very tmi but please help!

[meerkatsandkookaburras]

were ttc, on cycle 23 now and getting very frustrated lol anyway im on day 10 today of a varying cycle - my cycles vary from 22 to 44 days ish though average is usually about 29. so if i was to bd today it may be ideal, may not, anyway with that in mind. I have a colproscopy again tomorrow at the hospital. wondering if anyone knows how obvious it is if you have bd'd and how far before it i should try to avoid, ie is tonight ok but not tomorrow morning?? my colproscopy is at 10.45 tomorrow. I want to bd plenty but also dont want to feel embarressed if something is said or its obvious etc, does that make sense?!!? so anyone know?!

aww. That is totally embarassing, but I am sure they have seen it all before. I did hear someone once said if you BD then do keigels half an hour after (you know - squeezing) that way all the swimmers will be where you want then but the rest will 'drain out'

They are professionals, I'm sure they won't say anything as they'll have seen it all before.

Don't let it worry you.

I think sperm can live for something like 72 hours.

If you were having a camera up your bum and they saw the swimmers, now that would be a different story

forgive my ignorance, what is bd'd?

Fucking.

hmmm ok!

It stands for baby dancing skymoo. I'm actually incapable of using that acronym but it's a mumsnet standard.

ahhh yes, I have heard that on here now you say it!