@robinwisperer
You are probably basing your assumptions on your own job.
I WFH, private sector, lone parent, one at primary and one severely autistic and with severe learning difficulties. I have to make it work because otherwise I have no income. HTH.
I don’t really understand this tbh. I’m sure both your children would qualify for a school place due to their SEN. If you choose not to send them because you can manage, that’s on you. Other parents obviously can’t cope, for whatever reason.
I do think everyone would be feeling much better if they weren’t so bitter and resentful about other people’s choice - so keen to bring everyone down to the same level, with such a ‘I can manage so why can’t you?’ attitude - showing zero empathy and little understanding that other people have difficult things going on in their own lives that you know nothing about.
Why not try a different mindset, where you assume most people are trying to do their best under extremely hard circumstances, balancing their family’s needs, their own mental health and what’s best for the country and their employer as well as they can? Hope that helps you feel better about other people’s decisions.