Titchy this is what you said
But we don't live in an ideal world and have to deal with student MH in the same way A and E staff have to deal with paralytically drunk people every Friday night. In an ideal world people wouldn't get so drunk they put their life at risk, but we don't live in an ideal world, so that's the reality of working in A and E. But don't let that stop you berating nurses.
You have to deal with student MH in the same way A and E staff have to deal paralytically drunk people on a Friday night - that doesn't sound like you're saying we feel helpless to deal with situations we aren't trained to deal with. It sounds like you are saying these students are causing a problem ( and it's an interesting comparison isn't it? Seeing as drunk people in a and E are usually aggressive, combative and cause disruption. Though I'm sure you arent suggesting that about students with MH conditions, right?)
You also go on to say In an ideal world people wouldn't get so drunk they put their life at risk,
How does that relate to students at uni then?
As for saying no one is blaming parents - well, clearly posters on here are, otherwise why keep bringing them up? It isn't up to parents whether students go to uni or not. As you keep saying they are adults. Therefore, it's a decision taken by adults and is a decision between university and the student. It literally has nothing to do with parents so why do we keep being brought up?