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Wearing masks in the home

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Dontknowwhybut · 08/08/2020 17:23

I don't understand why we don't wear masks at home. Given that it is the most likely place to pass it on, and associated witha lot of community transmission, wouldn't it make sense to do this? Obviously there would be issues with enforcing, but why protect strangers and not our families. (if they are protective)

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QueenofmyPrinces · 08/08/2020 17:58

donknowwhybut - surely you want to have physical contact with the people you live with??

Kiss, cuddle, share a bed, etc

Dontknowwhybut · 08/08/2020 17:58

If the law says you must wear masks at all times indoors, then people would do so I think.

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PurpleDaisies · 08/08/2020 18:00

If people really thought they helped surely they would want to protect their family?

To be totally clear, by family you mean the people they live with?

So married couples can’t be intimate until the pandemic is over? They will be sleeping in different rooms?

QueenofmyPrinces · 08/08/2020 18:00

You can just imagine it.....

No masks needed in school......but you can’t be in your own house without one Grin

Dontknowwhybut · 08/08/2020 18:02

If we all wore masks indoors for two weeks would there be a significant reduction in transmission? Would it be worth it? We all stopped our kids playing in parks and on beaches for months. Was that worth it?

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QueenofmyPrinces · 08/08/2020 18:03

You’re very good at avoiding answering people’s questions.....

Dontknowwhybut · 08/08/2020 18:03

@purpledaisies yes, if masks prevent transmission then wouldn't you want to protect the people you care most about

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Lifeisabeach09 · 08/08/2020 18:03

Likely because it is unrealistic and impractical-as PP have said. Unless you are going to be using masks 24/7 unless you sleep in different rooms, eat in different rooms, how would it work?
Sure, there are risks of covid transmitting amongst family members in a household environment but that needs to be balanced with practical, day-to-day life. The R rate will unlikely reach zero.
But, of course, no one is saying you can't do it so crack on and feed back to us. Grin

anon5000 · 08/08/2020 18:04

@Dontknowwhybut

If the law says you must wear masks at all times indoors, then people would do so I think.
You think? 😂
Triangularbubble · 08/08/2020 18:04

I wear masks in shops etc because government tells me to. I don’t really think they’re vitally important but there are also lots of people in shops, some of whom might be vulnerable. For an hour or so I can manage if I have to.

No I wouldn’t wear one in my own house whatever Boris says. I’m pretty law abiding but I’d completely ignore any such law if it was brought in. Which it won’t be, I don’t think even China went that far! Logically you’d also have to be socially distancing, cleaning the bathroom after each use etc. Are you really suggesting the entire population refrains from sex until a vaccine?!

SmileTolerantly · 08/08/2020 18:04

If you obey strict precautions when you’re outside the house and you’re not in a high risk occupation then your risk of bringing it home and transmitting it to each other is minimal. Certainly not a risk worth the cost of social distancing from your immediate family, except in special circumstances like Zebras’ where one family member is in a high risk occupation and another is clinically vulnerable.

PurpleDaisies · 08/08/2020 18:05

[quote Dontknowwhybut]@purpledaisies yes, if masks prevent transmission then wouldn't you want to protect the people you care most about[/quote]
Is that also yes to couples not having sex or sleeping in the same bed for the duration of the pandemic?

What about families that don’t have enough bedrooms for everyone to sleep apart?

QueenofmyPrinces · 08/08/2020 18:06

@purpledaisies yes, if masks prevent transmission then wouldn't you want to protect the people you care most about?

So you think it’s perfectly acceptable for people to be told they can’t kiss, cuddle or share a bed with their spouse and children?

What is the cut off age in terms of not being able to hug and kiss our children? Should we pop a mask on our 2 year olds and leave them alone in their rooms with no physical contact in order to protect them?

Dontknowwhybut · 08/08/2020 18:06

Anon5000 there were plenty of people willing to dob their neighbours in for breaching lockdown rules. People do what they are told in 95% of cases from what I can see.

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NothingIsWrong · 08/08/2020 18:06

@Dontknowwhybut

If the law says you must wear masks at all times indoors, then people would do so I think.
I don't know anyone who would comply with such an asinine piece of legislation.
SueEllenMishke · 08/08/2020 18:07

So you're saying I can't have sex with my husband until the pandemic is over?

Dontknowwhybut · 08/08/2020 18:07

@QueenofmyPrinces a year ago you would have thought it totally reasonable not to let your child swing on a swing, or meet your Mum for coffee, or go into a shop without a face covering, or greet your best friend with a kiss on the cheek?

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anon5000 · 08/08/2020 18:08

@Dontknowwhybut

Anon5000 there were plenty of people willing to dob their neighbours in for breaching lockdown rules. People do what they are told in 95% of cases from what I can see.
What are going to do ? Go around peering into peoples windows to check?
Dontknowwhybut · 08/08/2020 18:08

@NothingIsWrong from what I have observed over the last 6 months I actually think most people would comply.

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PurpleDaisies · 08/08/2020 18:10

People are not going to stop sleeping with their partners.

NothingIsWrong · 08/08/2020 18:10

Isolating yourself from your own small children in their home would be emotionally abusive to them. I'm sure you are on the wind up now, no one is this idiotic.

SueEllenMishke · 08/08/2020 18:11

[quote Dontknowwhybut]@NothingIsWrong from what I have observed over the last 6 months I actually think most people would comply.[/quote]
No they wouldn't. They only thing that kept me sane is my family bubble and the closeness I have with my husband and child.
My single friends suffered more because they didn't hug anyone for months

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 08/08/2020 18:12

If that became a law, in all seriousness, I would probably end up taking my own life. My mental health couldn't cope with it.

cocopops · 08/08/2020 18:12

[quote Dontknowwhybut]@NothingIsWrong from what I have observed over the last 6 months I actually think most people would comply.[/quote]
I’m sorry- but you’re a loon.

Triangularbubble · 08/08/2020 18:12

Ah, so your wierd kind of reverse type point is that if we’re not willing to reduce the risk to pretty much zero by adopting utterly ridiculous measures, we shouldn’t bother reducing it at all by not kissing friends on the cheek?

We could probably also reduce the risk to zero by all staying home, absolutely no exceptions for any reason, for maybe 4-6 weeks. It’s about as likely to happen.