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Can we just stop with the school/teacher bashing

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TheWristBoundLatexBitch · 29/05/2020 00:11

The teachers needed in most schools to do the "bubbles" is at least double what they already have. If it's a two form year, you may need 4 bubbles, so double teachers. Oh and then there is the class rooms!

How do you think schools will magically make this happen???

Some schools are staying shut except key worker children as that's all they can take.

Some schools will take one or two year groups, because they can.

Some schools (not many I'm guessing) will take all that they can back).

If your child goes back they will not be with friends, in their own class or with their teacher. This is childcare because the government said they need to open.

Let's stop bashing schools and teachers, and moaning because your child has a T.A. I'm not even a teacher nor do I work in a school, but I realise the difficulties the schools are facing.

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LittleFoxKit · 29/05/2020 14:47

@Beawillalwaysbetopdog I personally think you've hit the nail on the head. I likewise have found that all shops I've had to enter have had huge amounts of SD or staff have worn PPE, had screens, or cant actually enter and are served at the doorway with staff bringing things out. A good example is click and collect shopping, where you cant actually leave your car until your order is either placed behind it and staff have left or staff will put it in the boot for you - although they wouldnt for me as my car was much too small and actually put them much closer to me. Being partially deaf I've actually found shopping quite difficult due to the perspex screens and staff wearing masks as it's made it very difficult to hear what's being said and I cant see lips moving, but I've accepted it. But for that reason I know this was in place since almost as soon as lockdown started in my area (which is a very poor working class area of the midlands) in my local sainsburys, asda, Tesco, morrisons, iceland, aldi, homebargins, lidl, argos, halfords, b&m, butchers (as I used all quite regularly, and used different stores at times as I'm very peculiar and would pre lockdown go to a few different asdas looking for a specific item for example and know which chain sells what things that I buy. Used to take me a whole afternoon once a week to do a shop). and is why I ended up using click and collect for most of the past few months.

maxonebitch · 29/05/2020 14:48

As with most of the middle classes, they have become far removed from walking the streets, using public transport and so on. This encourages a siege mentality.

When the government provide a bus service to the village I work in that doesn't arrive at 11am and leave again at 11.30am on Tuesday and Thursday only then I'll get the bus to work. Until then.....

Flaxmeadow · 29/05/2020 14:50

I barely look at Mumsnet any more for this reason. It's so hostile and there's no call for it

Yes this

I like strong debate, especially around current affairs, but there are just way too many personal attacks on forums now.

LittleFoxKit · 29/05/2020 14:56

Flaxmeadow because it ignores the fact that most of the remarks are not accurate and are completely detached from the reality of how hard teachers are working. Also it generalises and ignores the hard work MOST teachers have been putting in non stop since schooling went online.

How would you like it if we claimed you were lying, that your being dramatic because of course you have been provided with PPE social distancing in work because you stated you work in retail, and all OUR experiences are that in retail, measures have been in place since lockdown started. Therefore your just finding excuses to not want to work and make out your more hard done by because our experiences tell us your lying about yours? ...Because that is the attitude people are attacking teachers with..

Regarding the middle class, because it simply perpetuates a class divide which simply isnt there. It attempts to create a they think theres better then us because they are middle class mentality, which is not true. And if you cannot see that, regarding class or how misinformation from the other quotes I put in my previous post can be construed, then I am concerned that you clearly lack empathy to be able to see how false information that claims that teachers are not getting on with it, are not working as hard as other professions, are on a long holiday, are falsely claiming they cant use PPE etc is incredibly damaging and completely demoralising.

And to clarify I am not an teacher. I just happen to be able to consider the wider picture and not incorrectly place blame without understanding the full facts of the situation.

Flaxmeadow · 29/05/2020 15:07

Flaxmeadow because it ignores the fact that most of the remarks are not accurate and are completely detached from the reality of how hard teachers are working. Also it generalises and ignores the hard work MOST teachers have been putting in non stop since schooling went online.

So debate it point by point. Argue your case politely

How would you like it if we claimed you were lying,..

I haven't claimed anyone is lying

that your being dramatic ...

I havent said anyone is being dramatic

because of course you have been provided with PPE social distancing in work because you stated you work in retail,

I haven't been provided with any PPE yet. In March and early April, when the virus was spreading at it's worse. I dont remember seeing any retail staff with PPE

and all OUR experiences are that in retail, measures have been in place since lockdown started. Therefore your just finding excuses to not want to work and make out your more hard done by because our experiences tell us your lying about yours? ...

I haven't said any of this. If someone wants to interpret my posts in this way then I'm not sure what I can do about it

Because that is the attitude people are attacking teachers with..

But this is a personal interpretation

Regarding the middle class, because it simply perpetuates a class divide which simply isnt there.

This comes across as quite a right wing argument that denies class

It attempts to create a they think theres better then us because they are middle class mentality, which is not true.

Does it? I'm not sure

And if you cannot see that, regarding class or how misinformation from the other quotes I put in my previous post can be construed, then I am concerned that you clearly lack empathy to be able to see how false information that claims that teachers are not getting on with it, are not working as hard as other professions, are on a long holiday, are falsely claiming they cant use PPE etc is incredibly damaging and completely demoralising.

Again. I have not said this. This is your interpretation of what I've said

And to clarify I am not an teacher. I just happen to be able to consider the wider picture and not incorrectly place blame without understanding the full facts of the situation.

I haven't blamed anyone

LittleFoxKit · 29/05/2020 15:09

That's not to say class divide dosent exist in the UK. It does to a scary extent. But it's not exist between teachers and retail. A manager in retail can easily earn more then a new teacher, hell, even a standard floor worker can earn more then a teacher.
The class divide is rather blurred between working class and lower middle class. The class divide is huge when you start looking at upper middle class vs lower middle class. Or upper class and middle class.

CountessFrog · 29/05/2020 15:24

I’ve read quite a few threads about teachers and schools now and I don’t think the conversations I read on MN reflect the conversations I hear in RL.

On MN, every teacher is ‘working harder than ever.’ In RL they are having long lunches in the garden because of the nice weather. I don’t blame them, but surely it’s not the same as a normal working day.

I work in the nhs and my normal working day is currently nothing like pre virus. For a start, I have children at home so I can’t concentrate. Presumably that applies to teachers with children. My life isn’t harder, it’s different. I’m doing what I can, but realistically I’m not ‘working harder than ever.’

I can’t wait for things to go back to normal, I feel unproductive and inefficient. There must be teachers who feel the same.

One thing I will say, friends who are teachers work very hard in the evening, pre coronavirus. I have a friend who works VERY hard during the evening and at weekends. I cannot believe how hard they work, actually. However, due to the virus, she now hasn’t been into her school for five weeks. I often see her on her daily walk or sitting in her garden. She’s writing end of term reports at the moment, presumably she’d have previously spent evenings doing that, whereas now she can do it during the day.

It’s working hard, perhaps, but it’s not ‘working harder than ever.’ I think that sounds illogical and people won’t believe it. Perhaps if teachers posted how they used to spend their day/evening and how they currently spend it, then people might be willing to believe they are ‘Working harder than ever.’

Personally, as NHS working from home, I used to get up at 6.45 and now I get up at 8.30. I am most certainly working less hard, coronavirus means I can’t currently do my job.

BelleSausage · 29/05/2020 15:40

I find that all this debate is just essentially encouraging a race to the bottom mentality.

It is a distinctly English thing and I cannot begin to understand it. Someone else has it shit and so all others must also have a shit time too.

Why? How?

Why such low aspirations? Other countries have managed to pull together more practical and inventive responses. Our government offers a dog shit solution and suddenly people are up in arms when its utter crapness is pointed out.

Bizarre.

FrippEnos · 29/05/2020 15:55

Would now be a good time to say that in some areas of England (I say England because its relevant to schools going back) that the R value is still above 1.

On Monday, Brighton was calculated at 1.68 up from 0.45 two weeks previously.

FrippEnos · 29/05/2020 15:57

BelleSausage

Other countries have spoken to and taken on board the views of the unions and education establishment.

Working with a unified front that the UK doesn't seem to be able to manage.

CountessFrog · 29/05/2020 17:06

Depends what point you want to make. R rate in care homes is probably even higher.

thecatfromjapan · 29/05/2020 18:00

Agree with you both, Belle and Fripp.

The point about the R rate in the local population is that the last thing we want is a second, local (or national) lockdown. Avoiding that is crucial.

I actually came back to point out that the teaching union guidelines focus on safety, safety, safety.
I'm baffled by people who say they are 'over-demanding'.
Safety matters, right?
You start by insisting that teachers/schools drop safety measures in a pandemic and ... where do you end up?

It's a boundary. Erode that boundary about people's - starting off with with 'some' or 'other' people, & 'some' or 'other' people's children - and you have moved a crucial boundary about what erosions of health and safety you will tolerate. And, of course, you are also eroding your baseline about all people having value and rights: you've moved into the territory of some people, sometimes.

That's bad.

You can start by dismissing a whole category of workers and end up slightly surprised when you suddenly find your children, someone you love, yourself, in that category of the less-valued.

thecatfromjapan · 29/05/2020 18:04

I really can't fathom why anyone would blame teachers for what is, let's face it, a colossal government fuck up.

It's the equivalent of those people who shout at check-out staff because there's no flour in stock.

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FrippEnos · 29/05/2020 18:54

CountessFrog
Depends what point you want to make. R rate in care homes is probably even higher

FrippEnos · 29/05/2020 18:58

CountessFrog
Depends what point you want to make. R rate in care homes is probably even higher

My point is that the government has once again moved the goal posts on opening schools, the R value has moved from under control in some areas the exponential growth.

But what can be expected from from a government that has changed the guidance on opening primary schools 41 times and has only just published guidance on opening secondary schools?

Beawillalwaysbetopdog · 29/05/2020 18:58

Countess, you asked:

Perhaps if teachers posted how they used to spend their day/evening and how they currently spend it, then people might be willing to believe they are ‘Working harder than ever.’

In a normal term time week I'll work 7.30-5.00 in school every day, then 2-3 evenings I'll do a couple more hours work and maybe 4-5 at the weekend, so just over 50 hours a week. It used to be more, but I've been teaching ages and have improved lessons so much that beyond tweaking a bit for individual classes or for the latest fad we're being asked to do my planning doesn't take very long.

I wouldn't say I'm working harder than ever, I'm working about the same. Probably a bit less so 40-45 hours. However, that's because, being an experienced teacher I'm given mostly exam classes, so 6 of my classes (half my timetable) are y11 and 13 who I don't need to set work for. Most teachers will not have this many exam classes, and if I didn't, then I would be working harder than ever. This is because everything takes so much longer. Marking takes longer because kids take really bad photos of their work and I have to manipulate the image to be able to mark it, and writing comments on word or paint or whatever takes longer. Planning is taking me ages as I have to replan everything from scratch - my existing resources do not work as standalone resources at all. We're also asked to phone our form once a week, which takes an awful long time.

However, not commuting is saving me 8 hours a week, so if you were my neighbour you might report me as going on really long walks in the day (as some on other threads were saying about their teacher neighbours) because I'm getting up my normal time and working when I would be commuting so I can be more flexible about when I'm doing work.

Floatyboat · 29/05/2020 19:02

I thought the consensus was that schools are just getting on with opening now. People realising their anxieties are over done

MyHipsDontLieUnfortunately · 29/05/2020 19:10

Actually @Flaxmeadow, I was referring to the wort of post you made earlier when I said MN is so hostile that I barely use it now. I don't wish to have a pop at you (that would be ironic) but as a teacher who grew up in poverty and was the FSM child that could be classed as vulnerable now, I do take exception to your earlier remark. I drive a 53 plate car to school as the earliest train journey would take 2.5 hours and get me there an hour late.

MyHipsDontLieUnfortunately · 29/05/2020 19:10

sort of post

FrippEnos · 29/05/2020 19:22

Floatyboat

Not sure where you are getting that from.

qweryuiop · 29/05/2020 19:35

@W00t

If the DfE had been told to take a bottom-up approach, and asked each school what their provision could safely be on a school-by-school basis, I am certain that a percentage of children would already be back in school, with plans to increase numbers week on week as evidence from on the ground in schools comes to light. It is the individual circumstances of the schools that are the impediment to blanket re-opening. DfE have the infrastructure to collate that information weekly, even daily with some assistance. Schools could then have prioritised those children most at need in their communities, and had those back in first.

Instead Cabinet made the decision who would be returning. It was a political decision with no basis in local need or practicability.

I have a Y6 son. He has no need whatsoever to return to school at this point. He's happy, calm, has more than enough work provided by his school, is able to chat to his friends online, and is an introvert who is more than happy to spend all day reading or playing with his Lego by himself. DfE say he should go back.
In contrast the little boy next door is Y2, a sporty, extroverted child who is driving his parents demented with his need to run around and kick a ball with friends, but we have no gardens, and Dad is at work each day (can't WFH), and mum has a newborn so she can't just take him to the park all day. He is becoming isolated and frustrated and anti-social. The Y2 teacher really hasn't provided adequate school work for his class either, so his learning has completely stalled. He really needs to be back at school, but somehow cabinet know better than schools what local need is?

The whole response has just been so badly handled.

This is lovely. This kind of community mindedness is what we need (not just on the schools issue, but more generally).
CountessFrog · 29/05/2020 20:02

Depends what point you want to make. R rate in care homes is probably even higher.

thecatfromjapan · 29/05/2020 20:17

It looks like sense, grammatically. It looks as though it should generate meaning.

But ...

CountessFrog · 29/05/2020 20:23

Beawilla

That names rural sense, I can see that what you are doing equates to similar hours in a different way.

Primary school is different I think. My secondary aged child is having work set that probably generates the sort of marking that you point out takes longer. Totally get that. My primary aged child is having nothing like that set and nothing marked at all.

CountessFrog · 29/05/2020 20:24

makes total sense

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