Shared parenting

[Flummingbird]

I'm just wondering what people are doing about shared parenting? I have a 3.5DD who goes to her Dad's every Wednesday and 1 night at the weekend. I also have asthma so am trying to limit my contact.

I'll have to take time off work for the foreseeable with nurseries being shut, but obviously he still wants to see DD. Do I let her go, effectively doubling her contact (he's not being particularly stringent in keeping away from people) and risk her bringing it home to me??

Mines dad is self isolating for two weeks but when he is back to work (as a key worker ) when he has days off he said he will get them and take them to his so I can work .

Is he the type to follow the rules and distance himself from people though? My XH isn't and that's what's worrying me