He is off work for the foreseeable whilst I still have to go to work each day as I work for the NHS. I'm not even through the door properly and taking my shoes off before he is demanding I go in the shower immediately. Of course I'm going to have a shower and wash my clothes but for christ sake let me get my arse in the door and breathe after I've been to work all day. I'm used to him working away all week so he is really getting on my last nerve at the moment and can feel a big argument about to happen soon. I think I just needed to vent. I don't appreciate him talking to me like a child when I know I have a lot more knowledge on this than him, and yes I've told him all this but in one ear out the other.