TTC after a Miscarriage - Keep Trying!!!!

[Diddle]

Well ladies, its about time we had a new thread, the old one is getting very long. Plus I think we need another fresh start, with lots of positive babydust:

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Get a big handful girls, i think we all need it.
I was trying to think of something great and positive to put, but this TTC lark is getting us all down, i'm fed up of trying, but we will all succeed eventually, our times will come.

It will be much better for our little ones to have a good start when our bodies are truly ready to carry them.

Ive had those pains for over a week too Debsy. Im 37 so i know i have a good chance but its till so worrying isnt it. Take care Debsy and goodluck. Are you staying on this thread and trying again?

Morning Cp.

im on the other one april baby showers.com i gatecrashed yours im sorry you take care 2 no think im going to leave it now as im finding it too hard.

I have to keep trying, i know ill regret it if i dont. Ill look out for you Debsy, try not to give up. Take care xxxxxx

I've got everything crossed for you maddyd.X

Morning all.
Think a good few of you are in need in a Kat special.... here goes.
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for you all and for Maddy.
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Hiya girls,soz haven't been around to support you all...especially you mads,oh hunny..what can i say!? We'll see what tuesday brings,hopefully its not as bad as you think it is?Either way you know you can turn to us for support.x.x
I've been abit selfish the last couple of days in that i haven't wanted to see or speak to anyoneWas nervous about testing...did one this morning and was a bfn!Yet at the same time AF hasn't arrived and it was due today(or def tomorrow!?as AF was VERY light on the first day?)
I just want an answer either way,either a bfp of my bloody AF!!!!!
Don't know why I was so funny the last couple of days??Abit better today but just want an answer either way so i can get on with things!!
I was just reading through all the messages i missed...got EXTREMELY excited for you mads,and am now hoping and praying that i can STAY excited for you,someone needs a bfp,and you def deserve the happiness!
I also read what you wrote nicmum2boys,about getting lots of bfn's,then days after AF getting a bfp!(fingers crossed that that is the case for me!)
Hi to c.p,how you doing hunny,let me know!.x.
Hi to everyone else too,carly82,diddle and all the rest of the ladies!!(soz am bit dim,can't remember everyones names!)
Mads if your there,let me know how you are ok?I worry bout you hun,and am sending you lots of virtual (((((hugs)))).x.x
Is anyone around at the mo?.x

Oh maddyd My heart goes out to you hun ((((((((((((((((xxxxxxxxxxxxxx))))))))))))))))))

Not tested today and AF due today and no sign.Not going to test (promise)till mid week but AF will probably show by then.

TMI coming up.Got clear discharge and boobs swelled.Then on other hand had about 5 bfns last week so who knows.

Sort of resigned myself to AF arriving now and hoping for May baby.

xxxxxxxxxxx to all out there especially those testing this weekend
xxxxxxxx shelly24
xxxxxxxxxxx(((((((maddyd)))))))))have everything crossed for you

mads - just quickly once u have the BFP - stop testing FF says to stop as it causes un neccesary worry. fingers still crossed for u, but please stop temping for now. will catch up properly tomorrow.

Am seriously confused by my body at the mo!!Have cramps every now and then(pretty much had them for last week or so!?),AF hasn't arrived and i kinda want it to(or to get a bfp!),so i know where i stand right now,it makes me think i'm not in control of my own body!!and what if i've totally misjudged the whole months fertility(i'm pretty sure i haven't!?)
Getting obsessive i reckon and its not good!!!!

hi to everyone!!! af due tomorrow really scared bought fifteen pt(yes fifteen!!!!) if no af tomorrow gonna test being crampy tho so not holding out much hope
good luck to everyone else testing today or tomorrow xxx

Afternoon all, Still no AF (arghhhhhh) I keep thinking that its here, go to the toilet and its nothing VV frustrating.
Wishing the best for you MaddyD xxxx

Sounds like we are all in the same boat!!{smile]

I too am checking every 5 mins in the toilet and going through lots loo roll!!

If ever there was a bunch of women more deserving then its you lot.I pray for each and every one of us that we get the BFP as soon as possible and this horrible,frustrating ordeal will be over very,very soon

I drank three glasses of wine at lunch today so I'm hoping that the BFN was the truth.

I had a wine and soda last night as I was convinced (and still am) that AF is on way

I dont think it matters.I fretted so much about drinking in 1st pg (I had two units a week as 'allowed' by NHS)then in 2nd pg NHS said none so I abstained.I went on to loose this baby so I reckon a little drink wont harm you

So true CP.
They say best is none now and, same as you, mc. With ds1 I rarely touched the stuff but hit 5/6mths pg and craved bitter and Newcastle brown ale. So had 1 a week (of either). Mw said it was actually good for baby, don't think they would've said the same however if it was voddies I was necking!
Mind you, since ds2, I rarely drink now anyway!
How's everyone?
Off to watch "How clean is your house?" so I can get more tips! God I'm obsessed with this cleaning lark!
Take care all xxxxxxxxxxxx

P.s CP- are you watching the BB live tonight? (9pm c4)Ohhh new housemate! I think they should put Kemal back in. If that selfish mare had walked Friday night instead, then he'd still be there.

Think BB is one of the rare things that keep me sane these days!!!(how mad is THAT!watching other people and their lives!!)
Will be interesting to see who the new recruit is!?
Hows everyone feeling this eve?
I hear where your coming from c.p!!Think i need shares in andrex as well as clearblue!!!.x

Evening everyone. Thankyou so much for your kind wishes. Dont think i will test on Tue, not much point really. I still have major pains and the bleeding is heavier. And im fine about it

Just very cross with myself, i said last month i wouldnt use those bloody early tests. Its obviously the implanting i have a prob with. And now i have a short cycle too so i dont know whats happening. Last month i only bled for two days.

Anyway can someone slap me if i even mention testing early again. I promise to always now wait till im at least a week late.

Love to you all and ill catch up with you soon.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Lovely to hear from you mads,thanx for letting us know your ok.x
Look after yourself ok...lots of (((hugs)))to you.x.x

new housemate on bb???

had no idea!!

will tune in (if only to tale mind of ttc lark )

Thanks Shelly. I feel selfish. I mean i have three and so lucky and theres so may of you that havnt had your first yet and i know i should be, and i am eternally thankfull for them.

But it still hurts, the need for another, the trying and the loss.

Its completely natural mads,you wouldn't be normal if you didn't feel that way.x
yes,you are blessed to have your children,and yes it is probably harder for me and others who haven't had a chance yet,but the urge for a baby is the same with everyone i think,whether there are other children or not.I really feel for you maddy,i really do...i'm gonna be really strong for us both in the days ahead.x.x.

(((((maddyd))))))

I too sometimes feel selfish as I have a dd and think of those who have nothing yet.

But I can honestly say that the need for another is the strongest yet

oh mads honney ((((hugs)))) for u it's so unfair, how long's ur cycle? FWIW i have short cycles (25/27 days dep on OV) as long as u have a LP or 10 days apparently things should be OK, (((hugs)) be good to yourself honney.

CP - just quick as well, I found out I was PG 3 days after going out on a major drinking fest with the girls, still waiting to see if any harm's done, hopefully this month's for u, will keep watching!

good luck to the rest of u girls.