Twenties ttc part 2

[seanybosmummysfedupwaiting]

Hi girls, here's the new thread...may it bring baby dust,bfps and positivity

GOOD LUCK EVERYONE

Hey ladies,

Hows the weather where you are?? It is pissing buckets here DS really wants to go play on the trampoline - I said he could if he got his wellies on and his waterproofs

I am feeling normal again I was feeling a little 'off' the past couple of days, but it seems to have passed. I have bought 2 hpts today (cheapy strip ones that cost me 2euro). I was tempted to try one, but I restrained myself - not quite ready for the BFN yet.

I reckon AF will appear on the 10th or thereabouts. She really should have been here on 26th (ish)but i think the 'funny' period I had has messed things up. will just have to wait.

Seany - glad to hear you are doing well Where in your cycle are you?

Should we do a list??

Just wanted to give it a friendly bump

Morning,

Pretty grotty in London today... I'm enjoying being cosy at home but alas, work does tend to impose!

AntdamnUallToHell - I really recommend holding your nerve for as long as you can... I did a test yesterday (BFN) and it got me down a bit. Still no sign of AF though (I'm due monday) so I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

A list is a good idea - I was thinking that myself. Here are my stats to kick things off:

jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26 CD21

Hey Ladies,

Jumblequeen - I can't believe you tested!!! You were supposed to be holding out. Show some restraint woman!

I have not caved yet. I am definitely holding out til the 10th. I have hidden the tests - out of sight, out of mind. I hope

This morning I was dizzy when I woke up, DP reckons it's because I am hungry. He said my stomach was runbling during sleep I really am a greedy bugger.

Jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26 CD21
Antdamm TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL32ish CD41??

AntdamnUallToHell - I know, i know... I have no self restraint at all!

I can't believe your tummy was rumbling in your sleep! Let's hope it's because you're feeding something

Nothing much else to report apart from a sore back and a sort of funny cramping quite low down my stomach... never had that before. It's probably just the mother of all AFs though. Bah!

Hey Jumble,

Funny cramping ? Sounds interesting You never know.

You MUST refrain from testing again til Monday!!! Ok??

I am not feeling anything today
I think I feel completely normal. I think I would like to feel symptoms of something - even if it just the start of another period.

Okay! It's for my own good, I know

I think I've been thinking about it all too much... I don't want to add inventing "sypmtoms" to the madness so I'm going to try to ignore anything/everything until I know either way.

Chin up about not feeling anything - I keep reminding myself that everyone is different . When are you planning to test?

Can i join :-)

Just stareted BDing so long was off testing yet - good luck everyone!

Jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26 CD21
Antdamm TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL32ish CD41??
Katiecubs TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL31ish CD11

I was having a little think last night and I think I'm going to suggest to DH that we step back from trying too hard this month. Combination of lots of christmas parites coming up + potential august baby? Anyone else doing the same, or I am just hugely lacking commitment to Operation Up the Duff?

Jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26 CD21
Antdamm TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL32ish CD41??
Katiecubs TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL31ish CD11
Sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL31ish CD20

Hey girlies

Ant my af due next friday. Cant belimeve your willpower!!!! I certainly wouldnt be able to restrain myself! lol

Jumble thats interesting symptoms you have -heres hoping!

Jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26 CD21
Antdamm TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL32ish CD41??
Seanybosmummy TTC#2 Cycle 18 UCL 29-31 CD22

Hey ladies,

Welcome katiecubs!!

Jumblequeen - I'm planning to test on the 10th. I didn't have any symptoms when PG with DS, just a missed period

Sparechange - I had an August baby Some people would rather not have one in August because of problems with school. But, personally I wouldn't mind another August baby But that is just me. Maybe a small break will do you good??

Jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26 CD21
Antdamm TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL32ish CD41??
Katiecubs TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL31ish CD11
Sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL31ish CD20

Missed you there Seany.

I have terrible willpower - its the fear of a BFN that is holding me back!! [massive wimp here]

Jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26 CD21
Antdamm TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL32ish CD41??
Katiecubs TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL31ish CD11
Sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL31ish CD20
Seanybosmummy TTC#2 Cycle 18 UCL 29-31 CD22

thanks Ant,
DH thinks I'm mad to even take it into consideration, but I have a friend who is a primary school teacher who mentioned in passing years ago that she wouldn't want a summer baby and it has always stuck in my mind... Silly how I get hung up on things!!

It is more not wanting to abstain from all the work christmas things in case my boss twigs. There are only so many 'antibiotics' that I can be on in one month

Hi everyone - can I join in please? Im fairly new to mumsnet and have never joined a thread like this before but everyone always seems so supportive! Am just hoping it wont increase my obsessing too much...

I'm 26 and came off the pill in May - havn't really been 'trying' - more just seeing what happens.. which unfortunatly is not a lot!

Im in a very similar position to Mazza999 as my periods are also slightly irregular - I always have one each month but they always vary between 29 - 36 days. Im not sure if this is something I should be worried about and could be why it seems to be taking a while to conceive? any advice?

Can I be nosy and ask how old everyone is here, and when you decided to TTC?

Hi gem, welcome!
It is a bit weird doing the first post, isn't it...
I'm (just) 28 and we've been sort of trying since July. We've taken it a bit more seriously in the last couple of months...

I'd previously been on the pill for about 9 years straight, so wanted to give my bits a chance to remember how to work before we started making more of an effort.

Still haven't gone down the temping/fertility test route, but I am taking folic acid

Hi Ladies, sorry not been around much lately - MN and TTC been very intense lately - some worry about another mc if I get pregnant again, the usual concerns really but it got a bit much and had to step away a bit. Am trying to lurk around still but am not posting as obsessively as before.

But I'll happily add myself to your stats

Antdamm TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL32ish CD41??
Seanybosmummy TTC#2 Cycle 18 UCL 29-31 CD22
Jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26 CD21
Sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL31ish CD20
Kaylo TTC#3 Cycle 2(after mc) UCL 29 CD13
Katiecubs TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL31ish CD11

And have updated in date order - so we know who's gonna be testing next....

xxxx

Welcome newbies!

Speaking as an august baby myself (ahem!) I would say that it's an excellent time to have a child... If nothing else, I felt that I was almost a year younger than some of the other kids in my year so if I didn't win the sack race, I could console myself with "being too little".

KayloFireworks - don't be a stranger! I think this is one of the nicest threads that I'm a part of on MN... stay with this one, if nothing else! I suppose it's easy to say 'try not to worry' but easier said than done. As long as you're looking after yourself then I'm sure you'll be fine
Love the idea of the 'ordered' list too... I'll be getting excited when (if) my name comes to the top...

sparechange - It seems that a lot of us are in the same boat with the pill... does anyone know how long it takes your body to readjust?

x x x x

Sorry everyone iposted same time as 2 others earlier and missed you out when i added myself to the list, didnt do it intentionally

Welcome newbies and good luck.

gembay - I'm 26 and this is my (our!) second month of trying. It sounds daft, but I feel like my body has been waiting for me to be a mum for a little while now...

As for your AF, I can only say that I would imagine it takes your body a while to readjust - I seem to have been unusually lucky in this sense (on the other hand, when I came off the pill for a couple of months a few years ago I had a three week long AF!)

A relaxed attitude is a good thing to have though - I'm sure being stressed out can't help your fertility. Best Of Luck!

Hey Ladies,

Welcome Gembay!!

Hi Kaylo - Nice to see you! Hope you are keeping well. Maybe, silent lurking is the way to go just now until you feel to obsess again I like your organisation of the list, but I am not testing til the 10th.

I lost my internet connection when trying to post on here yesterday and didn't get it back til about midnight (by which time I was peacefully sleeping) So annoying.

I am really sleepy this morning, set our alarm for half seven. Alarm went off, I turned it off and went back to sleep and didn't get up til 8:45. So, we have just ahd a mad dash around the house. Getting DS dressed, fed and his lunchbox made up. DP was running around like a madman - he has to drop car off at garage to get exhaust fixed - ooops. Silly me.

I am going to update the list for today - apologies for any mistakes.

Antdamm TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL32ish CD42??
Seanybosmummy TTC#2 Cycle 18 UCL 29-31 CD23
Jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26 CD22
Sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL31ish CD21
Kaylo TTC#3 Cycle 2(after mc) UCL 29 CD14
Katiecubs TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL31ish CD12

Bumping because I'm impatient

CD23... That means I only have three days left before I can reasonably test!

Antdamn, Seanbosmummy, Kaylo - just realised you are experienced in all of this madness! Glad to see that we have someone with an idea of what they're doing steering this ship for us

hahahhahahahahahaha - You think we have any idea what we are doing??

Are you mad woman!!!?

Listen lady, I need to hold on to that idea otherwise I'll be back on the pill before you can say "sleepless nights"!

Of course, I am only pulling your leg. We know everything about this TTC lark. And we know exactly what we are doing

Reassured now?