Well let me educate you my friend.
There are rules for men and women in terms of modesty.
Men to grow a beard, lower their gaze and wear lose baggy clothing that does not define their good bits.
Women to cover their hair and wear lost clothing again not to define their good bits. Oh and to lower their gaze.
Children in a home who adhere to these rules will often follow suit - it can be visibly seen in girls more than in boys at a young age due to the beard issue. Come to think of it most men can't grow beards properly.
Like in most families whatever parents model becomes normal to that child be it dressing, reading, religion, athletic, eating habits etc.
So if a child wants to model religious covering to look like said parent - why is that a huge concern?
Unfortunately what we do see often is religious values differing in partners - one may cover up adherence to the rules and obligations while the other may decide to do the opposite but if the female is the one who follows the religions more closely how is that oppression??
I grew up in a household where my mum would wear the full covering, I didn't. My father disliked it. He wanted it off my mother and discouraged me from wearing it. I guess he had more experience of racism than I had at that point. But if my mum was indeed oppressed she would have taken the veil off as that's what my father wanted. But she didn't. She did what she wanted and kept it on.