MaxNormal
Work
Government business perhaps?
Not sure I can think of many things that you can’t do remotely or someone else on a company already located abroad couldnt do for you with training?
My DH travels for work. It's for sporting events and it's not something he can do from home.
I know some won't agree with that but tbh those people are not paying our mortgage
Hear hear!! Agree with you on this! Well said for yourself too 
@LadyInParis I totally understand. This is your life, your future and your chance to have a family. Plus you are not doing anything illegal. I hope that all your plans come to fruition.
Thank you so much! Same as you in the sense that none of these many people who are suddenly virus experts are paying your mortgage, neither are they there when my rate of attempted suicide as well as self harm, at one point alone went up- I have mental health disorders and it’s under control now but until recently I had been trying to kill myself more frequently and self harming terribly. Whereas before it would have been once in a blue moon like when my Nan died (luckily fiancé has always stopped it!) Now it’s under control thankfully.
So I now have to contend with - mental health isn’t good enough excuse (if I had died of suicide incidentally; for those virus experts and whatnot, would it have come under the umbrella of corona or what?) having a wedding and children is a luxury not a necessity. Fuck right off!
Having my marriage for security, and children while I can- as I’m getting older as it is, is about as necessary as can be. It’s not a fucking luxury ESPECIALLY in these uncertain times, to need the security of marriage financially and legally. After three years of a relationship. What a total load of bollocks. Children too it’s tantamount to saying I might as well get the womb removed or get myself sterilised because children aren’t important for people to have at the moment? If not now when? I’m getting older so by the time this shit is over I will have less viable eggs if any and I’m having my fucking children. How many saying it isn’t necessary already have marriages and children here? Though those same people are saying funeral they aren’t sure are vital or worth the risk either..
Anyway it’s nice to have a voice of reason on here! Sorry for the rant it’s annoying me terribly! How long will you have to miss your husband for? Is it hard when he’s away or do you enjoy the time on your own?
We follow all the rules to our own expense and terrible detriment, and no one is breaking laws as the borders ARENT CLOSED so get over it and stop thinking you’re all virus experts or political perfectionists and let the government do it’s (admittedly shitty) job and try to live your life. I am!