Posters like @Iamthewombat are so trigger happy jumping on people like me with the ‘well if you’re not happy living on DH’s high wage and your PT one why don’t you work FT that’s your choice obviously’.
Once more, I don’t care whether you work full time, part time or not at all. I was responding to your complaint that because your husband earns the lion’s share of the money in your family, he is taxed more than you would be if, as a couple, you earned the same amount in aggregate. Remember? I think this is the third time that I’ve explained it to you.
The answer was, because personal income tax allowances are not transferable and if you don’t use yours, that’s your choice. Don’t blame the tax system for the consequences of your choices.
Have you got that? I don’t care whether you work part time, full time or not at all. Use your personal tax allowance or don’t use it. Up to you. Don’t criticise the tax system if you don’t.
I really enjoyed that ‘you posted right next to those poor people earning 12k per year you grabby cow’ shaming I got earlier!
Who called you a ‘grabby cow’? Not me, or anybody else. You were complaining bitterly about how you had to struggle by on £65k a year and couldn’t possibly pay any more tax. In fact, you told us that your husband currently paid more tax than somebody on the same salary because ‘no account was taken of student loan repayments’. I still can’t understand how you draw this conclusion, unless you have confused student loan repayments with tax.
I noted that your post was cheek by jowl with one from a different poster - Jux - whose household income was £12k and yet didn’t complain anywhere near as much as you, with a household income of £65k, did, despite having more reason to do so.
I’m going to suggest that you grow up and stop embarrassing yourself with these attempts at personal attacks on posters who disagree with you. You persist in making arguments that fall flat because they are ill-conceived, founded as they are on a misunderstanding of how tax works, a belief that nobody struggles as much as you do, a conviction that you and your husband are somehow special and a tendency to invent insults that other posters have supposedly levelled at you (‘grabby cow’ being a good example). You lose every time.
You informed us, upthread in your ‘going out to dinner with a friend’ metaphor for taxation, that anybody who expected you to pay for them was a CF. Old people whose pensions are paid for by taxation. Poor families. People who have lost their jobs through no fault of their own. CFs to a man, or woman, according to you. If anybody were to ‘shame’ you, I suggest that it would be for this rather than for your choice of working pattern, which nobody cares about, or your incessant complaints about how you can’t possibly survive on £65k a year.