@Maryann1975
@Iamthewombat
Because generally, you are far better off than someone struggling on minimum wage, as many people in this country are. We earn under £50k a year between us and consider ourselves to be reasonably well off
Firstly, ‘we earn X amount between us’ is very different than having one ‘high’ earner and one SAHP. Couples who have two incomes of 25k and juggle childcare between them are better off than couples where one works FT and the other cares FT. One of the many reasons being a SAHP is so often viewed as a cop out by our capitalist society.
Saying ‘well both can work so maybe they should’ is exactly the same as saying ‘well you could retain and become a high earner so maybe you should do that instead of claiming UC’ insensitive and unrealistic.
Secondly, some of those ‘struggling to get by’ on minimum wage live crazy lifestyles. Two friends of mine are low income, have kids, live with parents because they ‘can’t afford to move out shakes fist angrily at government’ but it’s funny how they both have nice cars on finance, designer accessories and a big foreign holiday each year huh
??? But no deposit for a house.
^These guys have their ‘low income’ topped up by UC and CB to the equivalent salary of around £40k so yes wow it must be sooooo hard for them, they deserve nothing but sympathy and tax breaks
meanwhile junior Dr’s earning £36k and working 60 hour weeks for the privilege, well they’re just grabby arseholes who should be happy to do it for an apple and the feeling of good will! 😂
Whilst there are many low income families with good priorities who do struggle (I grew up in one) there are just as many idiots with awful money management and terrible priorities who shout loudly for sympathy about how it’s ‘everyone else’s fault’. The whole system is rotten to the core and rather than address it people just look to those earning decent salaries on paper to foot the bills as though it’s totally fair- well it’s not.
DH is an intensive care DR and you would be shocked at how many of his profession (pre covid) were shipping off to other counties like rats off a sinking ship- fed up of abusive patients, unsociable shifts, dwindling resources and being villainized by society for earning a wage somewhat representative of the skills they have.
So fed up of the type of attitudes on this thread they sod off to Australia or Newzealand and take with them the hundreds of thousands the NHS has invested in training them 
This country needs Dr’s and Nurses more than they need this country, maybe people should stop slagging them off.