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Daughter being Evicted, Needs to come Home

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TheCupboardWasBare · 25/03/2020 17:31

I really don't know what to do about this, so would appreciate your thoughts. DD(21) rang me earlier to say she is being evicted from her flat (north London) as the landlord now needs it. She's only been in it a month and has a 6 month tenancy contract. The landlord let it when he went to live in a religious commune (yes really), and now with Covid-19 the commune has closed and he wants his flat back.

I've told her he can't do this, but she said he's given them a month's notice. Complicating matters is she's freelance (film) and currently laid off, so paying the rent is causing issues (she flat shares and they pay £600 per month each). DD, while prepared to sit it out and keep paying the rent using savings with the assumption her job will recommence in June/July, doesn't want to pay another month if it means she'll be kicked out of the flat before work resumes anyway.

Her flatmate has said she'll move out next week so she doesn't have to pay another month's rent. DD wants to come home, from London to the countryside. I really don't want her to, but what choice does she/do we have? There's no way she can go flat hunting now! I've told her if she comes home she'll be in self isolation for 14 days. She has a large room here with a TV, sofa and ensuite and I can put a fridge in the room.

I've said I'll consider all options and get back to her, and she's going to do the same. What would you do?

OP posts:
Leobynature · 26/03/2020 08:25

Wow! Coronavirus is very important but the fear of getting it wouldn’t be enough to reject my child in their time of need.

SleepingStandingUp · 26/03/2020 10:31

get her to isolate for 4-5 weeks so all the medical expertise say 14 days but the MN airfields all know it needs to be twice as long
then come home (with a mask on). which are writhe ineffective or can't be brought for live nor money

Bignet182 · 26/03/2020 11:51

@SleepingStandingUp

You might try doing your own research rather than parroting what you hear on TV. But don’t take my word for it, the study was done by the Lancet, one of the most respected journals in medicine.

www.bloomberg.com/amp/news/articles/2020-03-12/coronavirus-can-live-in-patients-for-five-weeks-after-contagion

As for masks, those are still available on eBay and Amazon if you look hard enough. Also, as it’s airborne and can transmit through the eyes, don’t forget some goggles also.

WhatHappenedThen · 26/03/2020 12:00

Pretty sure everyone who is being snidey is missing the point of the OP. She is worried about her daughter bringing the virus to her area. That’s understandable and I can see why she is asking.
Having said that I would tell her to come home too. She should work out something fair with her landlord.
I really don’t understand why people have to be so nasty and snide. There is nothing wrong with disagreeing with the OP just don’t be a bitch about it.

SarahInAccounts · 26/03/2020 12:07

I can't believe you are hesitating. Of course she must come home.

Do you want her to sleep in a homeless hostel?

Grandmi · 26/03/2020 12:12

It’s a no brainer...bring her home !!

sageandroses · 26/03/2020 12:14

OP this is rather different than going in the car for a walk or going to a second home. Your daughter will be HOMELESS if she gets evicted, of course you need to bring her home immediately. You have the perfect set-up at home!

It's nothing like holiday-makers off to the local beauty spot (believe me, I live in one!)

sageandroses · 26/03/2020 12:28

@Nmagain how is it remotely the same!? Kirsty swanned off to her SECOND home in the countryside with her whole family and put pressure on the very limited services there.

OP's daughter is being kicked out of her only residence and will be homeless unless she goes to her parents'.

COMPLETELY different cases!

MonaLisaDoesntSmile · 26/03/2020 12:30

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RishiSunakFanClub · 26/03/2020 16:30

You lot make me laugh. Someone says 'can I drive locally to a quiet place to walk?' or 'can I visit a grave?'and everyone piles on saying how irresponsible, I say my daughter wants to come home from the UK's hotspot and everyone says 'yes of course she should come home. what a cow of a mother you are'.

How is this in any way comparable to your daughter coming home as she is being evicted?

Pretty safe to assume you're not going for mother of the year award this year Hmm

slipperyeel · 26/03/2020 16:46

This is a reverse surely?

Sally872 · 26/03/2020 19:12

Dd comes home. If you want to be sure not to bring it to the area the household could isolate for 14 days.

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