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A perspective on blaming 'Other People'

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Biber · 31/03/2020 00:19

To the best of my knowledge this was written by Nathan Williams:

As this crisis deepens and the death toll mounts, a narrative is going to emerge that will be very seductive to many of us. It will all be the fault of “the people.”

The people who failed to practice social distancing.
The people who hoarded.
The people who didn’t listen to the government.
The people who didn’t listen to the science.
The people.

Those selfish people. Look at them in their parks.The government will start trotting this out. Right wing media will push it hard. Police forces have already begun assigning blame to “the people”.Many of us will feel the tug of this seductive reasoning. Our brains will be tempted to lash out at “the people.” When we do, we must remember some things:

  • The government had 3 months to prepare. This was a train coming down the tracks.
  • At first we were told the plan was herd immunity. Then it wasn’t.
  • As the first few people started to die, Boris Johnson boasting of shaking the hands of hospitalised coronavirus patients. This was a week before the lockdown.
  • Why weren’t we in lockdown like other European countries, some asked. Trust us, they said.
  • Then we got the lockdown order. What did they say? The initial government advice was only “essential workers could travel to work”. A day later this was changed to “essential travel for work.” See the difference? There are screenshots of this.
  • They told us to practice social distancing as MPs crowded around each other in the House of Commons.
  • They said only the old and immuno-comprised were at risk. Then healthy twenty-somethings started dying.
  • They said the NHS could cope, then they started building field hospitals in stadiums.
  • They said the NHS had the protective equipment it needed, then we logged on to social media.
  • They said we were in it together, then they got tested before the frontline workers.
  • They said there was no such thing as society and it was survival of the fittest, then said we needed to show solidarity.
  • They clapped when they voted against a pay-rise for NHS nurses in 2017, then they clapped for the NHS.
  • They spent a decade telling us cuts were needed to save the economy, then they said the only way to save the economy was to spend trillions.
  • They spent a decade insisting £94 was enough to live on, then admitted it wasn’t.
  • They got us to vote for Brexit by rubbishing “experts,” then told us to trust experts.
  • They told us retail workers were low skilled, then said they were key workers.
  • They said homelessness was sad but inevitable, then they order it ended overnight.

So yes, “the people” ended up a little fucking confused. Because our so-called leaders have utterly failed to lead.

They don't know what they stand for; they couldn’t believe the world could change so quickly; they resisted “alarmism” when the only proper response was to be alarmed; they had no idea how to use the power of the state, having spent a decade dismantling it; they were arrogant and complacent, wallowing in privilege.

The fundamental duty of government is to keep us safe. That’s what we pay them to do. They have failed.

As the death toll mounts, remember that our leaders are to blame, not “the people,” and we must resist the temptation to blame each other.

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Didkdt · 31/03/2020 01:18

You know there is so much utter drivel in your post it's not worth taking apart but by bit but rest assured there are responses to each and every point

BilboBercow · 31/03/2020 01:24

You haven't tried though have you Did? The op has stated this wasn't written by her but I agree with the sentiment. There's a lot of people out there desperately trying to assign blame already. I wonder if it's lockdown? People don't have much control over their lives right now so are trying to exert a little bit over others.

Nameofchanges · 31/03/2020 01:29

Well I shall be blaming both the government and people acting like arseholes.

I don’t think blaming one excludes also blaming the other.

beautifulteeth · 31/03/2020 01:32

I've heard it all now....

Yawn

Is that you Rebecca?

CrocodileFondue · 31/03/2020 01:33
Biscuit
DioneTheDiabolist · 31/03/2020 01:48

I won't be blaming "them". I think we have mostly done our best. I don't even blame the government,Shock and that is not like me at all.Grin

Right now I'm not about blaming. I'm about getting through it as best I can.🤷‍♀️ And hoping we come out the other end alive and having learnt stuff.🤓

DioneTheDiabolist · 31/03/2020 02:15

I will take apart one of your arguments OP.

They spent a decade insisting £94 was enough to live on, then admitted it wasn’t.
I didn't get £94. I got £74.Sad

On a side note, my 68yo DM was told she was totally eligible to join the workforce by a PIP(squeak) in 2019. As soon as CV19 happened, her GP phoned and told her to self isolate immediately because of her disability and the chronic health conditions that make her vulnerable.Sad

I am missing her so much.

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