I hear you OP.
We are in the same boat. Had this conversation late last night.
Our plan is to be honest with school.
Cases are rising exponentially, there is no social distancing or PPE in schools, bubbles of 240 and realistically they could never declare schools are remotely covid secure. A factory run like a school would be shut down and fined.
We are high risk. My risk is 1/3 of being in ICU with covid and 1/6 needing a ventilator. I'm beyond terrified.
If you have absence of more than 28 days they MAY take you to court.
But if child is isolating due to someone in the house showing covid symptoms gets them 14 days authorised absence.
If you have repeated absence they will issue you with a £60 fine. Pay this within 21 days.
We are trying to juggle absence to coincide with half term. I'm strongly suspecting half term will start a shut down as numbers will be sky high by then.
This means we hopefully have judged it correctly. If not then sadly we will have to lose his place at a top school.
So sad that parents who have a real possibility of either being chronically disabled from covid or might die are being put in this awful position by a weak, incompetent government.
I'm so angry. It's hard enough without the threat of court action to stay safe.