Every parent I know agreed that without any childcare if we both had covid then we would drive to drop our child off with family to ensure their safety and wellbeing. My family are 300 miles away and our plan was to drop the dc there in the worse case scenario. We couldn't ask friends, so what else is anyone supposed to do??
I have no problem with Cummings driving his child to his family house. The only outrage I see about this is on the news. The rest of us are more realistic in real life. They both had covid, the PM was in intensive care what they supposed to do???? No nannies were available at that time as you well know, and they couldn't ask friends. It was a media witchhunt whipped up to try and get rid of him.
Think you're confused here. It's not the drive to Durham that broke the rules, whatever anyone may feel about the responsibility or otherwise of hotboxing covid for a couple of hundred miles and however pissed off people who'd chosen to keep their children at home in a similar scenario because they didn't want to put anyone else at risk might have been. That was almost certainly legal. It was the trip to Barnard Castle. There is no interpretation of the regulations that puts Cummings' actions within what was legally permissible then. What your mates think is irrelevant.
And you can yarn on about the irresponsible media all you want, as though the story wasn't being discussed widely outside those forums. But the data is very clear that the Cummings situation led to a loss of trust and support in the government, with no evidence that this has yet recovered. That horse has bolted. Pretending it hasn't and blaming people you don't like for having left the stable door open makes no difference to any of that.
So no, I don't buy into the huge structural problems you are alluding to. I simply think people need to stop being so bloody selfish! End of. It is not huge or big or difficult to understand.
Yes, I can tell that you think that. Naturally you've just zoned out stuff like sending infectious people into care homes.
The problem is that however convincing you find it, the approach you advocate is not working on the population as a whole. It's an unfortunate fact that do what we say not what we do gets enough people's backs up that it impacts on trust and compliance. We can all be as annoyed by that as we like. It will remain the truth.