@Loveyourideas
“If you think that going to a pub with friends is an exercise in meaningless consumerism rather than social connection”
Yes, for me it is. And I understand it is not for you.
And I understand that not everyone wants to or needs to reflect. I appreciated this opportunity. That’s all I’ve said. I’m not defensive about my choices. And no one else needs to be either. But there is no point getting ‘frustrated’ with alternative views or calling others ‘smug’ and ‘unreal’
But you haven't said, "it has given
me a chance to reflect about
my life, and I don't want to go back to
my old normal because
my old normal was focused on consumerism. I am glad that I can savour the present."
You have said, in effect, "it has given us all a chance to reflect about our lives, and we shouldn't want to go back to our old normal because our normal lives were focused on consumerism. Why don't we savour the present?"
Can you really not see a difference between those two things? Really? Not even if you try very, very hard?
You're coming across as smug because you're talking like everyone else is in your circumstances, with your choices available, but with less 'resilience' and less willingness to reflect on life. And I'm sure you don't really mean that, do you?