***************** December bus open for business ************

[nickymorris]

Hey lovely people

I've just come off the October bus and because of my long cycles my spreadsheet says that I skip November and would be due in December.

So I thought I'd start the December bus.

Here's the start of the stats - looking forward to some friends hopping on board soon.

nickymorris TTC#2; Cycle 5; UCL 32-37; CD1

Sorry AF got you Prinpo

Catherine I have still got FC for you, sounding very promising

I have started cramping so pretty sure AF is on its way, feeling just as resigned as you Pinkie but will try and stay positive

I think I am definitely out now, have more bleeding this morning including some thick dark red clots. Now am thinking maybe I was pregnant for a little while but am not now.

Dinkytinky ttc#1 cycle1 ucl 28 cd49
clareanna TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 35 CD48
Caracarolina TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30-32 CD41
Chico193 TTC#1 Cycle 1 (sort of as have tried on and off for about 9 months) UCL 37 days CD41
Decafgirl ttc#2 cycle 3 UCL 32-34 CD35
Nuttysquirrel TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 30-31 CD345
MumofZac TTC#2 Cycle6 UCL30 CD34
Ariesgirl TTC#1 Cycle 2, UCL 28-29, CD34
Doozie TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 27-28, CD??
lauraloo09 TTC#2 Cycle 1(after natural mc)UCL 32 CD?? due to mc
Pinkiepoo TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28 - 36 CD34
Botbot TTC#2 Cycle2 UCL22-23 CD32
Boba82 TTC#1 Cycle 11 UCL 35 CD30
littlemiss72 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28 CD30
wholelottalove TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 22-31 CD29
Mimi1977 TTC #2 Cycle 3 ucl 27-31 CD29
Goodluckbear TTC#1 cycle 2 (post mc)UCL29 CD28
Liahgen TTC#6 Cycle 1 (post erpc) ucl 26 cd28
Beckylou85 TTC#1 Cycle#6 UCL28 CD27
Keziahhopes TTC#1 Cycle 18 UCL 28-30 CD26
Molly79 TTC#1; Cycle 2; UCL unknown; CD26
Speckledeggy TTC#1 Cycle5 UCL28 CD26
Sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL 29 CD25
BrassicaBabe TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 28 CD25
Nanny01 ttc#5 cycle 4 UCL 28 age 37 CD24
LittleSilver TTC#4 Cycle 2 UCL 31 CD23
Lucygrif TT#? Cycle ? UCL ? CD23
twolittlemonkeys TTC#3 for 2 years Cycle 3 UCL ??? CD22 (1st cycle of Clomid)
UmBongo TTC#2 cycle 22 ucl 31-34 cd22
OnASecretMission ttc no2 cycle 6 ucl 26-30 cd 21
PollyPoo TTC#2 Cycle 24 UCL25 CD19
Lib76 TTC#2 cycle 4 UCL 30 CD 18
Cazzr TTC#2 Cycle5 UCL28-30 CD17
mumatron TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 30-31days CD17
number2whereareyouttc#2,cycle 2, ucl 28-33, cd17
Womanlytales: TTC#1, Cycle?, UCL28,CD17(Clomid Cycle 1,50)
Totallyfloaty35 ttc number 4 cycle 3 UCL28 CD13
LittleB, TTC#2 Cycle 3, UCL 25-27 CD13
oopslateagain TTC#2 Cycle23 UCL26 CD13
BunnyBaby TTC#3Cycle 3 ucl 28 CD 13
Moomaker TTC#1; Cycle 6; UCL 26; CD 8

Graduates
digitalgirl BFP 24/03/10
Squitten BFP 26/03/10
Cozie BFP 30/03/10
Trytobebrave BFP 02/04/10
CatherineEarnshaw BFP 04/04/10
Spanishlady BFP 03/04/10

Sorry to hear that asianbabe I've taken you off. Think I will be joining you soon on the Jan bus.

Oh so sorry to hear that chico, hope you are ok?

Am officially off the bus now. See you - hopefully most of you will graduate.

Thanks boba, I'm just glad I hadn't tested so I don't know whether I was pregnant or not, at least I can think it never really happened and I was imagining things.

chico sorry for the dissapointment,,,,hope you are ok?

Sorry for all the other AFers......quite poss see you in a few days

Hi ladies, looks like a lot of you are off to the January bus, sorry if AF got you .

Feel really down today no sign of AF for me, no signs of any possible pregnancy and I think my super fertile friend is pregnant. I know I should be thrilled for her (and I am, honest) but I can't help thinking it should be me and I have an overwhelming urge to cry and bang my fists on the floor with the unfairness of it all. I think I hate my body right now.

Wallow, wallow, wallow......

Nothing wrong with that decafgirl I'm sick fed up of everyone I know dropping pregnant at drop of a hat or falling pregnant by "accident", I wish I would have an "accident" like that! .

I'm right there with you wallowing, totally fed up this month.

Thanks boba xx

hello all, and goodbye to those hopping off to the jan bus.

well, im pretty sure i ov'd on sat or sunday. so on the 2ww for me now. this is the worst part. cant even talk myself into having pretend symptoms this early.

had results of my dp's 2nd sperm analysis today. he has poor morphology and a lower than normal count.

urologist and consultant are trying to get us to try ICSI or IUI. im not so sure. i have been pg 4 times in the last 2 years and i cant find any evidence to say that poor morphology can cause recurrent miscarriage

Hi everyone and sorry to those who got AF.

decaf you're not alone, I'm feeling a bit grumpy, have convinced myself there is no way this is my month and just waiting for AF to arrive.

mumatron sounds like you've had a rough time, I'm sorry for your losses. I have no idea about the technicalities of the poor morphology, hopefully someone will. 2ww sucks though doesn't it?

Still feeling quite crampy, sore boobs and generally uncomfortable. Also knackered but probably not more than usual for me. Feeling tempted to do test even though AF not quite due just to put mind to rest but don't want to face the inevitable bfn.

Sorry to hear your disappointing news mumatron

Looks like we're all feeling a bit down in the dumps this week, hopefully there will be some more BFPs soon to cheer this bus up!

Starting to wonder about a fertility monitor thingy...anyone got any experience of these?

Have spent the last few hours persuading myself I feel sick, have cramps, have heartburn etc... I'm my own worst enemy!

I'm going to POAS on fri or sat morning to make 100% certain as I'm off out for a girly night on saturday x

decaf girl aren't you already late? you must have great willpower!

So sorry to all who got AF. Sorry everyone is feeling a bit down too. I'm in a foul mood tonight so dreading that I'm PMTish. Got cramps too but that means nothing as i know I got them when preg with DD but of course have had them every month I haven't been preg.

Just noticed that decafgirl, wholelottalove and me! are all TTC number 2 and are on our 3rd month - started in the new year by any chance girls?! I got preg first month of trying before and think I thought the same would happen again. Silly me! Still, very early days I know and I feel dreadfully for those TTC number 1 after months and months.

Had to go to chemist today but DH wouldn't let me buy HPT so have to wait till Sunday as he doesn't want to have to face a BFN and I'm the same. Tomorrow will be a major milestone though as AF generally 29 days so tomorrow would be the one but have been having slight variations recently.

Good luck all!

Yeah, I'm CD35 but usually would've started AF yesterday. Not sure I ovulated tho so really not surprised at lack of AF

Would be delighted to get a BFP but definately not getting my hopes up. 99.9% sure I'll be on the Jan bus soon xx

Another day another dollar...

Dinkytinky ttc#1 cycle1 ucl 28 cd50
clareanna TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 35 CD49
Caracarolina TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30-32 CD42
Decafgirl ttc#2 cycle 3 UCL 32-34 CD36
Nuttysquirrel TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 30-31 CD36
MumofZac TTC#2 Cycle6 UCL30 CD35
Ariesgirl TTC#1 Cycle 2, UCL 28-29, CD35
Doozie TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL 27-28, CD??
lauraloo09 TTC#2 Cycle 1(after natural mc)UCL 32 CD?? due to mc
Pinkiepoo TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28 - 36 CD35
Botbot TTC#2 Cycle2 UCL22-23 CD33
Boba82 TTC#1 Cycle 11 UCL 35 CD31
littlemiss72 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28 CD31
wholelottalove TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 22-31 CD30
Mimi1977 TTC #2 Cycle 3 ucl 27-31 CD30
Goodluckbear TTC#1 cycle 2 (post mc)UCL29 CD29
Liahgen TTC#6 Cycle 1 (post erpc) ucl 26 cd29
Beckylou85 TTC#1 Cycle#6 UCL28 CD28
Keziahhopes TTC#1 Cycle 18 UCL 28-30 CD27
Molly79 TTC#1; Cycle 2; UCL unknown; CD27
Speckledeggy TTC#1 Cycle5 UCL28 CD27
Sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL 29 CD26
BrassicaBabe TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 28 CD26
Nanny01 ttc#5 cycle 4 UCL 28 age 37 CD25
LittleSilver TTC#4 Cycle 2 UCL 31 CD24
Lucygrif TT#? Cycle ? UCL ? CD24
twolittlemonkeys TTC#3 for 2 years Cycle 3 UCL ??? CD23 (1st cycle of Clomid)
UmBongo TTC#2 cycle 22 ucl 31-34 cd23
OnASecretMission ttc no2 cycle 6 ucl 26-30 cd 22
PollyPoo TTC#2 Cycle 24 UCL25 CD20
Lib76 TTC#2 cycle 4 UCL 30 CD 19
Cazzr TTC#2 Cycle5 UCL28-30 CD18
mumatron TTC#3 Cycle 3 UCL 30-31days CD18
number2whereareyouttc#2,cycle 2, ucl 28-33, cd18
Womanlytales: TTC#1, Cycle?, UCL28,CD18(Clomid Cycle 1,50)
Totallyfloaty35 ttc number 4 cycle 3 UCL28 CD14
LittleB, TTC#2 Cycle 3, UCL 25-27 CD14
oopslateagain TTC#2 Cycle23 UCL26 CD14
BunnyBaby TTC#3Cycle 3 ucl 28 CD 14
Moomaker TTC#1; Cycle 6; UCL 26; CD 9

Graduates
digitalgirl BFP 24/03/10
Squitten BFP 26/03/10
Cozie BFP 30/03/10
Trytobebrave BFP 02/04/10
CatherineEarnshaw BFP 04/04/10
Spanishlady BFP 03/04/10

I think that's it.

decafgirl quick question. I may sound a little thick here, but here goes: If you don't ovulate does this mean you don't get the AF??

I don't think i did, and still waiting for AF, not really late as such as i am irregular but could this mean i won't get one at all?

Very confused

You do get your AF Pinkie as the lining of your uterus still breaks down every month and comes away regardless of whether you ovulate but I'm not sure about if it makes AF late but you will get it.

Kept waking up throughout the night convinced mine had started but keeping it at bay so far!

mimi i am convinced mine is coming either today or tomorrow. Cramps starting back up, and can just feel it......arggghhhh!!

The fact i am still very addicted to coffee, makes me think that PG is not happening this month!!

decaf I'm at end of my first cycle using the CBFM and I would recommend it. It has really made me understand my cycle better and has confirmed my suspicions that I am not ovulating properly so I can go fully armed to GP next week.

We have a CBFM thread going so you could pop in & get others opinions. I will try and post a link.

Here's that link decaf

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/870819?pagingOff=1#19219140

AF came no peaks for me this month, the only blessing is that we won't have to worry about christmas as dh was concerned about that. See you ladies on the January bus.

In some cases when you don't O you still get your AF. In other cases, you might not get an AF. For eg: Last year in May my days which were fairly regular skipped a month and did that three times in a row [the first time I thought I was preg..the second time I still thought I was preg and by the third time I wisened up and went and saw my doc. So my doc said 52 day cycles clearly means that there is no ovulation happening. In Jan this year I got OD done and got my AF (28 days) but the progesterone testing at Day 21 was 0.3 and so doc said he doesn't think O happened despite that my cycle is now bang on at 28 days.
The ovulation tests also haven't indicated a lh surge so it's one big mystery.
I am currently on my first round of Clomid - had some symptons of O on day 14 -- and since am in my 2ww. A part of me though doesn't trust my 'symptoms' because I think I might be imagining it. So this is my first 'conscious' 2ww post the scares in the last six months.

There are times when I get terribly obsessive - other times when I am 'normal'.