It’s amazing reading all of this. Thankfully so many people are expressing genuine concern and empathy for older people but there are sadly some disgusting ageist comments along the lines of ‘they’ve had their time, let ‘em die.’ (Paraphrasing of course).
Those who are banging on about kids’ exams! For goodness sake! There will be another year, another set of exams! Young people have a lifetime to recover from all of this.
It’s heartbreaking that in a so called civilised country there is so little respect or care for elderly people. This is another sickening symptom of how older people are treated in our ‘caring’ society. Older people are referred to as ‘bed blockers’, ‘coffin dodgers’ and worse. Since I retired from clinical nursing I have been involved in care home inspections and it is so sad to meet elderly people who get no visitors despite having big families. I listen to lovely old folk who make excuses for their offspring and their lack of interest in them, but I see the sadness in their faces. I meet some families who’s only concern is whether the cost of the care home will take all their greedily anticipated ‘inheritance.’
Thankfully this is not true of everyone and those who really care for elderly parents and grandparents warm my heart. Old people might not have the smooth skin and sweet smell of a little child but does that make them less human? Less deserving of kindness?
For the rest of you sickening ageists, be careful what you wish for - you will be old sooner than you think.