I think it is understandable but really scary too. I think giving birth is frankly terrifying so I feel so sorry for anyone who doesn't get the choice to have someone with them but I do understand the stakes, these are exceptional times. When I had DC1 I had an emergency c-section and my son was rushed straight to NICU, my husband went with him, while I was still in theatre, it would have been awful to have had to let him go alone, I hadn't even held him. Also I needed my husband to help me get showered, and get from the ward to NICU etc. I can't imagine having to have been alone :(