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I don't need you to clap for us.

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SuperlativeScrubs · 02/04/2020 12:18

I don't need to be clapped for doing my job. There is a whole list of things that I need and clapping at the door isn't one of them.

What i need is to be given professional recognition with a payrise and better working conditions. All the therapists, physios and pharmacists need what I need. All the students aspiring to become nurses need to be given back their bursaries. All the HCA's and assistants working their asses off alongside us need payrises, professional regulation and recognition and better routes into nursing where a full time degree is impossible.

The forgotten Laboratory staff who do the actual testing for things like Covid-19, blood tests and other essential diagnostics (no, it isn't your doctor who does the actual diagnosing) need the same as us and their support staff need the same as ours. They could also do without people telling them they don't count as keyworkers because they "don't work on the wards" Hmm

The PA's, office workers, medical clerks, clinical coders, receptionists, who keep the tons and tons of paperwork in order for us because none of us have time need to be treated with far more respect, by the public and their colleagues. They are putting their health in danger too.

The hospitality staff who feed us all, the porters who move equipment and notes and all kinds of requests from department to department, the maintenance team who make sure everything from medical equipment to electricity to the ceilings aren't falling apart, the cleaners who are fighting the spread of infection from one part of hospital to the next, they need more pay and support and respect too. They are the forgotten ones. Without them the hospital would not be able to function safely.

And the mortuary staff, who at the end of the line are overloaded with infected patients while trying desperately to support the bereaved who can't even view their own loved ones during their grief, need to be respected day in day out instead of being told that there is not enough funding for them to run efficiently.

And you know what? These are things you damn well could be doing when there isn't a national heath crisis.

So instead of clapping, fight for our rights. Sign our petitions for better working conditions, effective PPE and pay. Stop overloading A&E for minor ailments. Stop treating the domiciliary and hospitality staff like they mean nothing. Stop yelling at receptionists doing their job. Stop telling Lab staff the hospital could run without them.

Stop clapping and actually do something to help, regardless of whether there is a pandemic or not.

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SuperlativeScrubs · 02/04/2020 14:25

To @MaidenMotherCrone and all who want to share this you are welcome to share away!

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Straycatstrut · 02/04/2020 14:27

Will be a student nurse next year. Hopefully.

I know a lab worker. Works his backside off, it's all he ever does!

We can help by staying at home. My dog isn't even getting her walk today, (keeps staring at me with sad, hopeful eyes) because yesterday I was blocked in on the path by two joggers expecting me and my kids and dog to do something to get out of the way. 3 year old fell over and started crying and they were stamping their feet and huffing at me. So selfish and I almost had a panic attack. Staying in now for the foreseeable. Wish I'd gone back on AD's before all this.

Keep up the fantastic work and I hope you join you ASAP x

Redwoodmaz · 02/04/2020 14:29

I'll be clapping. It helps with the community spirit and makes me feel better - even if it seems like a hollow gesture to others.
I am obeying government guidelines.
Not much else I can do tbh.

AlpineSnow · 02/04/2020 14:29

Yanbu

SuperlativeScrubs · 02/04/2020 14:35

@devildeepbluesea You would not believe how much this grates on me. If the government had done a "wonderful job" in the first place the NHS and all healthcare, emergency services and key workers would be in a much better position to handle it.

@MaudBaileysGreenTurban Amen to that. The irony is painful!

@Allnightlong2016 It must be so hard to deal with that. A lot has been focused on the main hospitals when the vulnerable are largely in care homes and community settings. Stay strong and thank you Flowers

@UYScuti People never care unless it starts to affect them. It is very sad to see that this is what it took for people to take notice and unfortunate that a lot of people still don't believe the severity of this situation.

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Jaxhog · 02/04/2020 14:35

Most NHS staff I know would much rather people stayed at home than coming out on the streets clapping.

I really appreciate NHS staff, but I don't need to virtue signal. I'll just stay at home.

SuperlativeScrubs · 02/04/2020 14:36

@Redwoodmaz you could sign the hundreds of online petitions online while observing the lockdown. Every signature counts. EVERY signature.

Thank you for staying home and preventing the spread of infection Flowers

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JustMySize · 02/04/2020 14:39

Well said.

I do sign the petitions, etc. but my other half hasn't been out of the house in over a month due to being classed as vulnerable and feels this is a way to show thanks to everyone doing what we aren't able to.

goldpartyhat · 02/04/2020 14:48

I will. Just because you feel this way doesn't mean I and other nhs workers are so bitter.

My neighbours want to do something. They can't provide more testing or equipment, but they can show they care. They are also making washable bags to put dirty uniforms in, baking bread for nhs workers and donating allotment produce. I'm sure plenty of other things are being done.

If you want to be a misery, fine, but it's only your take on it.

AlpineSnow · 02/04/2020 14:51

Don't talk for every single NHS worker as if your views represent them all. Clapping is a little bit of positivity right now, a little way communities are coming together and trying- maybe in a silly way to you- but really trying to show how much we love, support, respect every worker in the health system right now
Where did op say she is speaking gor every single NHS worker?
Why say you love, support and respect every health worker then go on to call the op bitter. Sounds disrespectful and unsupportive of the op who is a health worker.

AmelieTaylor · 02/04/2020 14:54

I’ll happily sign every petition I can find

I’m locked in. Well locked in. I’ve been out once to buy food & on the same trip took food to my 90 year old Aunt.

I’ve asked numerous times what else we can do to help the NHS & other essential services (unfortunately only from home as I need to isolate or it I’ll cause more problems!)

I’m donating to a couple of ‘hot meals for workers’ schemes.

I am also going to clap tonight. I have NHS friends/neighbours who (naturally) have varying opinions on the clapping, but some appreciate it and as importantly, so do many of those living alone as they feel less isolated

I clap from an upstairs window and the people I could see were doing the same or were well spaced out, out the front.

No virtue signalling, no instagram, just a sense of community.

littlecontis · 02/04/2020 14:56

Same @Lipz! I had no idea NHS workers don't like the clapping. Then we should just let them do their jobs and not clap for them anymore.

Chienloup · 02/04/2020 14:57

Totally agree. My neighbour was the loudest clapper on our street, and yet has had painters and decorators (nonessential) in the house in and out ever since lockdown was initiated. If he wanted to support the NHS he should do so by abiding by the rules.

Chienloup · 02/04/2020 14:59

My nine year old didn't clap, but he has written to our MP to ask how NHS workers will be supported psychologically during and after the pandemic.

SuperlativeScrubs · 02/04/2020 15:07

@goldpartyhat I thank your neighbours for all they are doing for us. The bags in particular are a really good idea. My trust provides Red contamination bags to put contaminated linen in and we have been allowed to use those if we are in contact with Covid-19 patients. You put uniform in the bag and can put the sealed bag in the washing machine and it melts into a little disk you can throw in the bin.

I am certainly not bitter about the clapping. Clap away, but there is so much more that you and others can do other than standing on your doorstep making noise.

@AmelieTaylor thank you for doing what you are doing to help. There are many out there who will benefit from a nice home cooked meal.

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goldpartyhat · 02/04/2020 15:11

@SuperlativeScrubs Just seen on our village page a lovely man is making plastic face guards with his 3d printer! People are amazing.

Hopefulmidwife · 02/04/2020 15:11

Bloody well written! My partner is a radiographer and he does not get the recognition he deserves. None of them do, they are NOT just 'button pushers' he is now at home isolating as he started getting symptoms after seeing multiple positive corona patients.

I am admin, a med sec although more PA. I understand totally that my job is not important in this pandemic, however, I am not allowed to work from home. I still go in everyday to the hospital where we have multiple cases, behind the scenes.

I am so pleased someone has written this because although they do an amazing job - it isn't just doctors and nurses that 'run' the NHS.

SuperlativeScrubs · 02/04/2020 15:12

@Chienloup What your child did was a great idea. Many think that writing to their MP won't do anything, but the more people write to their MP about important issues, the more those issues get to the top of the pile and noticed. Then it increases the number of MP's taking these same issues to the higher ups.

Definitely something I would recommend doing.

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Billben · 02/04/2020 15:14

As a care worker, I fully agree with you OP. It’s all just lip service. Once everything calms down, people will go back to their norm and our jobs will carry on being not appreciated until another crisis.

BackInTime · 02/04/2020 15:25

I completely agree OP. I was thinking about the clapping this evening and it felt a bit wrong somehow when so many of you are out there, stressed from being short staffed, without the correct equipment or enough testing. You don't need claps you need people to hold this government to account for its decimation of the NHS for years.

I also know people will be out clapping tonight and posting on social media that are not social distancing and who are also making unnecessary trips to shops or for exercise.

HarleyD45 · 02/04/2020 15:30

Maybe we should all stand on our doorsteps (at a safe distance) when 8 o’clock arrives and have a protest bellow NHS TESTING NOW! NHS TESTING NOW! ...

Helpmefly94 · 02/04/2020 15:35

My nine year old didn't clap, but he has written to our MP to ask how NHS workers will be supported psychologically during and after the pandemic
Course he did.

bluewafflewithmayo · 02/04/2020 15:36

My nine year old didn't clap, but he has written to our MP to ask how NHS workers will be supported psychologically during and after the pandemic.

Of course he has.

Lolxx · 02/04/2020 15:42

AMEN!!!

The clapping thing is patronising! All it is doing is allowing people to play the hero & perform on social media like they’re mother Theresa, it’s all such a me, me, me attitude! Hmm
I agree with OP, respect NHS staff every day & get rid of the sense of entitlement portrayed by members of the public on a daily basis. Do something useful to show your support for the NHS - sign petitions, put your night shift working neighbours bins away, get them some food for the hard shifts they put in - don’t just stand on your doorstep & clap like it’s gonna change how we work.

Potionqueen · 02/04/2020 15:44

Let’s not forget all the clapping Tory MPs did in 2017 when the nhs pay increase was outvoted by them.