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Emmsys Weebles: the one where we gather in the greenhouse for more tears, laughter and hand-holding

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cupcakefairy · 04/05/2010 16:29

Come and gather... we have ice cream!

This thread is a very special one as it will contain one very long-awaited birth announcement and hopefully more sleep for our yummy mummies & lots of BFPs!

Get your pom poms out...

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barbie1 · 21/05/2010 11:32

baby ajay!

GracieGirl · 21/05/2010 12:41

Hello again! Just been to a mum and baby group and DD behaved nicely and slept in the pram all the way home and is still asleep! Yay don't you just love it when it looks like I have a clue what I'm doing!!

Come on 4ever and Cupcake - my tip is to start a project - find something that needs sorting out, spread it all over a room then go to bed tonight with it half done cos you're too tired to finish it. Sods law says you'll go into labour and the room will still look like that 3 months later!

My brother's DF has bought her wedding dress! also she's found a baby dress that matches her bridesmaids for my DD. Yay!

GracieGirl · 21/05/2010 12:42

Experienced mums - what brand of suncream do you recommend for my DD? I prob should get some just in case.

barbie1 · 21/05/2010 12:55

hi gg try the banana boat range of creams, there is a special one for babies, factor 50 or 80...its highly recommend over here. We got some yesterday and it seems ok, no reactions or anything. Although its too hot to go out now for the next few month

We have just bought some swim nappies (still too big!) and are getting a wetsuit for her tomorrow so we can go into the pool which is just outside of our garden gate and all under the shade. Im hoping that my mum will take her to i can catch up on some much needed sleep!

Mum and sil arrives tonight, james is getting Devon off to sleep while i do the house work

Come on babies!!!!!!!

ps, banana boat in superdrug and boots x

barbie1 · 21/05/2010 12:56

we have this one

4everhopeful · 21/05/2010 14:02

Hello lovelies! Its blazing in London, hottest weekend of the year predicted for our aptly named DD! I well overdone it yesterday, never got home til nearly 10pm, by which point feet and hands and various other bits had blown up like balloons! Still every inch of housework - done, shopping - done, last date - done! Just crawled out of bed with DH, another insomniac night, but got call at 6.30am from DH bro to say they had their baby boy Harry, our nephew, at 4.43am!!! They pipped us to the post so must keep my legs crossed today! DH cousin also finally had her boy on tues on day she was due to be induced! All these babys! Have taken due note about Blues SIL! Congrats to them! Also Cupcakes DH cousin! Quite coincedental! Sooooooooo, me and you Cupcake!!!

Just wanna chill and rest and recharge today ready for tomorrow! Just in case I dont get on between now and then I will obviously text any news, but can post from my phone, so if it does take hours I'll try and update you from the hospital! We have to phone the delivery suite at 7.30am tomorrow morning, I already said what if no beds? but they have 18 rooms, so midwife said as you are whipped up to maternity straight after birth, she reckoned most Id wait would be a few hours worse way! I just wanna meet our little girl but am also praying no complications and she is well and healthy... Can honestly say Im not worried about the pain aspect right now!

Anyways, DH cooking up a big breakfast (i know its 2pm!) just gonna chill, have just emptied camera memory so will post last bump pics in a min too!

Just in case Im not back on, lotsa love to you all!!!! x x x x x

4everhopeful · 21/05/2010 15:27

Have just added last 2 bump pics! Am gonna miss it! Cant believe the time has finally come to meet our little girl! Still doesn't feel real and I still daren't beleve it til she is safely in our arms!

Will be lurking to read posts still tonight and tomorrow even! Has been very quiet in here though!

Good luck Cupcake! Big hugs pregnant buddy!

Lots of love and massive thanks again to the rest of you for all the support, hand holding, hair stroking and pushing upright of the weeble! You girls are incredible and am so pleased we have shared this journey, I would of been insane without you! x x x x x

barbie1 · 21/05/2010 15:55

hi 4ever...im here, but stand well clear you don't wanna catch my cold!

OMG at your bump, its huuuuuggggeeee!

how are you feeling my love, im so excited for you! Are you on fb, i was nosing at sabs friends and she has added someone with the same name as you, coincidence maybe.

Not sure where everyone else is , ill keep you company though!

barbie1 · 21/05/2010 15:57

oh and lesson number 5 from the slummy yummy mummy book

Get a night light for the night feeds, im sure i have a broken baby toe due to falling over the door stop last night, it is all black and swollen ouch...

mermaidspurse · 21/05/2010 16:00

4ever that has made me cry with happiness for you but where on earth are you going to park a cup of tea after your little summer arrives

4everhopeful · 21/05/2010 16:27

Bless u mermaid & barbie! Iv just got all nervous after i had last check of bags, which are way too big, got way too much stuff, its the idea of bein there for 3 days tho! Oooh i keep going between incredibly excited & incredibly anxious!

mermaidspurse · 21/05/2010 17:03

for you all weekend. My bag was bursting too and we never even got to unzip it, not my lovely face spritzer or my cosy socks or my muzak.

cupcake hope you are ok when the whole world have had babies and everyone is asking if you have had it yet, no please don't hit me!

I havn't packed my holiday bag yet. ds has it's got flippers a snorkel and 3 teddies! He is at that age when he is getting cool and hip but still needs not just one ted

barbie hope your cold gets better and I am sorry about your toe.x

gracie keep strutting your stuff girl.

lbm hope you are all ok and not too sore thinking of you.x

cupcakefairy · 21/05/2010 17:34

What an amazing day! I have spent it all reading in the garden & now have a slightly pink bump but it is so lovely!

Aw 4ever I am so incredibly excited for you; I know I haven't been on this thread since the start of your journey but it's been a privilege to share just some of it and I can't believe you're at the end now (well, the real beginning now!!) Feels like a very momentous day for the Emmsys Masses of hugs and prayers and best wishes for tomorrow.
Fab bump pics too and definitely very apt weather for dd's entrance

mermaid I would never hit you! I'm still ok with people asking after baby news...maybe by this time next week I will look like this if I still haven't had it!

My RL friend with same due date had little girl today...that is everyone now and I am saving the best til last as my BF says

barbie hope you feel better soon enjoy having the rellies over, you too Vjay

gracie you must have felt like a real proud mummy well done babygg! Thanks for the tip but I can't bring myself to make mess that might end up not moving again, maybe next week if I'm getting desperate! Joining dh on a work social for a curry tonight even though I don't believe any of these things actually work!

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monkeybumsmum · 21/05/2010 20:32

You never know Cupcake I had a curry for supper the night I went into labour with ds! Glad you had a lovely day, it's good to take advantage and rest while you can. Hope your bump isn't too burnt!

4ever Have been thinking about you all day, and trying to imagine just how excited you must be about tomorrow. Nervous too I'm sure, but after all this time and such a long journey you are almost there. I am so happy for you, and cannot wait to hear both your and Cupcake's wonderful news I hope it all goes smoothly for you and that you end up having a really good experience. Whatever happens, the moment your precious baby girl is in your arms it will all be worth it. I shall be thinking of you tomorrow and wishing you lots of pushing power Lots and lots of love xxx

Barbie Thanks for posting link to the suncream, I shall be trying some as ds seems to come out in rashes with all the normal makes. Your poor toe, hope it feels better soon!

Must dash as have made a rhubarb, raspberry and blueberry crumble and it smells like it's ready, yum! Hello to all and hope you're all okay! xxx

anniebigpants · 21/05/2010 22:02

Good luck 4ever-am sooo excited for you X

SabsFabulous · 21/05/2010 22:11

Evening ladies, hope everyone enjoyed the sunshine and are planning to do so again at the weekend.

4ever I cant believe the time to meet your lo is here! Like everyone else, I am so excited for you! As promised, here's the short version of my birth story. I know you asked why I was induced but I find it easier to explain the whole story. Apologies to everyone else who know the story. You can just skip this bit

On 40+3 at 2am on Tuesday morning, I felt some leaking. I phoned the labour ward who told me to come in. The midwife examined me and didnt think it was amniotic fluid, so they sent me home. I got home at 5am and thats when the contractions started. I think the midwife must have given me involuntary sweep. I dont know if you remember, but DH was out of work for a whole month, but that day he had 2 interviews lined up! He didnt want go, but I told my mum and sister to come and sit with me so I wouldnt be alone. The pain was more in my back, and was bearable. I just kept on bouncing on my gym ball the whole day and watching daytime TV! We were keeping track of the contractions by using an excel spreadsheet on our laptop (DH is an accountant!) By 8pm that evening, the contractions were 5 minutes apart, so I rang the labour ward, but they told me not to come in until the contractions were three minutes apart. By around 10pm, the pain was getting worse, so me, DH and my mum left for the hospital, but when we got there there were no rooms available so we had to wait in the waiting room. My mum took a sneaky photo of me and DH sleeping while sitting on the chairs, its a really funny photo (but not for posting on here!) I got taken in a room at 11pm and immediately puked up, and puked upa few more times that night. I started using gas and air, but was mobile, walking around and using the hospital gym ball. By 2am Wednesday (I know, I'm such a wuss!) I asked for an epidural, dont read the next bit if you're scared of needles, but when they put in the needle, they tell you to make sure you DONT MOVE, but of course when someone says that, all you can think of is moving. Anyway, they couldnt get it in, so I asked them to give me pethidine instead. I had two doses of that, but by 11am they said they wanted to induce me as I wasnt progressing fast enough. They wanted to give me the drip form of induction, and with that they have to give you an epidural. But this time a different anaethatist (sp?) came and used a totally different technique, with me lying on my side instead of sitting with shoulders slumped, and also because I was so tired and sleepy, I didnt move at all, and the needle went in straight away. I have to stay, after the epidural felt so good, and I wouldnt stop talk after that! My mum had to tell me to stop talking and reserve my energy for later on They also put a cathetar in, as now I couldnt move around. They also broke my waters at some point with a knitting-needle type thingie, but I cant remember at what point of the process, sorry! They gave me 4 top-ups of the epidural, but by around 6.30pm the effects of the epidural was wearing off, despite the top-ups, so they asked me if I wanted to have an emergency c-section. As I was in pain again and so tired, as I'd been awake with contractions for around 37 hours, I just agreed. I was awake, but the whole of my bottom half was totally numb. DH was by my side. It felt so strange, because you could feel them doing things around your stomach area, but obviously you cant feel the full thing. Saara was born at 7.51pm on Wednesday. Again dont read the next bit if you're squeamish, but I then lost 3 litres of blood and it took them a long time trying to stop the bleeding and for my blood to stop clotting. I remember at this point I felt so sleepy, so DH told me to sleep, but I said, I was scared that if I fell asleep, I wouldnt wake up ever I later found out at my 6 week check-up that if they didnt stop the bleeding they would have had to perform a hysterectomy on me, so thank the Lord they were able to stop it.

They showed me Saara when she was born but I couldnt hold her because of all the drama that was going on. She was so beautiful with so much hair! They then bought her into the recovery room, and I tried to hard to fight the sleep that was overcoming me to be able to hold my precious bundle. They then took back into the labour ward rather than the post-natal ward and my mum was able to stay the night. However again I couldnt sleep, but this time it was because I had so much adrenaline pumping inside of me and I was so excited because I finally met my lo I had a blood transfusion the next day

Wow, this has gone on for too long, and all you asked me was why I was induced! Sorry if theres tmi here. I'll spare you the horrors I went through in the post-natal ward for 3 days after as thats another long story!

Be back for personals

SabsFabulous · 21/05/2010 22:12

Apologies for the lack of paragraph, I meant to separate that out before I posted!

SabsFabulous · 21/05/2010 22:42

cupcake I dont know why, but all day today I kept on thinking that you were meant to have the baby tomorrow as well! By the way, sorry for mixing you and lbm up! Thanks for amending that blue. Also loving the bump pics. Yours as well 4ever*

mermaid When are you going on holiday? Are the bags packed yet? Your DS sounds so cute!

barbie at you going through my friends list. You must have way too much time on your hands! But no, its not 4ever I didnt even realise they had the same name! Get well soon, and hope you take full advantage of your mil and sil coming over

monkeybumsmum that crumble sounds so nice. Can I have some please

gg I used the boots brand (SPF50+), but I was reading a thread earlier today which said you shouldnt really be using sun block on babies under the age of 1, its more important that they're covered up (which I do anyway as well), so I'm a bit confused now. Would love to see a photo of your DD wearing the dress!

vjay good luck with the in-laws. Also I think it was you who recommended the Annabel Karmel book. I picked it up this week, it has quite good recipes so thanks for that!

neeko I hope you enjoyed my texts I have many more if you get bored again!

blue congrats to the family on the new arrival! Hope Ben is feeling better and you're both getting some sleep.

annie nice to see you! at E being 6 months soon! Would love to see some recent photo's of the boys. Good to hear the weaning is going well. Saara loves her food as well which is great, but likes everything to be warm, otherwise she wont eat it! We can see one tooth cutting through as well.

mls hope DD is feeling better.

QA we use pom poms at S's baby sensory class. I'll shake them for you then!

moon hope you're having a 'nice' dirty weekend

mrskate good to hear you had a good holiday

Sabs waves to bakingqueen curly iggy buddha mm lionstar louey pfj jools

Saara had her 8 month checkup, which was basically the HV weighing S (she's now 8kg/18 pounds) and asking lots of questions regarding weaning, activities we do together (no problems there!), sleep etc. The HV who did the check is my mums best friend so it was quite informal! S also started crawling properly yesterday so fun times ahead! She's also clapping and waving more but of course not on demand when you ask her to do it to show someone

Night all

GracieGirl · 21/05/2010 23:47

Good luck 4ever - I will be lurking for news constantly, though can't always post if my DD won't let me!

bakingqueen · 21/05/2010 23:55

Just wanted to say good luck for tomorrow to 4ever you are such a lovely lady and after all the bad times the sun will be shining brightly for you and your dh when you meet your little girl you deserve it so much sending you all my best wishes x x x

bakingqueen · 21/05/2010 23:55

Just wanted to say good luck for tomorrow to 4ever you are such a lovely lady and after all the bad times the sun will be shining brightly for you and your dh when you meet your little girl you deserve it so much sending you all my best wishes x x x

barbie1 · 22/05/2010 05:57

Whoooopppiiieeeeeeee

4ever is going to have a baby today
Good morning my lovelies, im super excited today! Wishing you lots of luck, energy and pain free pushing! Same applies to cupcake if minicake decides that today is a good day to make an appearance!

sabs i didn't technically go through your friends list i just noticed to the side of your page the lady with the same name as 4ever ...oh and regards to suncream, all babies should be subjected to 20 mins of sunlight per day from birth, this is to help with the vitamin d production. In the uk this means getting out every day for fresh air and if the sun isnt shining then spending slightly longer out on the days that it does (if ever!) Mainly during 8 months of the year the sun wont burn in the uk so keeping baby covered is more than enough, however in the summer months it is wise to use a spf on the lo's. It must however be approved by doctors. However the advice would still always be to keep infants out of the sun @ all times. The sun has a sneaky way of getting through infants clothes cos they move all the time! The doctors here say factor 50 is more than enough, anything higher becomes thicker and contains more ingredients maximizing the chance of a reaction.

Hope that makes sense?

monkey the banana boat range is ace, its bright white too so you can see where you have missed! I didnt get around to posting about you going back to work but i was thinking about you and think you did really really well. Another big step!

bakingqueen and moon i miss you both, tis very quiet in here of late. I hope rl is treating you both well...remember we are here whenever you need us.

blue i saw your other thread re sleeping at night, i didnt realize you were having problems i hope its getting better for you now and the lo is feeling more himself. I for one always look up to you and savior all the information and knowledge that you pass down to us.
Oh and congrats on the new family addition

neeko how are you doing me love? its so hard to type, feed and stop a wriggly baby escaping while trying to update on here isnt it? Thankfully Devon is down for her morning nap so im hands free

annie nice to see you back, although being friends on fb i can stalk see you any time i want!. Cant believe your boy is 6 months

mermaid heartmelt at your ds, what else would a small boy need apart from snorkels and a teddy...ahh bless him Not long to wait until you get some (much needed) sun. Although all my friends at home are telling me is a mini heatwave in the westcountry!

lbm i hope you are in heaven looking at you new daughter, has she got a name yet??? i was nodding of to sleep last night going through all the J names i know... Jenna, Jackie, Jenny, Jodie, Joycey And so on!
Hope all the tips come in handy, did you pack your air fresher?

gg Im glad baby was good for your little trip out, i too feel very proud if we make it out and there are no tears or tantrums makes everything to do with motherhood seem a breeze..until the key turns in the front door and all hell breaks lose, bring you back down to earth with a bum bruising bump!

vjay i will remember next time to tell my family that we have no room and dubai has lots of nice hotels! Although i doubt 7 of them will come at once I hope you have lots of fun and you make the most of them helping you out. As much as i love Devon im dreading looking forward to a date with dh on monday for our 2nd wedding anniversary. Will be the first time i have left her! yikes....

Oh dear, looks like nap time is over Back later girls x

MummyLovesSadie · 22/05/2010 07:20

Just wanted to pop in & wish 4ever all the luck in the world today! Will try & lurk later but will be back for a catch-up soon.

mermaidspurse · 22/05/2010 07:36

omg 4ever is having a baby

CurlyBigPants · 22/05/2010 07:37

Good luck 4ever!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is such an exciting day will be lurking for news. Go on cupcake beat her to it!