Hi, I am finding all the government guidelines confusing. I'm an asthmatic and have been advised to isolate for the duration. My ex is an essential worker and is out and about every day. I have care of the children and they see h every other weekend. I had suggested we put a hold on this for the time being. He has threatened me with taking the children away. To add some info... He was in Poland when the country was closed down, managed to flee through Germany, France and eventually back to Scotland. His work told him to totally self isolate and he didn't, went shopping, running, visiting folk. I don't trust that he would simply take the children to his and back. His mother is 50 at the weekend and I've heard that they are still planning a family party in her house. I'm scared of letting them go with someone flouting all the guidelines.