TTC after a miscarriage member Stats

[Diddle]

me
Age: 24, 25 in 9 days!!!
Job: Childminder

DH
Age: 33
Job: Consultancy business manager

No children yet, trying for our first, again!
Location: Midlands

1st m/c: 30th Jan 2005
2nd m/c: 3rd Apr 2005

Me
25, 26 in 5days!!!
Job childminder

DH
29
Runs the national ambulance service

DS7
DD3
DD 1 on friday!!!

MMC 18th May ERPC 19th May
I've had my AF and am on CD12 but not sure about TTC The baby I m/c we had seen the heartbeat but it didn't grown proparly (although it kept growing for about 4 weeks) I'm scared about concieving again and having a baby with severe SN and also the impact on my other three DC's.
But I'm also desssssssprete to have another!!

Me
Age 35 (36 in Oct )
Job-Bank Clerk

DH
Age 35 (just)
Job-Vehicle Estimator

1 DD who is 2 on the 19th July

1 MC on 30th May 2005 and still waiting for AF so we can try, try again!

Thought I'd add my stats as I still pop in to check on you guys, and thought newbies might wonder who I was!!

me
Age 31 (32 in 28 days as we seem to be counting )
Job: self-employed finance systems consultant

DH
Age 39 (40 in a couple of months - not counting days!)
Job: self-employed IT consultant

Live in North Herts
ttc number 1 since Feb 2001!!!!
Missed m/c discovered at 12 weeks with ERPC 7th Oct 04.
Now happily but nervously pg again and due 3rd Feb 06.

Me
Age: 35
Job:Support Worker (Mental health)
Location: London

DH
Age: 40
Job:Caterer/Chef (self employed)

1 DS age 3.5

1st (early) Miscarriage ( 2001)
2nd missed Miscarriage,induced on 30th of April at 17 weeks.
Baby stopped growing at around 14.6 but heard heart beat at booking in appt at 15 weeks. No hearbeat at 16 weeks.

me
34 (35 in August)
Administrator (HE)
In Scotland

DH
35
Training Consultant

1x dd who is 2 and a half.

1 m/c around end May/start of June.
No AF yet but desperate to get pregnant again with a happier outcome so just started acupuncture...

me
Age: 31
Job: IT manager

DH
Age: 41
Job: IT consultant

I have endometriosis and had laparoscopy before conceiving dd. She's nearly 2 now.

m/c Feb 05

Have had some a/f since, but very irregular, thought I should be ovulating a few days ago but the testing kits say no!

Just back from hols and want to re join the fun.

Me: 28
DH: 35
No Children
1 missed M/C in May baby was 7 weeks I thought I was around 9 weeks
Had an ERPC and five weeks later AF arrived. She's just left, now I'm TTC!
I work at home as a voice artist. Live in SW London.

me
Age: 30
Job: HR Manager

DH
Age: 36
Job: Marketing Manager

DD: 2 and a half
Location: Surrey

m/c: 15 Apr 2005. I was 19 weeks, baby was between 15-16 weeks. Scan fine, heard heartbeat at 14 weeks, no heartbeat at 19 weeks. M/c the next day.

me
38 (sad](but mentally about 9)
Anti Social Behaviour Case Manager (I really am a big bad mamma!!!)
dh
37 (and 7mths-toyboy)

Missed miscarriage when married to hubby no 1 in 1992 at 12 weeks (scan revealed baby stopped growing at 6 weeks)
Years of ttc with said hubby.Fertilty treatment for unexplained infertilty.Left him in 1996.

Met dh and got pg without really trying (said we would give it a go thinking cos of my past probs,no chance)
result is dd 20 mths
stillbirth april 05 my darling philippa 25 weeks.Stopped moving,scan confirmed worse,induced and then nightmare following.
TTC since got all clear in may 05...............

slightly mad but kept sane by you guys and lots m&ms (hencename)

oops

dh is a fork lift truck driver!!

me

age: 18
Job: stay at home mom

dp

age: 19
Job: car valet and driver

1 gorgeous ds 11 months
location: slap bang in the middle of w/sussex/hampshire

2 - proper m/c's
7 - early missed m/c's

Me
Age 35
Stay at home Mum
DH
Age 36
Business Improvement Manager for a major pharmaceutical co.

Have 2 beautiful DSs aged 4 (5 in 9 days!) and 2.

Had m/c at 6 weeks in Nov 1999, after 3 years of ttc, then got pg with DS1 straight after, no period in between.
Had m/c at 7 weeks in Nov 2004. Weren't ttc at the time, DH adamant no more children. Lots of heartache, and nearly the end of our marriage later we are now ttc no 3, but have set a deadline for Christmas (kind of regretting that bit now ). Hence now desperate for it to happen quickly and before DH changes his mind again and runs off to get the snip!

Dh is blind (well extremely partially sighted), and that combined with money and house space (or lack of it) issues were his reasons for not wanting any more, so am trying (mostly failing) to be superwoman and convince him another baby will be nothing but joy joy joy as far as he's concerned.

Me:24
(nursery nurse for 7 years,work with babies 3mths to 15mths)
Dh:27
Team leader at coca cola
Married in january 2005(together 5 years prior)
TTC in september after semi serious chat about having a baby...got preg straight away!
Rhys(a little boy of 6lbs 6oz!was stillborn on 14/05/05 due to hydrops and a liver malformation )
TTC after all clear in june...desperate to be a mum.x

Me
Age: 32
Job: Business Support Manager

DH
Age: 36
Job: Management Consultant

No children yet, desperately trying for our first.

Location: London

1st m/c: Jan 05

Going for 1st try at acupuncture next week. Have already tried reflexology.

me
30
Stay at home mum (hopefully training to be a councellor soon)
dp {soon to be dh!)
24 {25 in Dec yep a toy-boy yummy!!!) Italian too
Warehouse Operative.
ds1
13
ds2
1 (on the 1st Apr awwww)
Had 4th mc in April 2005. Previous laproscopys due to bad Endometriosis.

Silly little fact- I'm obsessed with cowprint! Anything with a cow print pattern !!!! Ohhhhhh

me carly
Age 23

DP
Age 26
Job:IT Support

Children: 2 DS 1yr and 2yr

first mc may 2000, dec 2000, sept 2001, had my first ds in oct 2002, mc at fourteen wks in april 2003, had my second ds in june 2004, and most recent mc at 13 wks end may/early june 2005

My stats:

me
Age: 39 (almost the dreaded four-oh)
Job: full time website designer/webmaster/IT sys admin, and part-time ski instructor (though don't do so much since having ds)

dh
Age: 41
Job: F/T Network Design Engineer, and part-time ski instructor

Location: Warwickshire

ttc. #2
history:
ttc 18 months - m/c at 6 weeks
ttc 30 months - ds born on my 36th birthday
ttc 32 months - m/c at 11 weeks May 2005
ttc again since May 2005

me
age: 34
job: Company Director

dh
age:34
job: Company Director(not as grand as it sound, we have our own business and work together)

Have dd who will be 2 at the end of aug. Desperate for baby no 2. dh a little reluctant as I,ve struggled to put on weight since dd was born, I am very very thin. Been checked out by doc, nothing wrong with me!
Became pregnant in june, m/c at 8 weeks. Trying very hard to fatten up to give next pregnancy a better chance.

Me
Age: 30
Stay at home mum

DH
Age: 31
Job: Electrician

DS1 6
DS2 5
DS3 2

Live in Kent

First M/C: 7/8/05 7weeks. Started bleeding on the Sunday. Got worse over next couple of days. Went to A&E on the Tuesday morning and got immediate referral to EPU that day. Scanned and told that 1 of 3 things was happening ; 1 - eptopic preg; 2 - I had my dates wrong; 3 - miscarrying and "baby" had already detached and was on way out. Went to loo when I woke up next morning and saw sack and membranes (TMI??)

Baby I lost wasn't planned and DH had a bit of trouble coming to terms with it. But think we will try again. I am desperate to have another baby.

me
Age: 36
Job: Operation Analyst

DH
Age: 33
Job: Senior Manager

DD 2
M/C started 13 August 2005, was 8weeks + 1, but no growth/development since 5 weeks & no heartbeat
ERCP 16 August 2005

welcome mojomummy - if you would like to join us on the ttc after a m/c chat thread, then here is a link, we're a great support group, you'll be made very welcome. Very sorry to hear of your loss, I lost my babies early like you, I know you will be heartbroken. Please feel free to bawl and scream with us

ttc after m/c thread

Me
Age 29
part time medical admin/Full time mum
Live in SW London, new to the site, but great to 'meet' you all.

DH
Age 41
Sports Physician

DD - 2 in early October

1st Missed M/C Christmas 2004 - 12 week scan - no heartbeat. ERPC New Years Day.

2nd Missed M/C June 2005 - had scan at 8 weeks no heartbeat. Still no heatbeat 1 week later. ERPC.

Hi Carriew - sorry to see you on here. Did you see the link in Diddles message to join the TTC ? Not sure if you are, so there if you want to come over..

carriew - are you lurking?? hope you're ok, and please feel free to come and introduce yourself as mojomummy says, the link is a few messages down, we'd love to hear from you.

Me: SAHM with 12month old DS
Recently gave up work as primary teacher.
Age: 32

DH: Software Engineer
Age: 37

M/c 21 July 2005 scanned at 6wks and 8wks but m/c at 10+ baby stopped growing at 8+

Live in N. Wales.

Previous diagnosis of PCOS but disappeared after 5 stone weight loss caused by serious illness!
Now type 1 (insulin dep) diabetic