TTC first time

[HevaU]

Hi all

Really new to all this - been looking through all your posts for the past month or so. We only started TTC this past month all i seem to be doing is symptom spotting. Think i?m trying to convince my self that i am.

Here are my symptoms:
Sickness most of the time
Cramps
Bleeding ? Brownish (implantation bleed is what i have convinced myself it is)

Oh and i have done about 4 tests all BFN. Still have 6 days to go not too sure whether to test tomorrow? Someone needs to stop me
Does this get any better the longer it takes?

I was like that when we first started trying and hubby and I were at it almost every night. By just the 3rd month I had lost all hope and thought it was never going to happen!! We only did it about 3-4 times during the whole month and I thought - oh well there goes another month of not getting pregnant. But guess what?!? I got pregnant.

So my advise is, just relax and don't try too hard.

Thank you for that Irons, I'm quiet proud today managed not to test this morning, lets hope i can keep it up