Can anyone tip me one way or another, we're contemplating number 3. Have two DDs, aged 4 and 2.5. Husband has been out of work now p/t and I'm doing 24hrs in a job I love. Feels really fun with two, if manic (obviously!). By turns, I think it'd be lovely but then also huge thought going back to baby stage when DD2 is nearly out of nappies and feeding self etc. If we're going to go for it, we don't want to leave it too long to have a big gap as we're both from families of 3 with that. Anybody have some enlightening personal experience to throw into the melting pot? : )