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Anyone wanna join my TTC thread???!!!

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caija · 18/04/2010 22:18

Hi, I am 29, been trying on and off for last 6 mnths or so for number 3, I have a dd, nearly 9, and a ds aged 3, who is disabled, I also have suffered 3 mc's, anyone else wanna join me in my journey???

Period started 14th April and curently on CD 5 and BD'd today, so the rollercoaster begins

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xkatyx · 11/05/2010 18:12

No im sure its not, im gutted and so upset , i had loads of symptoms ;(

Why are you out the dreaded AF hasnt come has it?

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caija · 11/05/2010 18:30

No it hasn't YET, I am getting period pain tho now, but my boobs are still agony,the worst they have ever been...

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xkatyx · 11/05/2010 19:07

see thats a good sign dont give up xxx

IfAtFirstUDontSucceed · 11/05/2010 19:23

Aww, chin up girlies - there is still hope

Well, I've still got my job, which is a relief and means I can relax a bit, and concentrate properly on any symptoms I get, rather than putting them down to stress. Really fancy a good few glasses of vino to celebrate, but I daren't - just in case ;)

Cramping has been bad today, so much so it's making my back ache!

xkatyx · 12/05/2010 07:33

Glad to hear you still have your job

How are you thid morning caija? i have no more spotting yet, but this is usually how my period goes so im def not hopeful at all!!!

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caija · 12/05/2010 08:59

Am pretty rubbish ths morning...another BFN...my boobs are in agony too..., god I hope tht ths isn't a symptom of AF all the time, it's agony xx

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xkatyx · 12/05/2010 10:42

what test are you using?

IfAtFirstUDontSucceed · 12/05/2010 21:13

aaaarrrgghh, somebody slap me, I've fallen in to the testing too early trap. I'm so-o-o-o angry with myself.

Am only 10DPO and bought some boots cheapies today in preparation for AF due day - NEXT FREAKING MONDAY. I've told myself far too many times that I wouldnt test before AF was due - but I have and I regret it!
It was if they were burning a hole though my bathroom floor, screaming to be used!

BFN by the way in case you didnt guess! [don't deserve an emotion emotion]

xkatyx · 13/05/2010 09:34

I did that too, started testing too early, such a waste of money lol but i woukd still do it again ha ha

hows everyone getting on today?

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caija · 13/05/2010 10:06

Hey Katy I knw, still BFN ths morning, so guess I am out xxx

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ijceb · 13/05/2010 10:39

Morning everyone,

I'm with you all the way, it is so difficult to resit testing.

I have just bought a OPK and tested this morning, not surprising really but it is negative. I was just interested to see if the dates I work out on paper are the same as the OPK.

XXX

xkatyx · 13/05/2010 10:49

no not out yet caija not till af comes and its due today? and not there yet. could be implanted later

well my spotting as started and stopped had tiny bit this morning but nothing else? implantation? or af i will def no by morning as my af always get heavier 9really heavy0 so just waiting to see, nervous everytime i go to the loo, but 99% sure its af

good luck everyone.

when are you due on ijceb?

xxx

ijceb · 13/05/2010 16:45

I've got my fingers crossed for you.

I'm afraid AF arrived on Saturday, I have a very short cycle, but on a positive note DH and I are going to start BD this weekend.

XXX

xkatyx · 13/05/2010 17:06

Oh good luck to you ijceb, positive thoughts we will all ger there soon

IfAtFirstUDontSucceed · 13/05/2010 18:57

Good luck girlies!
All my "symptom" have dissapeared were they all in my head? hmmmm....

xkatyx · 13/05/2010 19:02

My syptoms have got a bit stronger? very sore boobs and a stonker of a head ache, still very slightly spotting twicw today but thats it.

No there not in your head, i know from previous pregnancys symptoms can come and go.

#x

IfAtFirstUDontSucceed · 13/05/2010 19:26

Really? That's reassuring, thanks xkatyx

Have you tested today? Are yiu due on tomorrow?

xkatyx · 13/05/2010 19:33

no i never tested today as i keep thinking its af

im due on sat so i dont have a clue whats happening.

yeah they come and go, mine always did one day i was feeling sick sore boobs then next nothing.

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caija · 13/05/2010 20:08

Hi girlz, still no af, but bad pains...itz rubbish

Katy test!! I bet itz implantation...ijceb, sorry bout yr Af xxx

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xkatyx · 13/05/2010 20:31

i have 1 fr left im going to do it in the morning .. not got high hopes though just accepting af and can start trying again in a few days ahhhhhhhh ive gone from the dreaded 2ww to 4 weeks dam it.

I will let you know as soon as i do it though.

caija, very promising ill exspect a lovely bfp off you soon

babylove2 · 14/05/2010 12:11

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ijceb · 14/05/2010 17:00

Caija - when are you due on? are you going to test?

xkatyx - have you tested yet or are you waiting til Saturday?

babylove2 - sorry to hear your news it's so confusing and just typical that the symptoms are the same as AF, but still there's a chance, if your AF isn't normal

xkatyx · 14/05/2010 17:06

Ok my period is here i think im so upset, been spotting since tuesday evening so unlike my usual period was just brown (sorry tmi) but today it's pinkish and alot more so AF is here ..

But mostly upset as my Husband who is suppose to want a baby as much as me has decided maybe he doesnt!!!

So all in all a very shitty day and very close to tears

Hows everyone getting on?

ijceb · 14/05/2010 17:29

xkatyx - just replied to you on your other thread.

All I can say is that I am so, so sorry for you

I really wish there was something that I could do to help. XXX

IfAtFirstUDontSucceed · 14/05/2010 18:23

Aww Katy, perhaps he's just having a rough day too and is jumping the gun a bit.

My AF arrive this morning too which was a shock as it wasnt due till Monday, and there was no build up (am normally a spotty, snappy bitch a few days beforehand).
Back to square one.

I really don't know what else we could have done, BD'd EVERY day for 5 days before OV & once again afterwards for luck that's what's makes it so frustrating!

11 day LP worries me a bit too!

On the positive side it means I can have SEVERAL glasses of vino over the weekend without thinking "am I? Arent I?"