Why do i do it to myself :-(

[ttcbabyno3]

Hi,

i took a first response test this morning, and got a BFN i'm so silly cause i'm not due on till next sat so a week yet, but i cant help feel really upset :-(

We all do don't we!! I am due on Monday and did a test this am BFN i am still trying to convince myself it will be +ve tomorrow! i am using test that i steal borrow from work! they are quite cheap so tend to work best on due day. I remember doing one with DS and it was -ve in the afternoon then +ve the next morning! ttc fingers crossed for you, you have got a while yet till due.

You do it because all you want is a baby.
Thats why we all do it.
And every day leading up to due day drags like a thousand days in one.

Hugs love, we have all been there.

Thank you :-( i know i will do another one tommorow, i tell myself no wait, then i think sod it just do it lol. i hate the dissapointment afterwards.

I have light period pains today so i hope its not early period comming :-(

Good luck lib76 keep us posted in the am , im sure ill be back on all uposet and dissapointed.

Been there every month , hugs to you x.

Awww ttc is it still not too early for a +ve result though?? We are due same day almost I think - you'll have me testing early at this rate!! Try and leave it a wee bit longer for the next one and fingers crossed for your BFP, I've been cramping slightly as well although not sure if it's real or imaginary!! Could be AF surprising me with a short cycle again Keep us posted.

Good luck to you too Lib

oh brilliant when is everyone's AF due?

mine is 21st march (next sat) i know mine is far too early to test, it says 4 days before blush

good luck everyone. xx

Thanks MrsWajs i'm not too hopeful really, feel like AF is coming but will try again in the morning!

Me too - this month had the joy of a series of BFNs, then managed to convince myself that I was experiencing implantation bleeding which was in fact AF turning up early

The thing is, I know I'll be doing exactly the same next month too

I did a cheapy test and it had the faintest of all faintest lines .. i mean you had to hold it upo to the window. i think maybe just getting my hopes up.

Oooooh ttcbabyno3, that sounds promising!

I'm no expert, but I believe a line is a line is a line!

Was it within the time limit for the test you were using?

a line is a line is a line...good luck!

oh thats what i though, but DH sais there isnt one lol am i just going mad im actually seeing lines lol

yes about 10 mins x

I'm due between 19th & 21st, depends on cycle length as it varies but I'll give it til the 21st anyway before testing, although in saying that I still think I'm gonna go early - got that heavy feeling about me!

Exciting about your line ttc are you gonna re-test again tomorrow?? And Lib hope you get your BFP in the morning too!! Keep us posted.

Sorry you got a BFN 4of4.

x

I tested thios morning got a BFN it does say on the box to test 4 days before though blush

So i now feel even more upset cause i have used all my pregnancy tests i got for this week. i just feel like im not pregnant now :-(

Aww ttc it is technically still to early tho? Maybe buy one more the day before u are due and test then??
I am waiting til 21st if no AF by then (unlikely) I will test.

Yeah it is too early, i have an obssesion lol i have been really good today no peeing on a stick for me today.

So we are basically due about the same time? fingers crossed for you

xx

Yep I reckon so although I am never sure as my cycles are different most of the time 27 - 32 days so up to the 21st would be my 32 days which is why I'm waiting til then to test! Although saying that I've just been readin about anovulatory cycles and have now convinced myself that's what I'm having since I haven't been able to pinpoint ovulation this month lol! Crazy I know!!xx

Oh you are sooo good, i would of tested by now. my cycle is between 27-28 so im not even sure i got my ovulation date really, and prob imagining pregnancy symptoms.

Yes we all go through crazy stages, i did a first response yesterday and busted it open to have a closer look and there was a slight faint line, but i think maybe an evap line or something. i sooo want to test today. But i wont :-)

No more testing for you til at least Thursday me thinks!! Then you'll almost definitely know whichever result you get is probably right!?
C'mon you know you can do it - if I can wait you can too hehe

Too late did one got a very faint line with first response so I don't know sodding faint lines xx

If you got a line with a FR test then you are pregnant. I got a line and it was faint but it was definately a visible line with DS 4 days before AF was due, they are pretty good so i think that congratulations are in order!

Ooooheeee!! This is your 2nd faint line isn't it?? Sounds VERY promising!

Now tempted to first response myself, am on CD28 and longest cycle has been 32 so technically that would be 4 days before AF due????

To test or not to test, this is the question?!?!?!?!x

A question actually, would it need to be a first response test or would a CB digital do the trick?????

I have one CB dig and one cheapo test in the house, kinda wanted to save the CB tho - weird I know!! lol

well i have done 2 FR tests, both lines very faint but there :-) done clear blue digital and it sais not pregnant? :-(