My comments were no more personal than saying parents and students are uninformed and lying about their experiences. Plus then saying I'm bitter and have a plank on my shoulder isn't a good look for you either. So if you want to be sanctimonious about it try harder with your own comments.
Posters have raised very valid points about the raw deal students have been getting this year with the strikes and the lockdown. No one has said the pandemic is your fault don't even know where that one was projected from.
Some of you keep posting like you know what's happening in every campus across the country and trying to minimise and diminish the difficulties that student families are facing. Blanket comments about the third term being about assessments don't help your case. Again you don't know how every single course in the country is structured so stop fobbing people off. Stick to answering about your own dept and your uni because that's all you know about. Stop extrapolating and trying to discredit what may be going on elsewhere. All the points about completing work without access to labs for Stem subjects etc are all very concerning.
That final remark likening pastoral care to nappy changing shows the contempt some of you have for students. With that attitude revealing itself I would say that You are very jaded and bitter. My response to that on behalf of all students who are suffering now would be 'oh do fuck off'.
I also noticed the side step to talking about picking up other life skills. How patronising!!! We're talking about 9k of tuition in the form of lectures, seminars, 1-2-1s, labs, access to other appropriate uni facilities required for a given course which hasn't been delivered this year.