Agree skyblu, I'm not sure if people genuinely can't imagine taking the kids to the grandparents and letting their OH stay at home, if thry just like to complain or if it's just a compulsive need to assume everything the Govt does is wrong and designed to personally upset them.
Were 5- DH, me, Ds5y and DT5m
If I wanted to see my sister I coukd just take the big one to meet up with her Ds3 (socially distanced) and then I could see her with DT. I'm sure neither of our partners have a massive need to see each other but if so they could meet up too, or they could bring their DS over once mine were in bed. Itss not perfect but it's a start
As it is I'm shielding DS5 so no change for us really