PIL want to us to go on vacation with them to Spain for first two weeks of August. They are offering to pay; we would only need to pay for our expenses and COVID tests. Extremely generous and kind of them, but I feel really torn.
They are 70+ and will be vaccinated. Me and DP are under 50 with young kids. So at most DP and I will have had one vaccination. Kids are too young to wear masks in the airport or plane. I’m debating whether I will have vaccine yet as I’m still breast feeding (MIL disapproves of BF, and would not hesitate to tell me to stop so I can have the vaccine).
If there was even the slightest risk of ending up in hotel quarantine I would not go on the holiday and their money would be wasted, DP agrees. Personally I doubt we’ll be allowed to go anyway so the money would be wasted, I’ve told DP to check they realise flying on hols is unlikely, but it’s their money to waste and they insist everything will be fine.
Should I let them book the holiday even though I’m anxious about them wasting their money and also anxious about travelling? Am I being selfish if I say no? Kids and DP would love the holiday. We can’t afford to book UK holiday ourselves and PIL refused to do a UK Holiday when we suggested it.