Hi all my partner is 40 he smokes 🙄 has copd, stage 1 emphysema and asthma he is panicking sooo bad most of the day he refuses to come out of our room (he's off sick at the mo) and won't come near me or the kids am I right to tell him to get a grip or Is he acting right part of me feels bad for him the other apart wants to throw him through the window 🤣