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I’ve raised a son with no fucking brain cells ,

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Sopissedofwithmyson · 21/03/2020 12:40

So back from uni
19 years old ,out at the pub last night ,today he tells me ,he’s still planning on playing footy with his old school mates ,no intention of staying in.

I’ve walked the dog this morning,the park I walked past was full of families all laughing and kids running round ,I counted 20 kids in the park on swings and slides
Walking the dog ,the whole world seemed to be out ,I never walk past that many people Usually on a Saturday morning.

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Esspee · 21/03/2020 16:10

Mintychoc1. Do you seriously believe that the virus doesn’t pass from person to person if you are moving?

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Casiocalc · 21/03/2020 16:11

My 19 year old DS is the same. If the shops are open then that means it’s ok to go out to them. It’s all a load of bollocks he says, if he gets it then chance are it’ll be no more than a cold. He’s just about to go into town to look at a new phone.
I’ve pleaded, tried to reason and he says he’ll follow government advice which is to only self isolate if he or anyone else in the house shows symptoms. Until that point he’ll carry on as normal. I could scream.

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Esspee · 21/03/2020 16:15

MintyMabel. I see the irony but we also went out today. We only saw people at a distance when walking. Passing ASDA in the car on our way home the car park was packed. The store must have been heaving with people.

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allthiswasunseen · 21/03/2020 16:15

Loving all the “I went out to somewhere and there were loads of people there, how stupid are they” comments

@MintyMabel That made me laugh out loud!

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allthiswasunseen · 21/03/2020 16:17

Passing ASDA in the car on our way home the car park was packed. The store must have been heaving with people

Yeah, the store is heaving because online shopping can't cope with the volumes. You can't rely on online shopping if 50% plus of what you ordered doesn't arrive.

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strawberrylipgloss · 21/03/2020 16:23

My 18yo is a retail worker. He's not a hero but I consider him a saint for putting up with the customers at the moment. I've seen terrible behavior at the shops by customers and that's a brief visit and not a whole shift.

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chomalungma · 21/03/2020 16:37

Instead of playing football with his friends - which is bad because they are not socially distancing, they should all go and work closely together in a supermarket stacking shelves.

Both are potentially risky in terms of transmitting a disease.
One is much more socially useful though.

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Frenchw1fe · 21/03/2020 16:41

@MintyMabel. Absolutely.

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Mintychoc1 · 21/03/2020 16:42

Kids outdoors is safe in my opinion. Until we are on official lockdown then that’s what they’ll be doing.

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bemoreeverything · 21/03/2020 16:43

Kids outdoors is safe in my opinion.

What do you base your opinion on?

Until we are on official lockdown then that’s what they’ll be doing.

Because you can't just listen to the advice and follow it? Why is that? Do you think it doesn't apply to you?

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bemoreeverything · 21/03/2020 16:44

@Mintychoc1

Also, the cost of implementing a lockdown would be astronomical. How about just keep your family at home and save the country money.

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Rebellenny · 21/03/2020 16:50

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adaline · 21/03/2020 16:52

Kids outdoors is safe in my opinion. Until we are on official lockdown then that’s what they’ll be doing.

If it's safe, why has pretty much every other country banned it? Hmm

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noego · 21/03/2020 16:54

54% of 19 -49 year olds will be infected.

Source - Governor of NY state speaking on CNN about NY state where 45,000 people have been tested.

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leckford · 21/03/2020 16:54

Funny really, we are told about the wonderful, university educated people with ‘critical thinking’ when in fact they are total selfish idiots

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Samtsirch · 21/03/2020 16:57

OP
I know things are serious but the title of your post made me ( and my own son) laugh so much, and goodness knows we needed it, so thank you 😊

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bemoreeverything · 21/03/2020 16:59

Well to be fair, the old people you know the ones everyone is trying to protect and who don’t have jobs to worry about getting to are still out and about not giving one shit. While people are stuck in with little kids and not able to go to work

You are not really being fair at all there though.

There are people in all age groups ignoring the advice. There are also people in all age groups following it. None of my family (except DD who is working) has left the house since Sunday, before we were even told to distance. My D.C. didn't go to school (primary and high school) Granny (80's) didn't go to bingo, I didn't go to coffee meet up with friends. My Dad in his 60's also managed to stay in all week. So did DH. My next door neighbour and their kids, mum and dad and cousins have been in and out mixing with friend etc all week.

I think the people who are not giving a shit are a combination of arrogant and stupid, but it's not related to age.

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Sopissedofwithmyson · 21/03/2020 17:10

I don’t understand why all shops except food and chemist are not shut ,people are shopping in our town centre ,( I’m at home in bed so not me) but friends say clothes shops are busy ,Homebase is packed ..wtf

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GabsAlot · 21/03/2020 17:11

wheres that fb post i read goes something like-

the more you go out the ylongerou will have to stay in

theyre not going to be hppy when it goes to lockdown but its their own doing

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WeAllHaveWings · 21/03/2020 17:14

Kids outdoors is safe in my opinion.

They are ok outside for some exercise, taking a walk/cycle with a parent/member of their household or if they are responsible enough with a friend (not a group) where they will keep the 2m distance. This was said on last nights announcement.

Playing football or any team sport was specifically and strongly advised against.

Government advice is for them to otherwise stay at home.

I really hope they go into complete shutdown soon, too many muppets still not getting it.

I’ve raised a son with no fucking brain cells ,
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Savingshoes · 21/03/2020 17:16

Going out in a park with lots of wide open spaces does reduce social contact. There's nothing wrong with this unless you have symptoms, then you self isolate.
If your son chooses not to reduce social contact and he's an adult, do not let him back into your home where he uses the same facilities (toilet and cooking) as the rest of the family. He made his decision and has somewhere else to stay: University.

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EerieSilence · 21/03/2020 17:17

Wow, since the UK abandoned chasing the unicorn called herd immunity and realised that there’s more people dying than what could be apologised by a cleverly fabricated PR as unfortunate collateral damage, the bitchfest is getting worse.
I am actually disappointed Britain didn’t decide to ride out the storm by letting people simply die while keeping calm and carry on. The world could have closed their borders with Britain and Brits could have emerged as winners in the wars on virus and fuck the casualties because the rest kept the economy going strong, enjoyed the concerts, racing festivals, shopping etc. with just the occasional pesky cough and an oldie dying, thus relieving the NHS.
This is like a visit to an alternative reality. Wow.

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Savingshoes · 21/03/2020 17:18

Also, if you don't keep moving, your next risk is developing a blood clot.
So keeping active is a great idea.

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Mintychoc1 · 21/03/2020 17:46

How are 4 children who are not coughing and not touching each other, on their own in a field, at risk of infecting vulnerable people?

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Mintychoc1 · 21/03/2020 17:49

someone I know was telling me that her mum went to the local garden centre today, and it was heaving. Presumably people are stocking up on the things they need to do their garden while they can, with spring coming. Now that kind of social contact is clearly stupid and risky.

When the government stopped team sports last week, it was with a view to stopping large groups of people who would not only run around together, but have team talks in a small room , do training drills with contact etc. Not comparable to 4 kids in a huge park.

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