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Feels like Government has abandoned us

79 replies

Dustyboots · 11/02/2021 00:19

They've just disappeared.

We have no idea how long we are locked up for.

Why is this?

OP posts:
ExpulsoCorona · 11/02/2021 00:26

The Prime Minister was literally on TV doing a press briefing earlier today (Wednesday) and has said that the next lockdown review will be in the week commencing 22nd February. Are you ok OP?

PickAChew · 11/02/2021 00:29

Really? They're a bunch of useless tits but they've definitely not been silent. Or is it that they're not magically taking all the shit away?

EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 11/02/2021 00:31

Are you living under a rock with no TV, radio or WiFi?

Losttheequipment · 11/02/2021 00:32

No they haven’t disappeared

Dustyboots · 11/02/2021 00:32

Yes - probably I am. I'm so bloody busy working and home schooling.

Glad you're all ok with it.

OP posts:
ExpulsoCorona · 11/02/2021 00:34

Who said anyone was ok with it?

ExpulsoCorona · 11/02/2021 00:34

What a strange post

Dustyboots · 11/02/2021 00:38

Yes, well. I'm feeling a bit strange at the moment.

Aren't you?

OP posts:
ExpulsoCorona · 11/02/2021 00:41

Not really. I work for the NHS. Things are better right now for my patients than they were a couple of weeks ago. We're steaming ahead with vaccinations. We're in a better situation than we were in last year with the first lockdown when we didn't have the vaccinations. Just need to keep going and get through this.

vera99 · 11/02/2021 03:08

They are not our parents (thankfully!)

MrWendel · 11/02/2021 03:52

It's not helpful OP to try and whip up hysteria on MN. Please try to inform yourself (would take 5 seconds to Google) before starting random whinge threads.

amusedtodeath1 · 11/02/2021 04:13

No, I don't feel abandoned at all, in fact sometimes I wish they'd say less. It's all so convoluted.

We just have to grit our teeth and do the best we can for a while longer. It's crap but it's what we've got, so???Wine

CrunchyCarrot · 11/02/2021 05:58

The PM mentioned things would be reviewed on the 22nd of this month because they'd have 'much more data'. Hopefully that will provide more detail re how lockdown will be lifted, schools going back, etc. Hang in there.

OliveTree75 · 11/02/2021 06:35

You have said on another thread you watch news night...

NerrSnerr · 11/02/2021 06:39

In the time it took to post this thread you could have just had a look on a news page and informed yourself.

The government will just 'disappear' if you don't read or watch the news. How did you expect to find this stuff out? Would you prefer Boris or Matt come and knock on your door and tell you personally?

StepOutOfLine · 11/02/2021 06:46

@Dustyboots

They've just disappeared.

We have no idea how long we are locked up for.

Why is this?

Are you somewhere with a proper lockdown then? Which govt are you talking about? Can't be Britain.

But, everybody in Britain with a child is homeschooling. And in some countries they've been doing it for a year give or take.

PracticingPerson · 11/02/2021 06:46

I don't feel they have abandoned us in the sense of not being they, I often see them talking drivel.

I do think they've abandoned any attempt to actually manage this, they are just hoping people reward them with votes for the vaccine rollout.

But various issues have been completely ignored:

  • schools (either shut or virus hubs)
  • the 3m who got no financial support
  • town centres Vs online retail
  • failing test and trace
  • increased poverty
  • enormous unsolvable backlog in NHS treatment
  • etc.

So not abandoned, just really badly managed with regular waffling from our incompetent PM.

Ponoka7 · 11/02/2021 06:51

Sky News is really good at condensing the Covid Special broadcasts. But you can get them on catch up. It was always going to be more difficult this time round because of the weather and January being a miserable month.

It's a matter of looking forward to Easter.

Athinginitself · 11/02/2021 07:06

I dont think they have disappeared at all..there are ministers interviewed multiple times a day on radio and tv and a twice weekly briefing. They are useless twats though. People want clarity, I do have some sympathy that that is very hard to offer right now due to uncertainty re mutations etc but I think some kind of roadmap would be helpful and more support particularly for the people with businesses or jobs that have fallen through the cracks. Vaccinations are going amazingly well though and am feeling cautiously optimistic for spring/ summer giving us some more normality, but we cant release restrictions whilst there are still so many infections and people in hospital.

snowydaysandholidays · 11/02/2021 07:11

I am sick to death of seeing the government, especially Matt Hancock, so I don't agree.

RoseAndRose · 11/02/2021 07:14

@OliveTree75

You have said on another thread you watch news night...
Well if true, that puts quite a different light in this thread
Hardcoresoftie · 11/02/2021 07:14

I agree dustyboots in that politicians accountability has completely disappeared and for that I feel abandoned.
They are up on TV and media all day everyday sure. But there is no opposition and severely restricted debate right down from the House of Commons, through all media outlets even right down to Mumsnet where poster are accused of whipping up hysteria. There is no forum to dissent, little understanding amongst many why you would want to and protests are banned. Writing to MP is pointless now that there is a Covid hivemind.

In contrast Brexit was debated every which was from Tuesday and affects our lives far less.
We arent suffering under a covid itself so much as under the policies of a covid pandemic.

All these briefings are just the illusion of consent, communication and participation. We have no functioning democracy and politicians will continue to do whatever they like now that the public has been annihilated. There is no public square, just people inside their houses using the internet to understand what others are thinking.

People think lockdown will end because they cant imagine it not. But all the mechanisms for social change have been removed. They were put in for a reason and removed with little resistance. If lockdown doesn't end what are you going to do about it? There isnt anything.

I dont think its unreasonable to feel left behind when with a few weeks warning we all lost the right to work, leave the house, travel, hug indefinitely. Or when suddenly care for cancer, dementia, disabilities, early years development,
schooling are all put forward as 'luxuries' only selfish people complain about.

vickibee · 11/02/2021 07:16

I think they are being vague deliberately. Once the 22nd comes the goalposts will move again, they are just saying enough to give us a glimmer of hope, as for schools reopening on March 8 I am not hopeful. They will get nearer the time and change that citing new cases or variants or something.
We will have nothing left to go back to soon and a nation full of depresses people including very young children and teens

Gliblet · 11/02/2021 07:27

Where you do expect them to be? On your doorstep with a bell and a loudhailer?

Early on, they gave firm dates. Everyone planned around them as though they were realistic, and then howled with rage when the government had to backtrack because they're not in a position to predict how something like a virus will behave with any real degree of certainty. Cue people tearing their hair out and ranting about having to cancel or change plans.

Now they're trying to give guidelines rather than set dates and everyone's raging about the lack of certainty.

What everyone's really pissed off about is being stuck in a shitty situation with no real certainty about how it will turn out and we're not used to being this far out of control, but even not having someone to blame seems more frightening at the moment than being able to fall back on the usual causes of problems and complications.

rwalker · 11/02/2021 07:27

There than obvious answer to why they can't tell us how long is because they don't know.
To give a date you would need to know infection rate ( it will fluctate due to peoples behaviours)
New variants and hospital capacity .
If they did give a date then infections rocketed due to people breaking rule they would have to change the date through no fault of there own and then everyone says they have lied and done a u turn.

The plan of actions need to change with the infection rate (down to use not the government) .

You can't set a firm date because everything could change

I think it's a problem we don't like what we are being told.

watch the news and get on the internet