[quote Ouchy]@PracticingPerson
What does getting real mean to you then? Sorry it’s just we both know the virus doesn’t really hurt children, and that if they attend school then they shouldn’t socialise with older or vulnerable relatives other than outdoors etc. We know that inequalities will increase for children if schools close repeatedly. Do we accept that? Does getting real mean we accept that outcome for children in the full knowledge that it’s not temporary?[/quote]
For me the frustration of hearing people say categorically that Covid doesn't hurt children, is extremely frustrating. Especially in light of the fact that it has been made extremely difficult to keep children home, if they are medically vulnerable.
Up until a couple of weeks ago, I was Bupkis (then had a glitch and 're registered with a variation on my old name) - and posted on many of these school threads, wrt my dilemma about ds - 10 years old, previously shielded, rare condition, complex needs, medical vulnerabilities including lung issues, asthma, heart problems, chronic gastric issues. We have a tricky relationship with school after years of fighting for the correct support - our options were - de register (potentially losing all EHCP support) or get fined (school said they would pursue fines).
We have worked closely with school, to make sure we maintain a dialogue, we eventually got a letter from ds's Dr to say he would be safer at home....and then, had the call to say ds's class (of children with additional needs) had a positive case....all the fucking prevarication, trying to do the right thing, trying to avoid a fine....we jumped through all the hoops and now we are possibly too late!
I know it is rare for it to have a negative outcome for children, but when you have a child who is extremely rare, this is little comfort. As ds's Dr said, alongside the unknown risk of Covid, there is the risk of repeated periods of isolation for the whole family (ds was ill 7 times with a fever last Winter) and the risk of hospitalisation for other illnesses, which would be best avoided this year.
Why it has been made so bloody difficult for families in our position, I do not know, but it is appalling.