Kittykaboodle
Not being able to go on holiday abroad. Terrible. What an awful life we all have. Some people had to live through 2 world wars and the Great Depression. Some people are living in a war right now.
Stop having your own self-pity party and grow up.“
Not sure if that was in reply to my post, it came immediately thereafter?
We’re not going anywhere this year, quite happy to holiday in the UK in the autumn.
My CEV husband and I have had a very easy time of it though, these past 14 months. We have a large house, gardens, worked from home
It was all pretty crap for our asthmatic (though unfortunately not bad enough, apparently, to be vaccinated, just enough to frighten him) 18 year old who had, because of his dad, to lockdown with us though. If he had had the chance to make any friends these past 14 months, I would happily pay for a holiday for he and his mates. But he hasn’t. He stayed home to save elderly, vulnerable strangers who are now going on cruises while he awaits his vaccination.
.Our daughter and son in law with their first baby born in 2020 didn’t exactly have a ball either, but they’re not complaining. He cries when he sees strangers. But hey, they saved lives, whoohoo!
My parents lived through London in WW2. Mum was born in September, 1939. Her mum refused to send her away because she would t leave her other three daughters, 14, 27 and 29 behind. They survived and are sanguine and grasp life bumpy both hands. MThey have spent many happy years in Africa. I have had to point out to them that they shouldn’t travel there until the local population is vaccinated. Which they won’t.
So many people though have every right to complain, they have had the most appalling time these past 14 months and I wouldn’t for a moment begrudge then an overseas holiday.
Think medical staff, bus drivers, delivery drivers, retail workers. One of my brothers in law will probably die in the next few months. He has an 18 year old son and nearly 16 year old son and daughter twins. He has prostate cancer which in normal times would have been detected soon enough to save his life. This was said to him in a matter of fact way by his oncologist. They are planning a trip to the Canary Islands this summer, where they’ve holidayed since the children were born. Some of their happiest times were spent there.
Presumably, you begrudge that too?
Just go lock yourself up in your secure little cupboard. While you’re there, maybe think about other people who’s lives differ from yours.