To cut a long story short, we wanted large family before we started, had twins (now 6), & had a fairly hard time of it with zero family support etc. Decided to go for #3 2 yrs ago. Had m/c. And ever since then he won't even discuss it. Will be too late soon for me (am 42). When I have managed a conversation about it he says he's too tired, the age gap is too big bla bla bla, but he is ga ga when he sees friends' babies and in my heart of hearts I feel he wants another but just can't take the plunge. Anyone managed to persuade their reluctant DH?