 23:08

I need people to stop trying to hug me now. Just because you’re allowed doesn’t mean I want to! It was a nice break from the air kiss nonsense too!

HeddaGarbled · 21/06/2021 23:09

We’re not really a huggy family (adults), so it didn’t make much difference to us. I’m still not hugging friends. The only people I hug are in my household.

Scarby9 · 21/06/2021 23:16

@Smartiepants79
I work in primary and secondary schools so have generally been the biggest threat as a potential carrier to other family and friends. I only went indoors at my parents and hugged them at Christmas after isolating for 10 days, although now we are all double jabbed, and I am LFTing twice weekly, I do visit and hug them without isolation now.

As well as not wanting to be responsible for passing the virus to anyone else, I also need to avoid being forced to isolate through close contact with others beyond what I am already doing through my job and supporting my parents.

I am seeing other people, meeting up for lunch etc, but still avoiding any close contact.

bumbleymummy · 21/06/2021 23:36

No.

Maddermax · 21/06/2021 23:41

No and I am finished with social distancing now whether it comes back or not.

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