@gamerchick
My kids autistic and he's having the tests whether he likes it or not. There are always consequences and his autism doesn't make him exempt from shit just because it doesn't feel nice.
It's difficult, isn't it? I have 2 with SN (1 with complex needs at special school and waiting for ASD assessment, and 1 at MS school with ASD) and so far my attitude has been "Yes DD1, you hate the mask, you want to rip it off your face, but so do lots of people and nobody actually likes it, so put it on." Similarly with DD2 this week "I know you hate the CV test, I know you feel sick at the thought of it, I know you're really anxious about it, but I've given my consent. If you refuse consent, they can't do it, but I really want you to get it done."
But I recognise that I can do that, and that there will be young people who can't.
Having said that, given my DD goes to a school where all the children have at least moderate learning difficulties, alongside severe and profound LD, it surprises me when I hear or read of so many children who 'can't wear a mask', because all the children who come to DD1's school on transport (probably 150 ish) wear a mask from the moment they get on transport, until their classroom, so up to an hour. So when I see someone whose child has mainstream education and some specific learning difficulties say 'they're exempt from wearing a mask', I must admit that I feel a bit suspicious as to how much they've tried 