Not the Mother's days present i wanted :-(

[Lib76]

Well the day got off to a good start, DS slept till 810 and i ran off to the loo and got the test out...BFN, gutted! due AF tomorrow so no chance i am PG ;-( Now don't know what to do cause if we get PG next cycle baby would be due about 20th Dec! Would hate to be in hospital for DS xmas! Complicated pregnancy last time so would prob be CS.

If it helps, I had my CS on the 20th of December just before midnight and was home on the afternoon of the 22nd, so didn't miss Christmas

When I first started TTC I thought that I really, really didn't want a Christmas baby. AF due Wednesday and not much chance this month, but now (four cycles down the line) I can't even think of not trying next month to avoid Christmas.

If you do get pregnant next month, it will just be one Christmas out of the rest of your lives together as a family. Not sure how old your DS is, but (if you were in hospital) you could alway move Christmas day! And just think, surely a little brother or sister would be a wonder Christmas present.

I tested Christmas day, so know how you're feeling about testing on a special day - you kind of get it into your head that it'll be so right to see that BFP on Mothers Day.

Plus - maybe it'll take a bit of pressure off next month - When you get round to 'testing time', you'll be able to think either "great I'm pregnant" or "Oh well, it wouldn't have been good timing".

Enjoy the rest of the day with your DS.

Ah bless you, I got a BFN on my birthday but it meant I could get nicely sloshed

tis also worth remembering that elective c section will be done earlier. like a week before HTH

Thanks for all the lovely comments girls! that's why i love MN!

purple you are right would be one of the best Christmas presents we could have! DS is 2 in June so won't really be that aware.

withoutwithoutyou i will indeed have a few glasses of the white stuff tonight while subjecting DH to "Dancing on Ice"!!

Had chat with my sister today and she agrees with you purple just go for it and xmas will be special regardless...that is of course we get PG!! [laugh]

DH happy as more SWI!!!!