TTC after a Miscarriage - no 2, let the fun begin!!!!

[Diddle]

Here we go girls, a brand new thread, i was so fed up of paging down over the other 1000 messages.

Oh how cool, i've always wanted to do that! Well i'm sure you'll have a lovley weekend! Make sure you relax and enjoy it x

i'll try. feeling a bit annoyed with DH at the moment, he's very snappy and moody, mainly because he's not well, and feels run down. but him taking it out on me is making me feel really down, and not doing me any good. I have told him this but it has made no difference.
I can't wait till our holiday in a few weeks, just to be away from the stresses of work and home will do him and me the world of good. He needs this break, just so i can have my real DH back not this stressed out one.

wow that feels better, sorry not sure where that came from. nice to get it out though.
thansk guys for letting me vent, much needed.

lottielou - are you going to get your dp into gear tonight too? butter him up, just be really nice then you might get some bd in.
or throw the x box out the window, sounds like a good plan to me.
When are you heading for Norfolk, today or tomorrow?
think i might miss you, don't get too worried if i start stalking you

I think that sounds like a good plan to me, throwing the xbox out the window that is
I am not going until next week hun, i am going on Thursday eveing and back on Monday afternoon. We then have Tuesday off to go to Alton Towers and then back to work on Weds.
I will miss you this weekend but will telepathically be in touch over the weekend
I will not get worried about you stalking me hun just dont get bunny boiling! Hee Hee!
It really sounds daft but feels like i have met you and have known you for years! You are a very special person doodles!

lottielou - you're not too bad yourself promise not to bunny boil. Thanks matey very nice to know i'm special, i think you are too.
Have looked into doing the race for life but they're all closed, all the ones that are close enough, maybe next time.
silly me thinking that you were going this weekend. oops

thats a shame that they are all closed, i will run extra fast for you then. Am going running after work, in this heat, i must be bonkerz!
So are you heading off tomo then?

no we're heading off this evening and coming back Sunday evening.
all the kids have gone, now i just have to tidy the toys away and find all the ones they have hidden under the sofa.
can't imagine running in this heat

Well huni I hope you have a lovely weekend! Have a safe journey and i'm sure i'l hear all about it.

To all the rest of you hope you have a fab bank holiday! Catch you on Tues x

Love Ya'll x

lottielou - have you gone????

bye bye have a good weekend, make sure you get BD. Go and put your feet up and have a nice glass of wine while you still can

Have I missed everyone? Well day has been v busy so far, and friend arriving in half an hour. Have to persuade her to do HPT if she hasn't already .

Just a quickie for now to say have a good weekend everyone as you all seem to be off! My folks have broadband too so should still be able to check in over the weekend, though guess none of you will be here to talk to!

Well have a good one everybody - hope the sunshine brings babies for you all .

thanks tabs you have a good weekend too, i'm just packing and going to get a chinese now.

enjoy the sun

Hello to all!!

I have now entered the dreadful 2 week wait as think i ovulated yesterday. My temperature shot up so I think little eggy was released.

Plenty of rumpy pumpy been going on so who knows I may just get my much dreamed about BFP!

Feel like we have really really tried our best this month......period due 10th June so going to be strong and not test until after that date.....probably kidding myself but going to try my best to not waste money on tests and keep disappointing myself with BFN's.

Hoping you are all ok and staying positive!

I feel like in a few weeks there are going to be a few BFP's on here!!!!!!!!! I just know it!!!

A special loopy hello to Lottie and Diddle......

Evening girls hope you don't mind me gatecrashing for a moment but just wanted to pop on and say hi to Diddle and Xena and to see how they are? Hope you both had good weekends.

We're missing you guys on the thread so please come over and chat to us sometimes. I know it must be difficult to come back & chat to us but perhaps we can make another thread that we can all just have general chat on.

Right better go before you lot kick me off. Love to all and sending lots of baby dust & hoping to hear good news from you in the near future. Enjoy the Bding!

Hi

My god you lot can talk!!!!!!!!

Its taken me ages to scroll down this list.

Just to let you know there is light at the end of a horrid tunnel.

I had my first mc aged 18 (I know, very young) - no reason for it, just no heartbeat at my supposed 11 wk scan (later found baby died at 7 weeks) . Had my dd aged 20 . Had another mc at 23 (8 wks) and another the following year (5 wks) - I was advised to take low dose asprin 3 mths before trying to conceive and then for the first 12 wks and now have ds aged 3

There are 10 yrs between my lovely babies (my teenager will ALWAYS be my baby!!) but we got there in the end!!! Looking back, I never really enjoyed any of my pregnancies for the first few months (except my first one of course) - but the further along you get, the more optimistic you become.

I went to a genetics counsellor after my 3rd mc who said its so important to leave at least 3 cycles after a mc before trying again - your body needs time to recover. Not what you want to hear but that's life for you!!!

My fingers, toes and anything else that can be are crossed for those who are ttc .

Byeeeee

hi, im still about just been busy, cd20 today, pos on opk on thurs dh wasat home so sneaked one in when dd2 was asleep!

Hi all
Charliecat your story sounds like it has a happy ending will you be ttc anymore DC's?
Spacecadet do I remember your name from another thread do we have babies the same age my no3 is 10mths (born in july04?) Hoping you get you BFP this month

Rachelrog, diddle, tabs, lottielou and all the rest hope you are having a good weekend.
These last couple of months DS and DD1 have started being each others Bestfriends we went to hastings this weekend and they were going on all the rides together where as in the past DD was to small and we used to go on with DS its really lovely how they are together, am hoping there is a playmate for DD2 soon xx
Beksmum its nice to here from you I'm missing the nov thread.

hi beksmum - very nice of you to pop over, i'm ok thanks, not avoiding you all over on the Nov thread, just got totally hooked on this one. Busy bding, I am on CD21 i think, so a couple fo weeks i will be testing, if i can wait that long.

Hi Xena, hope you're enjoying your weekend.

Rachelrog - glad to hear you have been BDing and maybe we will all be testing aroundthe same time, great fun.

Lottielou - i presume you're off work today, so will speak to you tomorrow.

Hi to everyone i have forgotten.
MaddyD how are you doing?? have you tested yet. i'm thinking of you. crossing everything for your BFP!

sorry - and charliecat, thank you for your words of wisdom, its good to know that there is light at the end of our tunnels. We'll all get there one day. So sorry to hear about your losses.

Xena - did you mean me???

If so, no don't think we'll try for anymore - I've got one of each now, am in my (ahem) mid thirties and think its time we sat back & relaxed for a while. Have just been on our first holiday abroad for 5 years and I think I've got the travel bug - def want to go away again this year. Think I'm going to be selfish now, look after my babies & enjoy myself into the bargain.

On the other hand, I don't want to think that I'll never be pg again, as worrying as it was, it had its good times, you know, the scans (except for that awful feeling you're going to pee your pants!!) when they move & kick & just that overall feeling of completeness. Flipping heck, I think I've convinced myself to have another!!!

Only joking .

Am off now with ds to go and feed the ducks & see if I can scrounge lunch at the inlaws - DH is in Crete at the moment with some of his friends. Jammy bugger!

Before we go the see the ducks, I just wanted to let you all know that as painful as your losses are at the moment, it does get easier as time passes, trust me, I've been there.

I can now talk about each & every one of them without feeling the need to burst into tears or sink into a deep depression but its taken its time. My couselling taught me that everything happens for a reason & whatever the cause of a mc, its usually because something just isn't right at that particular time.

Please don't think I'm preaching - I really hated it when people told me "never mind, you can always try again" & wanted to scream at them " I don't want to try again, I want it back" but instead you just put on that brave face and agree with them.

I know 'm lucky because I've got my babies now and as much a pain as they can be, I wouldn't change a thing.

Lots of love & positive vibes to you all!!!!!!!!!

thank you charlie they're much appreciated. have a great time feeding the ducks.

its very quiet on here today. i hope that you're all enjoying the sun

Hey Diddle, hope you're doing well today. Kinda enjoying the sun, when it bothers to peep out from under the big black clouds threatening to soak my washing! I guess I live at the wrong end of the country!

How's everything going Tabs? Sickness kicked in yet?

Big hello to everyone else, hope you're enjoying the bank hol - isn't one here in Scotland but I've got the day off anyway!

hi xena! yes we are on the babies born july and aug thread! my dd2(baby no 4!!!) is 10 months, was born, 20th july.