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[charleepeters]

Well here we are on another thread and im hoping this one is a bit more lucky! welcome girls!!!

take it away!

Im Charlee (duh!)
im 18
i have 1 ds - 9 months
CD - 12

ttc after 9 months of heavy bleeding with ds, waiting for ov now to get the ball rolling!

wanting any kind of beanie colour/size doesnt matter aslon as its/they are healthy!

hugs to all! xxxx

No Way! I didn't think there were any in Nottingham! Is there a link to a thread you could let me have? Is it a general one or TTC?

Anyway. Thanks for the welcomes, everyone. Good Luck with TTC!

Must pay more attention to the meet up threads! I've just been to Tescos - it's the perfect time to shop - no queues, no problems parking - brilliant! That said, I did feel profoundly sad shopping at 10pm on a Friday night!

Welcome to the thread Ponka - hope you're not here too long (in a good way!).

Evening ladies! Apologies for being absent the last couple of days but had some bad news....a friend's little girl (4 weeks old) died this week from an infection related crisis after having had major heart surgery only 3 days after she was born. It's so incredibly sad and for a while, it was making me feel terribly guilty about being so manic on the TTC front. Somehow all my woes of dh not being enthusiastic seemed to be wholly inappropriate .... Anyway - felt I owed you all a bit of an explanation for my absence!

I'm now on cd15, had EWCM on Wednesday which was handy because dh and bd'd on Tuesday evening before he went away. So having managed the bd thing only once this cycle - he's not back until Sunday...I'm not holding out any hope at all and now just have the normal OV cramps, odd feelings in my boobs, etc. etc. Oh the joys of not knowing what's going on!!

So...finally to catch up with everyone else:

Welcome to all the new people - Blueberrypie, Kaysha, Dana, LottieG, Bubble99, Slink, angedmarche, lunarsea, ponka. Hope your stays are short

Romilly - sorry to hear that AF arrived this week and that you've been feeling a bit down. Discovered a stash of Mars Bars in the house this week....so I know have a few of them keeping cool in the fridge. Not a patch on G&B I know but it's making me feel better right now!

Hulababy - can't believe what's happening about your house - it's outrageous! Definitely time for the mumsnet heavies if you ask me! Seriously though, I do hope the new agents are able to help.

Wendy11 - hope you're keeping well.

Rachelrog - Wow! Congratulations!!

Munz - glad to see you're feeling a little better.

Charleepeters - saw your photo on your member profile thread. So nice to be able to put a face to a name. You look lovely!

Hello also to Frizbe, Piffle, Harriezb, Spacecadet, sparkly, Staryeyed, flamesparrow and Milomum......and to those who may still be reading this rather epic post....sorry if i've forgotten anyone!!

Hope you all have great weekends!

Handbag - really sorry to hear about your friend's baby. Can't imagine what they must be going through

Will be thinking of them

morning all ponka iya welcome to the mad house! lol

well sent DH the text and he's now asleep - he came in claiming to be tooo tired as he worked all night - men! so no BD for me, well he'll just have to wait until i'm feeling favourable again!

Oh handbag; I am sorry sorry to hear about your friend's little baby. Heart breaking

Glad to see you found the meet up thread Ponka

hi just a quicky!

sorry about your fri ends bubby handbag

fertilty frind is saying i ov'ed on the 7th and but weve been bding everyday this month anyway so im covered just waiting now!

hugs to all

morning all im back landed at 5.45 this morning took me ages to find you lot again as you moved to another thread.Munz milosmum i am so very sorry for your mc and know exactly how you feel sending you huge hugs.Rachel ans spacecadet Congrats [GRIN].Handbag thats so sad im so very sorry.Hi to everyone missed you better post my stats now.

ME 32
DH 32
Trying to conceive for 13mths now
had 2 mcs last one was 2 wks b4 we went on hols to cuba
trying to concieve our first and have first appointment with gynae for investigations this thurs.

By the way holiday has done me and dh good and we have talked laughed and cryed and i feel very close to him again now as you know mc made me put my barriers up but we did alot of talking and i feel alot more positive now feel a little apprehensive about appoint on thurs though.

woohoo debs is back! yay!!! good holiday hon?

good luck on thursday. will be thinkin of ya we have an ultra sound in the mornign and a MRI scan in the afternoon on thrus! (new private hospital as well!)

what CD etc r u on?

hi munzy fantastic holiday thanks v v hot ermm i think im on cd 3 but im just on fertility freind now as i af arrived on hols on tues so need to put info in how are you im so sorry about your mc ((((hugs)))) xx

ill be thinking about you too on thurs.

Hi everybody, I really need you all today. Feeling so
depressed and been in tears for about 10 minutes. My
dd's dad came to pick her up and my dd rang me from
his mobile 10 minutes down the road and said guess
what "Kay is having another baby" - that is my dd's
stepmum. I am so gutted. They have got two, the
youngest being 3 at Christmas when the new baby is
born. I am so down I dont know how I am going to pick
myself up. I cant believe it, my dd is going to be
all over the new baby and I just cant do it for her.
I have just cried all over DH and he has tried to
console me, what am I going to do, how am I going to
cope. I just want to fall into a big deep hole and
never come out.
Bev

Oh WB, I'm here love.

How awful for you...but please don't get so down as it won't do your chances any good (I know, I know, just what you really don't want to hear when it seems impossible to keep going sometimes.)

What you have to realise is that it's not your fault that your ex is having another child. Sorry if that's a bit blunt, but it's true. I know it will be so hard to feel pleased for them but this new baby will be your dd's half sibling (is that right?). Yes, she probably will be all over him/her, but that'll just be good practice for when you have yours!! She'll be used to having a baby around and just think what an expert she'll be in feeding and changing nappies!

Please don't lose heart. If your dd goes away with her father every now and again, couldn't you and your dp go away for a weekend and spoil yourselves rotten(preferably around ov time)?

I really hope you feel better soon,

love BL xx

oh worriedbev i know how you feel my sister rang me a few weeks ago to tell me shes expecting, i was gutted, but i have to be happy for her shes my family and i cant take it out on her because i havent concieved yet. i know its hard but were all here for you.

welcome any newcomers.

hugs to all xxx

hello all- and to the newbies- been a bit down the last couple of days- but hey thats to be expected right? just looking forward to my hols on friday

worriedbev- how are you?i ll tell you what i keep telling myself, you ve done it once right? your body knows what to do, its just a case of the right time..... chin up honey .

hope everyone else is good....

sorry to hear you've been down milosmum, yes it is normal for a while, i hope you have a fab time on your holls!

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thanks charlee- looks like you ve really made sure you BD at the right time this month- good luck!

oh WB (((hugs))) for you hon. it's not ur fault, it's just one of those things and old mother nature has a sick sence of humour if u ask me. as BL said u're DD will be a dab hand at nappy changes by the time u have yours - I beleive u were booked in for two beanies on the last thread, so wait and see - u take all of my dust quota for this month hon.

MM - have a nice time on friday. sorry to hear you're feeling down agian. i'm here thou if u need me.

(how about a group hug girls)((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

(and loads of choc!)

hi milosmum it is understandable feeling so down i do from my last mc but just go on your hols like we did talk laugh get drunk relax and you will feel a lot better trust me ive just comr back from doing just that.Infact the first day i was drinking cocktails with dh in the day on the beach and just started to cry about the mc dh was v good and we both actually had the time to sit and really talk but more importantly really LISTEN to each other and comfort each other you will feel so much better believe me.xx

group hug ((((hugs))))

Hi Just wanted to add my bit to the hugs {{{hugs}}} debbsy it's nice to have you back, and I'm so pleased that you and DH have had some quality you time . Worriedbev - I wish I could make this right for you but all I can do is send you hugs and support, as others have said we're here to help where we can. Take care of yourself xxxxx

MM I hope your holiday is relaxing and allows you and DP time to be together.

Hello Handbag, sounds like it's rough over your way too so about your friends little girl , but it's good to see you.

Lots of hugs to everyone and speak tomorrow.

H x

Thank you everybody for your kind messages and thoughts. Feeling ok at the mo but seeing dd when she comes back tomorrow night and dont know how I am going to react, she does know mummy is ttc as she catches me on the board from time to time and she is 11 going on 16!! She will be talking about it all the time I know and it will just drag me down more and more.
BL - nice to see you on the board, hope you are ok, how are things going with you? Any more news on DH's wrigglers?
Bevx